how I manage to start a conversation with anyone

Welcome back to the BeeFriend Course, a course dedicated to teaching you everything you need to know about becoming more likable, developing proper social skills, and the ability to make deep meaningful relationships wherever you go.

Learn the secrets to starting conversations with strangers and forming lasting friendships. In this video, I'll share my simple five-step process that I use while traveling to connect with people around me. Discover how proximity and eye contact play a crucial role in building meaningful relationships.

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Intro: (00:00)
Step #1: (00:15)
Step #2: (01:13)
Step #3: (01:40)
Step #4: (03:59)
Step #5: (04:24)
Outro: (04:45)

[nasr-rsln]

I feel like a robot learning how to be a human

[MegaPokemon]

"The riskier things you say, the more memorable and authentic you would be for them." This is soooo true! People whom you just met and just want to play safe and say mundane things or topics will not create an impact and a lasting memory.

[-LudovicaD]

I usually wait for others to talk to me 😂

[TrumpKilledEpstein]

*Makes eye contact accidentally*

*This guy* "WHERE ARE YOU FROM?!?"

[slavic_shitposting]

- So, why did we became friends again?
- Cause I came up to you and started talking
- Why?
- Cause I could 🗿

[simpleneeds]

breaking the ice gives you a tactical advantage over others. The goal here is not to keep talking, but to keep listening and keeping them as comfortable as you can.. Listening is the best way to do this

[alessiomarchetti]

"hi"
"Uh, hi"
"What part of town are you from"
_Calls the police_

[trinhanpham]

For Step #2, an even better question is, "Where did you grow up?" This focuses on their formation as a person, rather than a simple location so it invites them to tell more about their childhood and how they grew up, especially if they moved around a lot/had a less conventional upbringing.

[Armand]

I’m a really shy person and I can never carry the conversation. I feel like an alien trying to learn to have a basic conversation with another human 💀

[golden_kiwi]

Something I really need in my life is social skills

[SmashtoonGamer]

💀 this crap gotten out of hand. We watching videos on how to talk to each other

[MissesWitch]

I just realised I'm really good at talking to people, But terrible at step 1 and step 2.

He was like "here's where it's tricky" and I thought "wait, that's the easy part!"

Getting over the anxiety and just feeling good, Having that energy that others will want to talk to you is so important!

I think one big piece of helpful advice is~ target people who are bored!

I was at an airport with a long line that wasn't moving and everyone wanted to talk to me!

[trapea]

While it's true that taking risks and being authentic can make you more memorable, it's important to strike a balance. Being overly risky or controversial may alienate some people and could have negative consequences. Authenticity is about being true to yourself and expressing your beliefs, but it's also crucial to consider the context and the impact your words may have on others.
Effective communication involves understanding your audience, being mindful of the situation, and expressing yourself in a way that fosters connection rather than division. It's possible to be memorable and authentic without unnecessarily risking relationships or causing harm. Finding the right balance between expressing your true self and being considerate of others is key to effective and meaningful communication.

[_adam.r]

I wish I saw this video 1 month ago. During winter break I went on a cruise for 10 days and my whole routine there was wake up at 6am walk around everywhere on the ship and meet new people and talk with everyone until 3 am. It was one of my favorite experience in my life bc I suffered a lot with social anxiety when I was a kid and since I was 16 I would always try to surpass that and go talk to Stanger in my city. But this cruise was like my final exam. I literally became the most popular person on the boat and every 10min I would say hi to someone I know my friends could not believe it bc it was people from different social backgrounds it was so funny. But I still had some difficulty at some point I knew I needed more knowledge. Thanks again.

[Leto]

You make it sound so simple and I love that, because this way it becomes simple and natural. Thanks!

[apurba]

🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:

00:00 👋 *Starting Conversations: Proximity and Eye Contact*
- Emphasis on the importance of proximity and eye contact when starting conversations.
- Proximity: Choosing people within one or two meters for natural, non-disruptive interactions.
- Eye contact: Initiating conversations with those who make brief eye contact, signaling potential interest.
01:23 🌍 *Asking "Where Are You From?"*
- Utilizing the question "Where are you from?" as a universal and non-intrusive conversation starter.
- Adapting the question based on diverse backgrounds or specific situations.
- Highlighting the positive response received from this opening line in various contexts.
01:52 🤔 *Sharing Knowledge and Asking Questions*
- Sharing personal knowledge about the other person's background and asking related questions.
- Demonstrating genuine curiosity and interest in learning about the other person.
- Examples of sharing information about a person's country and asking thought-provoking questions.
03:02 🎭 *Embracing Adventurous Conversations*
- Encouragement to be adventurous and take risks in conversations.
- Advocating for memorable and authentic interactions through risky statements.
- Acknowledging that some people may be triggered, but emphasizing the value of authenticity.
03:58 🍻 *Inviting Them Out and Building Rapport*
- Transitioning from casual conversation to inviting the person out.
- Suggesting activities like drinks or meals for a continuation of the interaction.
- Recognizing that the majority of rapport is built during this phase of the conversation.
04:53 🤝 *Cementing Connections: Remembering Names*
- The significance of remembering and mentioning the person's name.
- Advising to mention their name once to leave a lasting impression.
- Concluding the five-step process for starting conversations and potentially forming friendships.

[Keg.m]

I'm a loser but this one dude spoke to me using these exact steps got me wondering if he watched this too

[haroldi.]

Its easy, as a former shy person to other shy people, always step out of your comfort zone, always try to be uncomfortable

[brawnxbt]

The fact that I did these steps before even watching this video with a girl I met randomly in the bus makes me feel so powerful 😭😭

[gaegeroot]

"What part of town are y..."

"I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!"