Men (Over 40) Choose Women Based On THESE TWO FEELINGS

Men (Over 40) Choose Women Based On THESE TWO FEELINGS

While men, in general, choose women based on a variety of reasons, there are two primary needs required to fully commit to a relationship.

That's right, two primary needs.

Whether you're a man or a woman, I've noticed most humans date & mate from a place of expectations seeking to feel high every second, and the minute there's a bump in the road, many men fold because the relationship is lacking two fundamentals.

In today's video, we are going to explore the DEEPER "need" men over 40 seek when they are ready to fully commit to another human being.

Let's talk about... Men (Over 40) Choose Women Based On THESE TWO FEELINGS

[BarbaraMerryGeng]

I’m taking a break from men
Bringing in the focus to minding my own business & having fun by myself.
It’s way less stress 🧘🏻‍♀️

[hollis]

It’s funny, my dad is 70 and he always says guys are stupid until they get into their 40’s. I think is a rash generalization but it’s his experience. But, I’m 46 and I feel I get better every year in so many aspects. Gratitude is an essential part of growth and happiness. I think you need to be happy/grateful on your own before looking for someone else

[marthas.]

I'm saying nearly everyday to my husband how lucky I'm because I found him. He loves me as I'm I don't have to pretend to be someone else. Just now I understood how important is to be able to show our vulnerability in relationships. I never used to do this, not even in my family, because I often received criticism if I dared to show my weakness. My husband taught me I shouldn't feel ashamed for it.

[milesnolan]

Im a 60 year old female and never on a date.Then i met a man who could be compatible .But hes married .So some people are given the gift of being single .

[rhobiemoreno]

The problem is...when you become vulnerable towards them, they starting to think you are weak, they feel terrified and think and became indecisive whether they will continue the relationship or not! For some occasions they ghost! Often times, you ended up dealing with a narcissist!😡🤦.

[ojala]

Great video, sounds logical, but most men don't act logically. A woman can't keep a man with gratitude. I've seen the exact opposite effect to gratitude with several men, in a relationship and also outside of it. Feeling always safe in a relationship sadly becomes boring for a man in long term. Only a mature and "healed" man appreciates gratitude as it is--a great gift. Emotionally unstable or men who don't intend to commit don't appreciate it. They just ghost especially seeing your gratitude.

[horsegal]

Unless he has someone else on his mind and not healed from last relationship. I did express gratitude, care, and so on. He just wasn't in the same place as me...from the start

[angelicaangel]

My gut tells me that no matter what age a man is he always picks the most attractive woman who will bother with him...feelings don't come into it unless it's the feeling she elicits in his third leg...😕

[lealeahazel]

I'm going to mirror a MAN..meaning if he shows gratitude on a consistant bases then I'll show gratitude 💁

[catricegreer]

Thank you for this video. Someone special told me he felt safe with me.

In that moment, I realized that was the first time any man who had my heart had ever said that to me.

I also realized that I felt the same——safe in my vulnerability with him. When I reflected, I realized I I’d never experienced that before so deeply in any prior relationship so early on with as much certainty. This video made me reflect on that.

We both say thank you to each other often, are appreciative and say what we are grateful for from each other without any prompting.

It seems to mean a lot to both of us that we each are mutually happy and feel appreciated and that we feel it as individuals and express it to each other. It is a very natural progression.

It’s a loving friendship/ relationship experience my heart has longed for, for a long time in relationships.

I hope we have healthy longevity, but if we don’t, I am grateful for these moments. It opened my heart back up to loving, being deeply, openly loved and appreciated while actively loving him back.

I thank you for this video.

It is very affirming to hear a man say these things about relationships.

Thanks for the guidance.

[Iam_msdee]

I am reading Getting The Love that You Want and it's "deep"- definitely a must read- but be warned, you might not be ready. If anyone is looking for an in depth understanding of self, and why one is reacting in a certain way- get this book. I suggest reading the recommended books Jonathon has shared- you have nothing to lose and much to gain
😊❤️💯👍

[lisalee]

I want a man to do topics for MEN. Explain to them that getting drunk and flirting isn't OK. Explain that they should heal some inner issues before serious dating. How about explain to them that They should be the kind of Man they would want for their Daughter. Please explain to them that they should be young at heart Not act like they are 18....they will never be 18 again 😃😄😃😄

[luxurytexashomes]

Hi Jonathan! Yes sadly I was in the cycle of not receiving gratitude so I didn’t give gratitude and started acting very entitled. This is how we learn to not make the same mistakes again!

[briana]

Sometimes I want to shout "well, what are the men doing?!" but I know thoughts and words have power! Jonathon, your shares make me optimistic! I have dated men in their 20s-40s and realize none of them were my person and I need to stop basing my attitude on past hurts and lessons. My person will be healed enough to build a great foundation in which we'll flourish :)

[trishataylor]

I gave my guy plenty of gratitude thanking him all the time for being there for me and for doing things together and yet he still doesn't get me and will call me ridiculous and childish when something happens when we're out that disturbs me and he doesn't even try to understand where I'm coming from so gratitude or no gratitude it might help but it's not the glue

[margueritecrater]

I have to admit the more I listen to ur videos the more I realize I already know these things

[LandLadyCatHerd]

Oh my gosh! This is spot on! I was not feeling safe emotionally with my boyfriend and now I realize he wasn't feeling it with me. After 3 years he broke up with me and I am having a hard time emotionally with it, I'm ok one minute and the next I'm in tears. My friends are telling me I'm better off without him and it bothers me that this is so difficult.

[janefronczak]

Yes, I feel like this is so spot on and happy to hear you pick these! My ex and I were besties so I had the hardest time wondering what happened. Eventually came to the realization that there was a lot of taking for granted on both sides and not enough true gratitude and appreciation

[leestone]

Turning 40 this year… although I’m married I do enjoy understanding men.. and there was a time we were separated a few years ago but ended up getting back together we have children and making it work but wow!!! It’s quite interesting when I was seeing a few men during that time all of this makes so much sense!! Thanks for helping so many women!!! Your hard truths and comical ways of explaining is awesome!!

[lorrievaccaro]

Thank you for your sincere videos. Dating after 45 is not for the weak. You have helped me to peel back the layers and rewrite or repair my understanding of relationships. Your work has purpose. Thank you!