Men (Over 40) Choose Women Based on THESE 4 FEELINGS (My Best Advice)

Men over 40 need certain things to stick around. They need to feel a certain way. Its up to the woman to make him feel this way. Here are the things that men want in a woman.

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[blissreframed]

Men like who they like! Period. All of the do this and do that does not mean a hill of beans to most men. A man will jump through hoops for the woman that he wants.

[stephanieharrison]

When my husband left us homeless I truly NEEDED a man and didn't have one so I had to man up for myself. I worked 2 jobs, started my own business, raised my daughter and rescued myself. Now, the only men that show up are moochers. I will never NEED a man again!

[rejabelee]

1. Needed 2. Appreciated 3. Accepted 4. Boundaries Thank you for that!!

[starshake]

So... make him "feel needed" but don't ever be "needy." Simple. 🙄

[shondaponder]

I am independent. I don't need a knight in shining armor to come an save me...but it would be nice to have one who wants to.

[tashtash]

Instead of me making him feel needed how about his parents instilling confidence in him to begin with so when he meets a woman who can do for herself he understands that he's there because he's wanted. It's so much better to be wanted than needed.

[suncluster]

Mine are the same with the addition of don’t lie to me and don’t try to f*ck everything that moves behind my back. I don’t date often anymore because I am tired of setting a boundary of “don’t lie to me” which should fall under basic human decency.

[martycech]

Friendship + caring+teamwork= A Good relationship...

[vhayashi]

This only works if they are Mentally healthy And WANT a relationship... I haven't found any!!!! 🤷😩

[anitajohnson]

Women also want to needed and appreciated accepted and share boundaries. And to know that both of you do not cross boundaries with other people like cheating.

[nancygaudreau]

Even when the man gets all these 4 traits they can still leave you...happened to me...!

[lamuel]

Be yourself, love yourself, respect yourself, appreciate him.

[Courtney-ofpo]

I see women in a complete masculine role with some of my friends that have raised children by themselves for many years. I have at least 4 solid examples of beautiful, kind, educated and fully self sufficient women that have been single for years and either have a very hard time keeping a man or have given up all together. It boggles my mind.
I think part of the reason is simply because they keep that constant mindset of I can do this all by myself, I don't need you. So while being independent is great, giving the man a chance to be helpful and needed is probably a great tip.

[sandyshealingjourney]

What actually attracts a man on a deep subconscious level and what they want on a conscious level are two very different things. They may say they "want" this or that, but that is not always what they need to actually stay invested.

[jnnie]

A man wants to feel needed. A woman wants to feel wanted..

[DimensionSeven]

There's a quote from a movie that really resonates with me. She was asked why she hadn't married yet and she said she was waiting.... "I'm looking for a man I can rely on. A man I can truly depend on". And I think of that often. I wait for men to open doors. And then they do. I walk in and let them walk first. They lead into the bar and I walk behind watching over the entire room. If I don't know what I want I let him choose the kind of beer I like. He asks where we should sit and I point to an area to where friends are or we can sit in quiet. It works every time. Every man I've done this with just melts for me. He tells me his hopes and dreams and I encourage the best of him. I draw examples from my own experiences and make relevant to him. I control the conversation through listening and when things get boring I make a comment on external factors. A joke or observation. It always works. I am a counselor so I enjoy the psychoanalysis!

[marybeth]

#1. Make him feel NEEDED
#2. Make him feel APPRECIATED
#3. Make him feel ACCEPTED for who he is
#4. A man needs BOUNDARIES

[blackcherry]

I love to see us women standing up for ourselves in this comment section 👏🏾

[annette]

Some men I have met had given me the impression and have spoken, "If you need help with anythng let me know, " and when I have let them know...crickets. I dated a guy who automatically knew he was needed, I never had to ask him for anything, he saw a need and provided. I appreciated everything he did for me, mindful that he too had needs, and I reciprocated. We were both givers/providers for each other. The point is that men are the providers if he is saying "I will provide for you, " the words have to become action.

[nicoletambasco]

The reason I was successful and respected in my male dominated field is because I didn’t dip my pen in company ink, but more so because I loved and respected my husband so much. Told him every day I wouldn’t be successful at work with out him he got my everyday started right, made sure I looked good, looked professional (He took care of all of my business clothes because I am terrible at ironing and ruined a ton of tops over starching them).