How To Talk To People You Like

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[janaebeckwith]

"BE COME UR CRUSH" IS THE HARDEST THING IVE HEARD ALL DAY

[DenDrage]

open them up
- learn there interest
- ask meaningful questions
- have stories
- tease
- duality (push pull)
- show interest but not needy
- stop appealing to all

:)

[dawsonrohrer]

Bro I saw the thumbnail and immediately said to myself “ I trust this man”💀💀

[Narissa_]

“If you wanna attract your crush, then become your crush” is the most unique and deeply helpful advice.

[kate]

as a girl, the things you say about what girls want or just your advice in general is so spot on. it’s really a breath of fresh air to see a person who makes vids like this who ACTUALLY knows what they’re talking about. def subscribing.

[ii.cmy]

Just heard someone say: "People find it attractive when they see someone with a trait they have repressed in themselves. But they repressed that trait for a reason and if they can't learn to appreciate [The behavior they repressed within themselves] it will become uncomfortable to be around that person." So in other words the way that opposites attract is when they can meet in the middle, or respect each other despite their differences. (So if you aren't compatible, don't force it and play it off saying opposites attract because thats gonna turn toxic.)

[TheBlackestKitty]

ngl the presence of subtitles alone could make me fall in love dfghjfdfghj

[ianv]

This is top tier advice, he actually teaching the science behind it and how you can be the best version of yourself. Most “dating coaches” and youtubers will teach you how to be like them, since their own behaviour is what worked for them.

[Kittiesanddragons]

This guy won’t stop till he fixes my life I s2g. Shimon man ever since I started watching your videos around 2 weeks back I can’t express how impactful each and every video has been to me. The thing about fixing your mind and loving myself has resonated so deep with me. I’ve been so harsh on myself for 10+ years, viewing my failures as disgraceful and undermining my successes, but you made me realise how important it is to tell yourself that you are worthy you are enough. Much love to you brother you are an inspiration

[axivy]

He teaches you such an important lesson of not trying to force things that you know wont work, and to not be fixated on a person that doesn't hold interest in you. You two could be very compatible but if one side doesnt hold interest please dont waste your energy and move on because there will be so many people out there you will get to know and give you that energy back with even more appeal.

[mikenicholson]

I feel like you’re a blend of a philosopher and Jimi Hendrix reincarnated 😂 Keep doing your thing g amazing content.

[Insxmn]

Shimon is helping me solve my biggest social problems one video at a time ❤

[hebestreitfan]

2:22 "I like to serve but I'm afraid of water"

[blcgjku]

your voice is so calming, im super restless these days but rn i sat down listened to you and im just chilling, thank you brother

[lordstark]

Sometimes I can't believe how I've almost burned through my 20s without knowing these things. Being insecure with myself, being way too needy and desperate, not taking the lead...I hope 29 is still a valid age to start applying these things.

[subsloth]

Just started watching this video on my home page and I couldn't look away. It shocks me how accurate and helpful this information really is. Over the last 2-3 years especially I've learned a lot about how to interact with people I like and I've arrived to a point where everything you said in this video is my exact perspective on things, word for word. I'm starting to really try and get my identity together as I enter into my 20s and one thing you mentioned really impacted me; am I full enough, complete enough, worthy enough, or ready enough to give to someone else? Currently, the answer is no. And I'm sure it will continue to be no for quite some time until I figure who the hell I am and how to be a decent human being. Thank you for reassuring me. It's nice to know that other people with this perspective on life still do exist.

[AthleticCoast]

This video is what i needed my entire life long.. i am orphan so no social skillz but after this i think i got the full confidence abt myself

[dharmeshmistry]

This year I’ve learned that in order to have peace with yourself, you need to be comfortable with the idea that what you “should” or “shouldn’t” be is *impossible* to fulfill. Everyone has preferences and they are infinitely different, take a moment to consider that.

You just cannot treat changing yourself in order to appeal to someone’s view as an improvement of character; YOU are the character, if it’s not an improvement of YOU then it’s worthless.
Find the things you want in yourself: fitness, smarts, conversational ability, etc. and work on those.

Amazing vid, you speak eloquently. 💪🏽

[ivangg]

Hes not lying when he says the most important thing is being truly interested in the other person. Problem is that for some people its the hardest thing. (for me lol)

[nicometzker]

Man this is such genuine advice. Like something a good father would tell you. Even though this advice is obvious, I think most people watching this just need guidance. You are such a perfect person for this role bro, and that despite being so young. Massive respect