Men (Over 50) Choose Women Based on THESE 4 FEELINGS (My Best Advice)

What do guys find attractive? More specifically, what do men over 50 look for in a woman? Men choose women based on mainly 4 feelings. Watch this video to figure out what these feelings are and how you can use it to help you find the right man.

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[bellastone-leeb]

I've always been independent and hard working and have had all any woman could ever want but the older I've become I realize how much I need a man for many reasons. I realize I'm not as independent as I once thought. I realize I get lonely too. I realize I need help with things and to share the chores. I realize I need a man's opinions and ideas that will lead me on a straight path. There's so much a man has that can be a blessing. We do need men if we are honest. ❤

[davidpalmer]

Here's my criteria... 1) Intelligence ...2) Sense of humor... 3) Emotional stability... 4) then comes LOOKS. The stronger the first 3 are, the more #4 can slide.

[judyperri]

Whenever I asked my ex husband to do anything he said to stop nagging him, even though I would only ask once I haven’t dated for a while, working multiple jobs, I have become very independent out of necessity but also because I hate to feel needy I wish men could see how much it means to us when they support bus emotionally, that’s really what I need from a man

[jessicadjonne]

Reading through these responses makes we want to start a relationship clinic. It’s so obvious why they’re single!!
Take a deep breath single people, take the labels off along with expectations and just relax. Open your eyes to who you’re dating. And if you want them to do something, ask them, sweetly.
Just as in Any training, positive encouragement works best!

[missseeingthesights]

I'm kinda laughing out loud at making a man feel needed by asking him to put my coat on.... what kind of simpleton do you think us women are? What about making someone feel needed by sharing deep conversation and friendship, or long bouts of laughter? Surely that's the golden nugget? Relax and be yourself, and if in the small chance that she can't put her own jacket on, help out, but don't think that will be the action that melted her heart...

[Jenniferkayhart]

I couldn't get passed no. 1. I'm self sufficient and reliant. This generation of men made me that way. Most men I know and have dated since 2002 (including my children's father) we're not / are not emotionally equipped to handle being an adult, let alone someone who could lead in a relationship. THAT is not my fault. I made more money, worked more hours, and when I had the kids he was happy to let me handle all the responsibilities of that as well. I could go on and on about the emotional state of men in my generation, but every generation has its trials. I'm not even sure I want to date. I was thinking of doing my journey by documenting it on YouTube and came across your video doing some research. But, this is a subject my friends and I have discussed at great lengths. Our generation of men seemed filled with narcissist, mama's boys, or some form of fear of "commitment" bla bla bla ... anyway I blame it on Hollywood. So it's hard to make a guy feel needed. Most of them don't even know how to show up to warrant that. But anyway ... I'll probably watch you later out of curiosity, but .... I don't date Because I have a lot to offer and for once I'd like to be matched at my energy level. Paying for people's dreams when they don't actually want to put the work in is old. What I need is someone who still loves life and wants to keep experiencing all it has to offer. .... just saying
Ok I'll shut up.now.

[SKOLAH]

I dunno...I need a man for kisses, cuddles, sex, some company and a male perspective sometimes. Things you can't buy. And if he'll deal with arachnids for me, he's my hero. 🙂

In my experience, men aged 45+ tend to be...Unattractive in the way they view women. Not all of them, of course. I also find them lacking in mental energy.

And many don't look after their bodies. They look pregnant and say they want a slim woman who looks after herself. It makes no sense. Feels like it's some sort of entitlement.

They let go of themselves, make no real effort, yet feel they should have a beauty queen.
🤷‍♀️
Just saying.

[AnnetteChiniquy]

Him needing to be needed all the time can come off as a little needy. Best wishes everyone❤

[VargasandLaRueChannel]

I got tired of my date asking me to wear a dress and show my legs. He's 5 ft 4 and weighs 240

[shannond.]

There's 4 As Appreciate, Affirm, Admire and Accept.

[bananka]

Oh. He can be the bread winner. I have no problem with that at this stage of my life. I've been working hard since I was 13 years old... time for someone to help me .or share the load

[agnesaj]

That statement "women don't need men anymore" is SOOO untrue. Men are wonderful and we women need them for lots of things. PLEASE STOP PERPETUATING THIS MYTH!!!

[hellodenise]

I have experienced resentment from men for not making enough money! One even saying I want someone rich! I think I picked some that are not right for me?

[jo-annmacneill]

Women are looking for men for companionship to do things together. Every woman is looking for a man.

[SamElle]

yessss the guy ive been seeing loves when I need something from him. I'm pretty independent as a person so it was hard asking him to help with random things but it did improve our relationship!

[BonniciAlexia]

I never ask for anything like the sugar example, because I'd feel he'd be pissed off with me treating him like my lackey. So I do things myself, unless someone does something without me asking. And then, yes, I'd appreciative because he :1. knew me well enough to see that something was wrong #2. Did the thing without me having to ask/do it myself. #3. Even if I didn't want it, he still made the effort. So I'd probably accept it because of that. It's something I do for others (friends or boyfriends), and those small gestures are HUGE. It's about noticing and awareness, which means the person is in the moment.

I've also been with guys who walk 5 steps ahead, not noticing they're walking too fast/taking giant strides, and I'm not at his side. When I was younger, I'd run to catch up. Then I'd ask them to slow down. Now I just keep my pace, and see if they even notice, because they are obviously oblivious to my presence, and the salad days of running after someone are over.

[gabrielamartinyuk]

I need a man! I’m super old fashioned and it’s truly a struggle with dating being this way because men are used to independent women.

[yingluck]

Needed
Appreciated
Accepted
Boundaries

[leslieboles]

My son nailed it. He said men want to be needed but not obligated. My partner wants me to have NO needs. I ask for very little even though I do have needs. He is very dismissive. This probably won't last long. I always express my appreciation too so I don't know, I give up.

[pensfanlife]

I've been alone so long that I'm so used to doing everything myself and don't NEED help from anyone or a man.