Dangerous signs your mother is JEALOUS of you!

Dangerous signs your mother is JEALOUS of you!

[dennisallen]

What’s the point of being a parent if you going to be jealous of a life you created? I rather be alone then be jealous of my children. Insecurity is a mother you know what!

[Siren-zxmz]

This is NOT Motherly. This is Narcissistic. Its abuse.

I did not expect all of these likes 😳 😅

[Vickydondada]

Or signs are if she’s lies about you or makes up a rumour, always quick to insult you deeply over minor situations

[anye]

My parents died 8 months apart from each other and after the shocking jolt was over, I was called to peace when died. My mother sabotaged me in every way, even letting it slip before she died how this guy was interested in dating me and she prevented it. Often times my mom would bully me, try to humiliate me in front of people. She enjoyed putting me down. She even told me that God would destroy me and God would make sure she never remembered that I was born. My mom accused me of sleeping with my dad, something that never happened. Im estranged from both sides of my family due to my parents but especially due to my mom. Her words, violence toward me was unbelievable. I could write a novel. I'm finally healing thank God. I didn't know others faced this either.

[yellowdiamond]

Karine. This has been my life since I was a child. It’s so refreshing to hear someone actually acknowledge this truth!! OFTEN we are not believed, or flat out don’t care. I was 9 when my mother turned on me because her boyfriend treated me like he was in love with me, and was m0l3$+!ng me. She allowed him to do things to me. They even made me sleep strictly IN bed with them. She has hated me ever since and and every man she bought home was also a p3d0 and it just made her hate me more. The disdain she has for me is like no other. I moved out the country and I’m happily married with children, and I keep her far FARRRR away.

I never ever talk about any of this to anyone. I’m not sure if I could say it out loud. I just felt so safe because finally someone understands! I admire you a great deal, and you are my best friend and sister in my pocket in my mind. ❤

[ofajim]

Karine, please could you consider the following two videos next:
1. Jealous female relatives/friends/women around you
2. How to spot fake friends
Super relatable topics. Thank you!

[bellezaa]

The woman who is known as my mother, use to challenge me to fights, beat on me, would dominate all conversations with people I know, take credit for my accomplishments and always have negative things to say and/or energy.

[Mythoughtonpoliticaltopics]

My mother was very jealous of me. She wanted to wear the same outfit I would wear. When I spent time with my daughters she would get upset. It's out there. Thank u for bringing it up

[bonitaapplebum]

.. I remember watching a documentary of female leopards, and when the daughter began to hit puberty, the Mother became extremely violent towards the daughter, b/c she viewed her as a threat. Particularly, a threat to her attracting male mates, and creating her own cubs.

And the daughter couldn’t understand why the Mother was violent towards her when she approached her, not realizing that she’s going through puberty.

Eventually the daughter is killed, ostracized, or finally accepts that she’s being pushed out of the cub/family dynamic, and looks for her own tribe/mate to reproduce with.

.. There’s a lot truth to this, speaking as someone who has personally experienced this w/their own mother & has viewed similar experiences w/others.

It was fascinating to watch. I guess it’s human nature.

[Blakpepa]

Women that are jealous of their daughters and putting a man that's not the father before them is definitely a Caribbean thing because of the high rate of men that abandon their families. I went through the same thing with my mom who imported a paper seeking wasteman from Jamaica and she started accusing me of being jealous at age 14. I was so confused because i was not q sexually active teen and tomboy and i was accused of trying to go after her man which was extremely confusing. Needless to say decades later her marriage is done because he left her and our relationship is finished and beyond repair...i hope it was worth making my life hell for her dusty

[MissEdie]

You just opened up a big can of worms!! This really needs to be addressed!!

[michaela]

My mother admitted to me that she's jealous of me. I cut ties. I was very uncomfortable.

[icecreamyum]

Some people don't want to be happy for others, some people don't want others to shine more than them

[fractalofathena]

I’m SO glad I have such a sweet supportive mama. I have had good friends who weren’t as fortunate. It breaks my heart. Your mom should be your biggest fan! 💖

[_nadja]

Yes this is my ongoing issue with my mom ALWAYS GOSSIPING about me to other family members and she does have a tendency to try put hands on me, and I'm in my 40s. I suspected it to be jealousy and I have had to end our relationship

[Evilmindy]

Sending love and healing to all daughters who’ve experienced this. Y’all deserve all the happiness life brings you ✨

[vikki]

Thank you for this vidro Karine. A mother who is jealous of her daughter is deranged to me. I notice my mum was jealous of me because of how loving protective and affection my Dad was. My mother is more for my brother then me yet hated it if my Dad did webt the extra mile to give me the care that she always gave my brother. She even went as far as causibg my father and me to fall out and nit be close when I was a teenager.

Now I am older, in therapy and healing, I can see what my mother does.

My Dad and I are closer again. She hates it.
I date provider men who don't let me pay for anything whilst also not expecting me to put out like a hooker.
She hates it.
I lose weight and look good.
She hates it.
How I do my hair and make-up, and look well groomed.
She hates it.

I have noticed whenever I shine, she acts like I look the opposite and I should do xyz to look "better". When I ignore her, she gives back handed comments.

I have now kept my mum at arms length. I don't even tell her about interviews for better positions in my career because she always trues to sow seeds of doubt into me. She tries to sabortage it.

You are right, until you are aware and see it, you cannot heal from it and when I finally realized this, my heart broke and I thought I was going to die. 😢

My mum even told me when she gave birth to me and the nurse told her I was a girl, her heart sank. She refused to hold me and did not name me for a whole 4 hours after I was born. My Dad and grandmother named me. My Dad was the first to hold me. My Grandmother was the first to feed and change me. Until my mum came round to the fact I was a girl. This broke my heart, especially when I asked my Dad about it and his short silence before confirming said it all.

This is why I am glad I do theraphy. I needed 20 hours on this subject alone to process the feelings I felt.

[lovelystarchild]

🤎 Karine, thank you for making this video!!! ❤ My mother did EVERYTHING you spoke about in this video to me.... gossiping about me, verbally & physically abusive, hypercritical, turned my father against me, allowed her husband to SA me, then blamed ME for it. She bad mouths me every chance she gets & never misses an opportunity to embarrass me. Anytime I accomplished anything, she never seemed happy about it. In addition, she is always siding with other people over me. In my mother's eyes, I can do no right & everyone else is perfect. I cut ties with her a few years back & I don't miss her at all. It took many years of therapy in order for me to see that SHE is the problem not me. I have done a lot of healing & I am much happier....but you are right, you have to acknowledge there is a problem before you can heal from it. ❤❤❤ Thank you again Karine!! 😘😘😘🫶🏻🫶🏻

[suitedzombie]

You just described my mother so well. Thank you for your video. I didn't realize how bad it was until watching this. BTW, no matter how grown you are, it still affects you.

[lisediame]

Not my mom having ALL these traits !! But thank God I've been working on my mental health cause its been crazy. I didn't have a relationship with my father for 15 years because of her and she has NO remorse whatsoever... She's so jealous of me anything I do, she criticizes. Yesterday she even told me that she's mad that I can travel freely because I'm childfree while she's stuck with hers ( mind you I'm only 21 ). Thankfully I don't take it personally cause it looks like she's really sick up there lol..