How to Deal With Taking a Break in a Relationship

00:00 WELCOME
01:12 TOTAL TRANSPARENCY
03:10 SET BOUNDARIES
04:56 IDENTIFY THE REASONS
06:39 SET A TIME FRAME

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[jessicabhamra]

Me and my boyfriend have decided to go on a break, this is the first day in and it hurts and I know it will hurt for sure later on, we told each other that we need time apart to build on ourselves and come back stronger, we’ve had arguments over a lot of petty things and trust has been lost and communication wasn’t the best, but we do not want to not be with each other, so this time apart is to help ourselves become better for the other person as well as ourselves, I know for sure we will come back to each other stronger, when both of us are ready, I can’t wait for that moment

Update: it’s all good, it’s been a few days since we came back together, and we have now come to a realisation on a lot of things like how we spent our time together and stuff, it’s going good and we’re going to keep fighting hard together.

[HamGiggs]

Me and my partner is on a break right now, it's been 2 weeks so far. It hurts for sure, but it also helps me reflect the core issue and really have a talk with myself. Things can be improved, it's a constant learning process. I'm focus and i hope she's able to see it when she's ready.

[haileyberryman]

My boyfriend and I are on a break. It hurts and I don’t want the break. Hearing that breaks are just the beginning of a breakup or divorce doesn’t give me much hope. Especially when I was the reason for all of the mistakes and bad in our relationship.

[jazmineramirez]

Hello guys, my name is Jazmine, I am currently in a 2 year relationship and my partner has been going through a lot lately and I believe he’s very stressed. He was thinking about a break, but he also said if we have the break, that he might want to break things off. I just saw this wonderful video and I feel more confident in what to do. I don’t want our relationship to end I deeply love this man and I’m willing to wait, but I’m also scared that if I wait, he’ll just end up leaving me. I’m willing to wait, but I’m scared that if I wait his feelings would change

[Sevenattackss]

We just talked, he first asked for this step I felt surprised, sad and overwhelmed. Therefore, you clarified this for me and now i feel a bit relaxed and kinda understanding.
He says it doesn't feel exciting and joyful to see me as he were feeling in our early meet ups, and he did not feel the joy i leave once i leave his place. It hurt, but i understood him now. Part of me agrees on this break, and the clingy me does not. He sat a date for us to 'meet" which is good i guess! pray for us <3

[Sugarsweet-tooth]

Me and my girl are on a break right now, I haven’t been always honest with myself and her. There are many flaws that come into play ultimately resulting in her needing the space from me so I can be better for her and myself. We had talked last night about it all, it was definitely rough but was much needed. There won’t be any communication for us or contact which sucks but I know it’s for the best. I’m glad I can come to this video and really get the help and understanding of it all.

[boug]

My girlfriend and I are taking a break after living together for 2 years. Even though there’s still a lot of love for each other, we lost some trust along the way due to miscommunications, and some arguments over the last few months. There’s 2 sides to every situation, but I know that I made mistakes. As I was moving my stuff out today we talked about how much we still loved each other, but that we were unable to connect right now. I honestly think the break is healthiest for both of us and even though we can’t make any guarantees, we are both open to the idea of starting to date again down the road, and taking it slowly this time.. In a couple weeks we’re going to start having weekly meet ups at the park so we can check in and so I can play with my dog… **** I miss my dog so much already.. I’ll keep you all updated on how things go, and In the meantime I’m really going to soak this in and focus on myself. KEEP YOUR HEADS UP❤✌️

[Vonity_]

We are taking a break for 2 weeks. I feel like his love language doesn’t fulfill me and he feels overwhelmed. This break is much needed.

[wayof]

I’m currently on day 3 of a break as I’m the one at fault but she asked for 2 weeks to think if she’s love me or the comfortability as we’ve been together around a month and half. Day 1 & 2 I messaged her but day 2 was my last message as now I’m getting help from a therapist for my personal issues that affected us. Wish me luck and best of luck to you all as well.

[AJgirl]

My boyfriend of 10 years and I are on a break. We’re still living together, but it’s pretty hard since we got kids. We have minimal communication for the kids. It’s been almost a week and it’s tough. His reason was my dependency on him. Which I noticed was the problem, along with lots of lost trust.

[maiwasekumwenda]

Thank you so much. I watched the other video on going on a break, I followed through and it helped us. He didn't like it but he understood me because I communicated with him properly. I really want our relationship to work, I just need time from him to help me and us out. I told him 4 weeks maximum and I hope I will/we'll be all right by then.

[jayli]

This was great! I just proposed this to my girlfriend of 4 years, and it was confirmation I was on the right track.

[MrBenitez]

my partner and i are on a break right now (her decision) its so hurtful, but she needs to find herself and be right with herself, before she can be right for me. i dont quite understand that, but i believe in this relationship, and i think its definitly worth fighting for. i just feel very alone and the unknown is so scary.

[Juno.]

I’m leaving this comment to come back to it, me and my girlfriend as of yesterday took a break and it is the worst feeling by far, the reason for the break I will not go into as much detail but she basically is not happy with herself, doesn’t know who she is and wants to be alone for a bit to where she knows what she wants and can fix that and also she hasn’t been in a relationship like ours before as in the fact of length and loving me. I hope this break can actually help us and heal things between us and that we can communicate better and I cannot wait until she is ready.

[gemmallewellyn]

Hi there. Thank you for this helpful video. My partner and I have decided to take a month's break with no contact. Our relationship has been slowly deteriorating and I feel that we have lost ourselves. My partner made the decision to have the break after he was going to break up completely but thought about things and decided to give things another chance but that a break would be needed. I agree with him and we met today to talk it all through and then started the break from today. I am feeling quite anxious and scared that one or the other of us will realise that we do not want to continue with the relationship but I am hopeful that we can reunite and make things better than ever.

[sydneym]

I just started watching this because my partner and I are on a break right now. We broke up, and then the next day he let me know that he wants a break. He didn’t give me clear reasons and mixed messages (we literally made out before he left me house) and we never established a time frame. I’m so confused and anxiously attached and I’m scared of the fallout. He’s been overwhelmed with life lately so I’m assuming it’s that, but he just wasn’t honest. I wish he could have seen this before he decided but it was so sudden and unexpected

[jessicabhamra]

This video has really helped, thank you soo much I appreciate it gives me more hope

[michelleburgess]

My autistic partner told me last night he wants us to work, he wants us to get better. But right now he basically needs an emotional break. He doesn’t want to break up he just is over whelmed. I honestly need one to. My therapist helped me realized recently that I have been making him my whole world and whenever he doesn’t measure up I’m disappointed and it’s not his fault. And I’m like that’s so true. So it’s been both of us but we love each other and want this to work. I just need one too after this realization and learn how to find me again and do what makes me happy. I take everything so seriously and that’s my own self awareness not something he told me. I went to him and made sure he knows that I’m expecting him to take time to work on getting back ti being together and I’m not gonna wait forever because I deserve to be happy and so does he and he said agreed that’s the goal. I said okay. Then I have no problem giving him space at the moment. It’s hard but I feel lighter because I am a little older than him and can learn to be more at peace with myself

[ojaswijoshi]

Thabk you so much for this I needed this, i am literally drowing on negative emotion as its my first day of break as my boyfriend wanted it for his self healing from different stuffs. Thabk you so much. I will try to do best.

[Someone_ah]

I was told a break was needed because of how I communicate, but I don’t know what I say wrong