Dismissive Avoidant Breakup: Why They Don't Apologize!

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Did you need an apology from your dismissive-avoidant partner or your dismissive-avoidant ex but didn’t get one? It's frustrating when your avoidant ex or your avoidant partner can’t be vulnerable and take responsibility for their actions. In this video, we’ll explore 4 reasons why the dismissive-avoidant attachment style doesn’t apologize.

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[dustinquinton]

If they can’t apologize, they are not accountable. Either way, RUN!

[greekwilly]

they sound like a real treat to be around. I will give you all some advice. I put my dismissive avoidant ex in the bin and never look back. You can over-analyse this people as much as you want, but if you are not enjoying your time and having to go on youtube to make sense of your life, best to walk away and find someone healthy aftern you do the work on yourself

[Joelswinger]

I don't think they struggle to apologize. I don't think they try, so they are certainly not struggling.

[exscapegoatpowerfulhealer]

As the DA never apologises, it's not love it's trauma bonding. I would remain no contact. & that's what I'm doing.

[steveblenkinsop]

This really spoke to me. I went through a breakup nearly a year ago and I really struggled with her lack of empathy and inability to make a sincere apology. It has been incredibly hard

[maha_sage]

I was in a relationship with a DA. During the relationship he never apologised. He would instead guilt me by the silent treatment. I ended up apologising. I asked for a conversation regarding our conflicts but he refused all the time. Recently he broke up with me saying he wasn't happy. No acknowledging of my emotions. No attempt to understand me. I trusted him so much. I thought he was committed. I was so insecure throughout.

[sabrinaszabo]

Sympathy versus empathy, not everyone has the skill of empathy, detrimentally and unfortunately

[lemagloria]

hi!
*Can you make a video on how to AVOID dating an avoidant!*

[jeffreyhamilton]

If you have to ask anyone for an apology that means they are not sorry. They are sorry they got caught.

[radge]

This makes so much sense. I met someone about 6 months ago who I believe to be a dismisive avoident. She love bombed me and in the space of a month went from telling me how amazing I am to acting totally cold and distant and like it was my fault She was doing so. The whole carry on has gone on for the first 4-5 months of the new year till last week I said enough was enough but the whole time I received these back handed apologies along the lines of 'I'm sorry if you feel I did..' 'I'm sorry you feel I hurt you' etc etc. The apologies themselves hurt as much as the cold vindictive attitude She had. Never had my mental health been depleted by one individual so rapidly. Hope everyone is safe and can heal from these situations, they do not serve your self esteem at all.

[humanchee]

This is spot on. My DA half heartedly apologizes in spurts, but then it all goes away within days.

[ArielAriel-rgng]

Talking about empathy, my DA ex never showed empathy for ME but he had empathy for all the other people and I don't know why.
It was very hurtful.

[genedhallinc]

18 years, 4 times being cut off and pushed away until I left. Each time she came to me, wanting me back. The 4th time, I was gone two months, went No Contact and she hacked my email and was messaging me through my own email. Came to me crying and asking me "why won't you just let me love you". I went back, and married her. 4 years later she did it again and I have lived with roommates only for past 4 years. Now she wants divorce. I couldn't figure out what was wrong with her, I thought Covert Narcissist because so many of those traits fit her. Now this DA thing, and what I know about her Mother, it sure looks DA. Either way, it's a painful, horrible, impossible, way to live for the person who loves them. This video is really describing her well. My heart is broken again. I didn't cut the cord years ago and wasted 18 years of my life. I hope these videos help people walk away if they see DA traits. It will never get better and probably get worse as they age. At last break up my friend said she would need at least one year of intense Psycho Therapy. I didn't listen to him, but he was right. Please run from these people. They break your heart.

[cherylthompson]

Tonight, My DA ex boyfriend came over after barely talking for a year.
He admitted that he was wrong about everything and to me that was an apology.

[Jemeni]

10 years of marriage and my wife has never once said she's sorry.

[markcollins]

Someone who has avoidant tendencies (like struggling with vulnerability, not talking about feelings, feeling discomfort with different forms of intimacy), but who also lacks accountability, can't apologize and lacks empathy sure sounds like narcissistic behavior to me. My ex-wife didn't apologize for anything meaningful in 20 years. She was all about blame and was incapable of self-reflection. She was more naturally inclined to use me than try to be close to me. I'm 100% sure that she has a dismissive avoidant attachment style and 80% percent sure that she has covert narcissistic tendencies. I'm pretty convinced that I was married to that rare combination. However, I do think you can have narcissistic tendencies and leanings and not have full blown narcissistic personality disorder.

[sabrinaszabo]

How long ago realized empathy is my gift to the world I don’t think you should have extended interactions if you lack empathy. Or you don’t try to cultivate. Otherwise you’re kind of seemingly dead inside, at least, in my perspective, limit interactions, and cultivate self-love, if you lack empathy otherwise it’s just harming.

[azmike]

For what it's worth: "Never apologize mister, it's a sign of weakness." (John Wayne, "She Wore a Yellow Ribbon", 1949)

[Pookia]

He ghosted me for 5 months. I did not contact him.i let him go. He came back on the 8 for my birthday wishing me a happy birthday. I politely responded thank you. He tried small talks .i did not entertain it. He continue next day and next day small talks.no response from me. He want to act as if he did not ghosted. I will never take him back unless he take accountability, apologize, repair and start therapy . DA are a mess.i am surely happier without the drama and toxicity they bring .