Dating Men Over 40 - 5 Tips | Relationship Advice With Carlos Cavallo

Dating Men Over 40 – 5 Tips You MUST Know…

If you’ve been around long enough, you know that things change when you get a little older. Especially when it comes to love and relationships. Dating isn’t just a giggly trip to the movies like it was in your teens and twenties…

Now you have to deal with mature dating – and know how to handle things as a grown-up. Yeah, I know – bummer.

But things are better later on. You’re wiser, more confident, and you don’t have time to waste on game-playing with those “players” out there.

And if you have to date a guy over 40, you should know how to handle yourself – and not get surprised in the process.

So I’m going to cover 5 special tips for you if you’re dating a “silver fox” – that’s a more affectionate way of describing those guys that are a little more gray.

First – the benefits:

Older guys are better in bed. Usually, anyway. And that’s good for both of you!

Older guys are more established in their career, and they have more time for you…

Older guys have more interests and hobbies to include you in. It’s not just about playing beer pong on the weekends…

Older guys are also in a better place financially. (If you find yourself dating a guy who’s still struggling at age 40 with his money, that’s a red flag, by the way…)

Now, that last bullet point leads us right into the first tip:

Dating a guy over 40 – Tip #1: Follow The Money…

Watch how he treats you, and his money…

It goes without saying that if you’re dating a man, you want a guy that treats you right.

But you also want to choose a guy that has his financial $#!+ together.

Look, let’s be realistic – if you’re a woman dating a man, you care how much he makes. Nothing says “unattractive” like a low-ambition guy who’s content to just scrape by on a minimum wage job. And frankly, if you’re still dating these guys, you need to level-up, honey.

“What?? Carlos, are you saying it’s okay to be a gold-digger?”

No, I’m not saying you should look for some sugar-daddy to support you for the rest of your life…

HOWEVER, if you want a relationship with a real man, you need to choose a guy that’s earning his keep.

You see, women are attracted to rich men for a very practical reason: His earnings generally show how ambitious a provider he is. Women are attracted to providers. And men are happy to provide for you.

So don’t feel guilty that you’re turning into one of THOSE women. Looking at his earnings potential is just a way of seeing if you’re going to be stuck with Homer Simpson, or a guy who will lift you a bit higher up in life.

Oh, and watch how he manages and handles that money, too.

Is he stingy and tight? (This is bad…)
Is he conservative and frugal? (This is good…)
Is he frivolous and a show-off? (Again, bad…)
That will give you insight into his character that you might not be able to see until years into a relationship, so pay attention.

Courtship After 40 – Tip #2: Don’t Turn On The Change Machine…

A guy in his 40s is not going to be clay, my dear. He’s going to be pretty well set in his ways by now…

Meaning that you’re not likely to change him. And the worst thing you can do is to turn on your “change machine” and make him into your fixer-upper.

I might argue that trying to change ANY man is a bad idea – mostly because it sends the message that he’s not good enough as he is. This is the same as REJECTION to a man.

I’d also suggest that trying to change him is even more of a waste of time on a guy in his 40s or later.

When a person has reached their 40s, their personality is now set in stone. He knows who he is, and who he doesn’t want to be. And any woman that steps in and starts trying to make him “perfect” is in for a rude awakening.

The key for you is to choose a guy that’s “perfect enough” and leave it alone. Show gratitude for what you have.

Dating A “Silver Fox” – Tip #3: Remember What HE Wants…

If you want to hook a guy who’s in his 40s and is a better prospect for a partner, you gotta know what he’s looking for in a woman.

In a study of over 650,000 (yeah, that’s thousands) online dating profiles, here’s the top 2 traits men want in a woman – in order:

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Dating Men Over 40 - 5 Tips

[abaigealduda]

You didn't address the most common thing, which is that most men over 40 are divorced and have another family to support. Their kids come first and their ex-wives are also significant factors. You also didn't mention that men who haven't married by their 40s or 50s may want "fun, " but maybe there is a reason that they are still looking just for "fun" and are single.

[Christian_Girl]

I'm 53 and still yet to find a good guy. When you have been burned enough times you end up with a lot of baggage. I have gotten past most of it. I agree with finding one who is good with money is important. I work myself but am stuck with low end jobs because of circumstances I can't control. But I'm not a gold digger either. How I'm treated and his personality means more to me than what he has first and foremost.

[dakotablueskies]

I love the written script but hate it jumping back and forth. Great content. I am fun and honest and totally ready to commit. Thanks for renewing my confidence.

[johannamarrero]

I respect your raw honesty. Just became a fan.

[misheleclipper]

Loyalty goes both ways. I'm looking for this guy now... I may have met him already...😎

[f.maria]

I'm 32 years old and im crazy in love for a 51 year old men, he drive me nuts

[samanthapeters]

The list jumping back n forward between left to right is given me a headache.

[dbedazzling]

Yesss hes older n the best. Talk about a real man 😍

[DarkAries]

You need to level up, honey, haha. Very informative and logical video.

[cyneathiajones-gray]

Very helpful. I've turned down quite a few prospects in the last 25 years or so ... because they lacked very important qualities. You shared some quality advice! No one wants to grow old alone or be attached and miserable!

[commonsense]

Good guys are taken. The leftover are either too weird or too cheap. Some guys even unwilling offer a cup of coffee on the first date. Normally, their junk do not work either.LOL

[jenmc]

On the 'trying to change him' what if its the things he did at the beginning that made me fall in love with him I miss and ask for ? He takes it as judgment?

[kimmaureenjensen]

Single Educated and Lonely in Red Deer darn it !!!

[sl]

Amazing advice, but Ive been re aquainted with a guy from my past luke 24 years ago!?he remembers stuff I dont!!at first. Idk

[auruminsanity]

Just for fun:A man's life is like a train.At 20, he stops at every station.At 40, he stops at only important stations.At 60, he stops only to pee.😋😚😚

[sitapatrick]

This is great stuff it helps a lot plus i would rather be with an older man that does have his shit together. However i was with someone that was 44 years old and the whole time we was togther this man thought he was 20. In fact everything he wanted to do was of 20 years old people. He ended up be a liar, cheater, sneaky, selfish, greedy, Self absorbed, entitled and a bunch of other things and at the end of all that i dealt with me left me smfh. I am happy to say i am much better without the headache, stress, and sadness he cause me now that he is gone. So yes give me an older man pls.

[lenorarowell]

How about men over 70? I am in my late 40s and he is in his 70s and has been put through the ringer.. I am not a gold digger, we have been together for three years.. Someone has been putting in his ear that I am trying to change him which I am not. I am very committed to only him but he is afraid of that because of other's that who have been there and taken part of it and walked away..

[raghdahulaiba]

A man's relationship with a woman outside of marriage is a lost and corrupt relationship and will never continue. God wants us together and pure life to create a coherent family, different from the life of animals

[lifeisgood]

Older guys are 1. More set in their ways. 2. Have children (baggage). 3. Have failed relationships (more baggage). 5. Some are balding are have gone bald. 5. Have got grey hair. 6. Are closer to dying sooner. No thanks!

[abaigealduda]

Haha click and pay and happiness will be yours.