Feeling emotionally neglected in marriage? 4 truths you NEED to know!

This video was filmed when I was coaching and before I implemented hypnotherapy. I now combine the two modalities to create rapid results for clients.

If you feel like your spouse ignores you or dismisses what you say, you might be dealing with emotional neglect. If you are living this on a daily basis then you know just how damaging it is. But what you may not realize is why this happens and why you feel so much confusion about it. So join me to talk about his EXTREMELY important issue.

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[thara]

I’ve been begging for attention for years, cried, screamed, acted pathetic.. and he promises change, without following through. I’ve given up, I’ve told him I’m only here for the kids and living my life on the side to feel some type of happiness. I was so lonely and desperate to feel wanted by someone again. But this isn’t what I wanted when I got married, I wanted to work on this every day, I wanted to make it work. But after fighting for our marriage alone for years, I feel nothing but emptiness 🤷🏻‍♀️

[WithMunchkins]

After 6 yrs of being emotionally neglected, I am becoming aware of what it is. I've been feeling so alone, and hated by my husband. I believe I got here from not loving myself and respecting myself as much as I deserve, therefore getting involved in this relationship. Emotional neglect is hurtful and cruel. I am patiently waiting for my opportunity to make my move away from this. I suppose now is a good time to gather up resources to help me be strong, love myself, and go through with moving on. These videos are a great start

[werringertonney]

If you sit back and think about how harmful emotional neglect is within a marriage, it might crush you. And it might send you spiraling out of control. We need to be validated, accepted, loved, listened to, connected with, and touched. Thank you, Ketra, for these videos.

[KatReneeNov]

Been married for 20 years, I would love to get my strength back. Thank you for sharing.

[Verisimilitude_]

I feel so stuck. I feel like I am supposed to fit into the “dream woman role” and he cannot hear me. My emotional needs are neglected and there’s no point saying anything about it. The finger always turns back to pointing at me. The only thing I can think to do is stop investing so much energy. Even though I am still married I feel the pain this is causing is like going through a break up.

[carolynbell]

Ketra, I found your video just when I needed it. I have been married for 15 years, and I thought I was the problem. I see now, I have been abused, manipulated and demeaned into believing my opinions were ridiculous, when really, I was just expected to be “an extension of him, ” to fill a void in his heart as a woman I could never be. Even on my best day, there’s no making him happy. Thank you for the validation. I’m leaving this dumpster fire of a relationship.

[BigTroubleD]

It’s scary how you basically described my relationship down to the T.

But also really eye opening. I’m struggling with accepting the rejection and the reality that this person doesn’t actually love me in a healthy way and that they’re a broken person.

But I’m also at the point where I’m done with his neglectfulness and his abuse. I’m at such a low point in my life because of him.

[nopcshere]

Oh wow, SO MANY of these were part of my first marriage. My former wife and her mother & father were verbally, emotionally and financially abusive to me. I was no more than an object to my former in-laws and my former wife allowed them to treat me like that. And saying 'no' to any of them was met with immediate narcissistic rage. Now I'm in a relationship with a wonderful woman who loves me as me. These videos are invaluable to anyone, woman or man, in an emotionally abusive relationship. Maybe by seeing this, someone else will see it for what it is and leave sooner than I did.

[LaB]

I just told my husband tonight that it feels like he lives in an isolated bubble, disconnected from the rest of us.

[gwenhaklin]

This entire video I was nodding my head YES and was like 'wow every single thing you said describes my life right now'! Subscribed 👍

[adrianacampbell]

I feel what you said every word, I feel trapped in this marriage economically and being from another country and almost 65 years old I do not know where I can find help because I cannot afford it.

[missyk]

Thank you for explaining "the bubble he lives in". I've been wondering this for years, and you are the first to acknowledge it!

[tazgulley]

I'm a guy and personally I got a lot out of this video. Men are often mislead, and taken for granted and more then often being betrayed as well. Thank for this video

[DaddyRamon]

This can happen to men as well. My wife has been emotionally neglecting me for 18 months.

[KmNry]

How do i know if I'm the problem? This sounds like my husband of 40 years. But he blames me for past depression and now he is more and more withdrawn gaming all weekend and every night. We had a hard early years of marriage him being violent when we rowed - which he is remorseful about - which led me to withdraw from him which poss led him to gaming. That was 30 years ago and it doesn't get better. We are like room mates with me being the house keeper. Not how I saw my life tbh.

[thelmarobinette]

I love your advice. I am separated from my husband of 40 years. I’m so confused because of what you talk about is what I have endured and always felt co fused. You make it so clear to me. Thank you

[LisaYyeshua]

Emotional neglect part is exactly what I'm going through matched with an addiction. It's extremely painful. This video helped. Subscribed

[evadoarfs]

This video is one year old but it has confirmed what I need to do prioritize myself first. Thanks for sharing.❤️

[LeighKan]

Yeap, this video sums up my till now 35 years of marriage. Absolutely heartbreaking till you understand the patterns and recognize it. When you do, you need to shift the way you need to re-align life. Many people are going through this and lack of information till recent years really tore people up. Thank you for this video.

[eliz]

I like to thank you for explaining and breaking it down! I am in a very bad place in my marriage! I then find myself doubting myself, question myself, maybe is me, maybe I should have ... at the end of the day I feel like a punching bag and how dare I say other wise! I don't matter, I don't know enough because Im younger, The arguing NEVER ends.