Dealing With A Jealous Mother In-Law

Feel shade from your MIL? Every time you seem to be up she finds a way to downplay you? What is that about? Could she be jealous? Envious? But why….?


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[charlenemonique]

Although I don’t like her behavior towards me, I am respectful and kind to her anyway. It’s just that I see because it’s so obvious that she is very insecure and has issues which have absolutely nothing to do with me. So I don’t take it personal for the most part 🤔

[raquelbarajas]

today I decided to call it quits after 2 years . She said no no one will love my son like I do . She says no woman can give him what I can !!! Ewwww her mother was the same with her . My name wasn’t even allowed to be mentioned in her home . We would whisper so she wouldn’t suspect him and I are talking . Did I mention he’s 33?!

[swiftjustice]

Some mothers look at their sons wives as competition.Think about it she was the love of his until he met you.She wants to stay in that position in his heart.

[brittdzierzond]

This all depends tho if they are a narcissist they want control they dont care. They are jealous becuz they are not the center anymore. The health mother in laws ive met were not that way at all.

[TM-tilc]

What if she treats me as irrelevant? I tried having a conversation with her, I’ve tried to empathize… she crossed a boundary with me and she made it very clear she doesn’t care about what I say. She comes off as “humble” and “down to earth”, but she’s very pessimistic and gives me “advice” all the time, which I always passed off as her just meaning well.. She’s very domineering and authoritative, and thinks whatever she says and thinks is above all else. I feel tricked and gaslit because in the beginning, I felt like I was accepted… We weren’t very close to begin with, but we were cordial. After me and my husband married, I feel as though I am in a cult. How she really felt about me came out, but those red flags that I missed are my fault too… My husband is very aware about how his mother is and he doesn’t have a very good relationship with her either. He’s always extending and reaching out but it always felt like she only just “tolerated” him sometimes. I felt only tolerated at times too. it’s a very confusing dynamic. & It’s heartbreaking.

[Ms.Carter.]

My mil is so jealous it actually hurts. She went as far as claiming who I am and asking to try on wedding dresses at my fitting.

[nicholecornes]

Always a dam competition always in our dam business.

[BySoleil]

Awesome! Can you share a video of no contact with MIL & why those situations may occur?

[hermusicsoundsgood]

Definitely jealousy and envy. Now envy is dangerous because it is done to hurt and harm soooo

[MarilynZamora-tmjo]

All what you said it’s absolutely true . My mother in law so insecure I’m driving my car she don’t know how to drive
When I cook for my husband she got mad angry saying my food is unhealthy she’s absolutely crazy

[hunterlv]

Can also go for the mother of the wife.

[concealdontfeel]

I love this video!!! You are on point!

[uhjmuhh]

Man I dealt with this shit for two years didn’t know I was dating a fucking narcissist. The fucking whole family knew about his escapade and extra baby mamas in different states and two years Covid. He was fucking around with me with some bitch. I’m good with it now I’m good with it. I am cool with the game, but at the same time she knew she was so supposed to be you know the preacher chick you know that one that partthank you my brother thank you for sharing. Please enlightenment all day every day.❤❤❤

[candacegreer]

Whew, I believe I’m in competition… A wife Love is not the same as his Mom!! JESUS, this is difficult!

[icetea]

I see this happen a lot. Especially with mothers and sons. The mother hates the girlfriend, treats her like shit, and is jealous her son has another women in his life. I think this is selfish of mothers. Of course you would always love your mum, and care for her. However as your kids get older they start their own life. As a mother it's not a competition. You should be happy your child's found somebody right for them. I would get if your child's being treated bad that's understandable however if its a good girl, let them be together. When your a mother you should not be competing, you should just love your child and be happy that their happy.

[nicoleadiaz]

She will always be a mother no matter what! No excuses! These people need to stop bringing their issues into their adult life.