Narcissist will try to convince you through words that they really love you but rarely follow it up

[munacheee]

He told me how I am the love of his life and all these sweet things but he treated me so horribly. To a point that I doubted myself so much and my childhood trauma kept rolling in heavy. 2 years no contact and I am happier.

[________]

“I’m in love with you”
“I miss you”
“You know I love you more than you love me, right?”

**but there’s NO actions to back it up! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[sunkissed]

Perception is everything with the narcissist... Their goal is to have you see Life One Way even though they're living it the complete opposite 💯

[godsnobody]

"The world don't stop, and actions speak louder." - Mary Chapin Carpenter

[flowers]

How they treat you is what you have to listen to - NOT their words!!! Remember, it's ALL an act for them!

[doulos]

Recently I told my partner that saying, “I love you” just made it harder to deal with their behavior. I asked that they stop if the behavior wasn’t going to stop. They stopped saying “I love you” almost immediately. The behavior continues. It hurts that it was so easy for them, but them saying “I love you”, hurt worse.

[Ashley-jxsw]

Accurate. I asked my ex several times if he still wanted to be with me because his actions weren’t matching and he said yes everytime for two months. When we broke up he said “I’ve been wanting to break up with you for two months” 🙄🚮

[lucianarobledo]

"How a man treats you, is how he feels about you" team Jackson

[alicewonderland]

“ I’ll always love you” hand on heart 🙄 BS… innit 💯

[lostinwonderland]

So true
For example I'm not falling for his bs, I don't argue back he feels that I'm checking out and mourning my marriage, he has this damn sense all day today it's been I love you let's cuddle you know I love you right, I told him it's strange because you don't act like it. I stopped saying I love you for about almost 2 years now

[yugenknows]

Every day my husband would give me a kiss and a hug and say "I love you" and then skip out the door to his girlfriend 's house. It got to the point where those words made me sick.

[hynesightweddingfilms]

I love the way you say "narcissists and ...toxic people" because if they have toxic behavior then that's what it is regardless of a diagnosis or not

[soulrelaxation]

They constantly slap you and kick you uttering I LOVE YOU at the same time ⚠️
🚩confusion generated to make you stuck. During hoover, I texted Ex to define love, , his reply revealed his understanding as- " When someone gets attracted and attached to someone, it's love". Now, what is infatuation then?... LOVE ❤ for narcissists is beyond their level of understanding.

[kathyjenkins]

The narc /psychopath's mom said her son can never love anyone but himself!

[ashleymichelle]

I swear they say I love you 100 times a day

[trevor_mason_reed]

Exactly. Kudo points to you! They’re nothing but players, they love to control you and that’s it. If the narcs wanna play games, then let’s play games! Are they gonna win? Are they gonna lose? The world may never know!

Nobody wants to play the “mind games” anymore, it’s getting old and boring real quick. It’s like an outdated trend. You gotta catch up with the rest, if not then you’re not “cool enough”.

[scotttully]

The narc pushed me out, 12 years marriage with two kids, no closure, no working on it... then called back after the separation and said they missed me. When they couldn't come up with a single thing they missed about me, I shut the door forever.

[iamconstancecarter]

“I love you” with no actions are just words

[kaysmith]

I left & Now have 20 pages of letters n multiple txts to prove this true. ☠️

[TheTroutyness]

“I love you most” 😢 I miss that game sometimes