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[gabbyyeargain]

"You need to get as obsessed as you feel about other people about yourself" - This is what I needed to hear.

[marialovell]

Never make another person the centre of your world... The ONLY person who should be centre of your world/life is YOU! ❤

[mousseva]

"We're almost blind to the fact that we are here to live one life and the quality of it needs to be amazing. The man needs to add something to your life. You don't need to struggle like a mule up the hill of life with him on your back, doing nothing. Why? Were you born to carry this man on you at the detriment to you?" 🤣
Cracked me up so hard!

[earffquakee_]

thank you scarlett johannson for teaching me about the law of detachment

[PeterCianci]

Great message! Over 20 years ago my very wise, beautiful wife said to me, "just make me feel loved, appreicated and safe" and you will get all you want from a wife. She was so right! I love, work hard and protect her and she inately respect me, which is all a man really wants. To often today there is a struggle for "respect" in a relationship. She told me my job was to love her and respect is an automatic byproduct of that love from a woman. On top of everything else she is so amazing at...honestly 30 years later and I am far less worthy of that woman than I was the first day I met her. Praise God.

[laoisemeehan]

I'm embarrassed to say this anxious attachment made me develop serious stalking tendencies, even to guys I barely knew. It brought me nothing but pain in the end, it didn't change a thing.

[kylieb]

This made me cry like the entire video just thinking about how much time I’ve wasted wanting people to like me, when the whole time I just need me to like me. Thank you for all of your videos they are helping me through the tough test period of my life ❤

[soulsgold]

Detachment will give your partner the freedom to come closer to you.
If you are attached to an image of a person, how you want them to be
Then you are trying to control the result, the situation, the person, constantly observing them
People feel that
They are energetic beings
They feel your life and purpose are predicated on their actions and reactions
How can they be themselves?

(notes for myself)

[melblack]

Spending more time with yourself helps a lot. I can quickly attach to people but I also quickly dettach. I know I'll be fine without them cuz I've done almost everything on my own. You have to find your own worth and focus on yourself, you should always be your top priority!

[sitarskee]

I remember when I first heard this quote "You are not your thoughts", it really changed the way I looked at myself. Detaching myself from my thoughts really helped me improve my confidence and I generally accepted myself more. I always thought of myself like I was a loser, weirdo etc. But those were just thoughts, not reality. Something so simple, yet it changed my life completely.

[AnkitKanojiya-bzki]

It’s kinda crazy how nobody’s talking about the book Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest.

[iamcaitlinroseb]

This woman seems to be the only person I can hear for my currently fragile heart. Deep down there’s a huge confidence inside of me, thank you for helping me find it.

[aloramorar]

I was feeling so low yesterday because I couldn’t control how I felt about him and why he didn’t choose me. But I came to a realisation to detach. Then this morning, you posted! Universe is divine and that you appeared on my YouTube page.. WOW! Thank you so much Margarita!

[patriciapage]

If anyone cheats you will eventually find out sooner or later without searching the stuff. You'll drive yourself crazy. Self worth in yourself is so important.

[Jsmineee]

This is my first video I’m seeing by you. I’m currently pregnant by someone who gave me a sense of security and safety and I felt like it would last forever. After I found out I was pregnant he said he didn’t love me as much anymore and that he didn’t want to be with me. I’ve been hurting so much. Your video really really got through to me and you said everything I NEEDED to hear. It hurts but I want to be happy again and your words have fully made me accept I need to detach. Thank you, you’re truly making an impact. Godbless you and Thank You 🙏!

[januarybaby]

31 years old and because of YOU I'm just now figuring out why I am the way I am. Letting go feels so good. You're amazing keep helping others!

[joyserwaah]

"if you're sitting there focusing constantly about when he's going to propose, he's not got anything to propose to. because you've become a mirror of his expectation." this is it. this is what changed everything for me. thank you

[gabriellepitts]

I started detaching when I learned about simulation theory. I swear, within moments of just stopping the momentum of "control" everything was magnetized toward me! People started to bend over backwards to make me happy because there is something magnetic about someone that is indifferent.

[margaritashamrakov]

Margarita this is beautiful. I agree. I stayed with someone for 9 years and tried to make it work. I am ashamed of how desperate I was . That was not love. I was afraid to be alone

[outroseok]

having an anxious attachment style is rough, I just met this man and every day I fear he'll find someone better and block me. I find myself over analyzing everything which I know isn't healthy. After a weekend camping with my family where I spent the majority of it by my phone waiting for a message back (which sometimes took hours) and it put a dent on my entire trip I decided it was time for me to detach.