Secret To Getting Better At Talking To People

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Welcome to the BeeFriend course. In today's lesson, we're going to go over what I consider to be the fastest way to getting better at talking to other people. You can watch all the social skill/charisma videos that you want, but nothing will trump this one thing that will improve your communication skills.

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[Abbiekakez]

I feel like a robot learning to be a human

[jadak]

I always wished I could be one of those people who can make a total stranger feel comfortable talking to me

[spicymemelord]

my problems are
a) I never know what to say
and
b) I worry a lot about making people uncomfortable when I want to engage a conversation with a stranger

[contaminatecha]

The part when he said "go out and talk to people and you'll learn what's not appropriate" stuck a chord with me. I've spent years saying inappropriate things and watching people excuse themselves from a conversation with me. It's a horrible feeling to see people backing away because I just wanted to be relatable.

[goodlife]

My biggest problem isn’t that I’m shy to talk to people, I just don’t know what to say.

[velardechelo]

1970: We will have flying cars by 2020.
2020: How to talk to a person tutorial.

[tomskih]

Rule no.1 listen twice as much as you talk. Silence is powerful. if in doubt, get people talking about themselves.

[jukvixb]

For me, the hard part was silences; I was always afraid they would make me or the other person feel awkward. It really helped when I learned that awkwardness is a normal part of life and relationships, and not a problem at all.
When you embrace the fact that sometimes there will be silences and awkwardness and that it is okay, talking to anyone becomes 200% easier

[pnkbaeby]

I can talk to people but I always feel like I'm bothering them when I'm talking to them ;-; so I don't

[maheendhanani]

Everyone coming out of quarantine watching this to re-learn being a human

[rkr]

Me offline :- introvert
online :- super extrovert

[frlve]

Talking feels embarrassing. I’m so nervous about tripping over my words, or saying the wrong things. It feels like a weight is on my shoulder everytime I try to write or talk. I’m breaking out of this mindset and doing better to keep communication steady, flowing, and beautiful like I had when I was a child!

[xclassyvideostarx]

that moment when your life becomes so sad that you have to look up ‘how to talk to people’

[loudand_clear]

“So just get out there and talk to more people, ”

My social anxiety: anyways what’s plan b

[abhijitkshirsagar]

I completed the 100 interactions challenge in 13 days. Feels amazing, though most of them were people I knew, number of interactions grew slowly as I progressed. On my way to be more confident 💪

[omerbi]

I'm feeling it the other way around. Texting feels so difficult. You have to understand how to come off as confident, funny, what's odd to say or what emoji fits to each situation.
There are real subtleties that younger people might feel more fluent with.

[xiaath]

bruh my mind just fucking goes blank when talking to someone

[mashamalinkine]

My biggest problem is that I have a fear of just having an awkward conversation. It just bugs me.

[praveenlawrence]

If there was one mistake I made in life and now regret, it was that I didn't spend the rest of my childhood going out and spending time with friends and learning, observing, and building social skills to be able to talk to people. Like everyone in the comments section, I was also socially awkward and introverted, and my dumass old self said that I didn't need to interact with people because it was a waste of time and energy to even try.

That mindset led me to what I am currently feeling: loneliness, pathetic, and a lack of self-confidence and communication. Every time I try to talk, I either talk too fast or say something that people won't know because I keep on mumbling or stuttering. And the replies I get are "Sorry, I don't understand?" or "Can you speak slowly?" or "Can you repeat that one more time?" IT'S SO DAMN FRUSTRATING AND I HATE IT, NOT ON THE PEOPLE WHO ARE ACTING LIKE THIS, BUT IM MAD AT MYSELF FOR WHY I BECAME LIKE THIS. And even after multiple attempts to improve this problem, I still manage to fumble and repeat this cycle again and again.

Now all I ever wanted right now is people or at least someone who I could talk to normally and to make sure I kept them accompanied and made them feel comfortable around me, not being an anti-social and awkward person who was dying on the inside and always blaming themself. Right now, I'm still finding ways to be a better social person, and I will promise to become a better person for myself and for those, I dearly want to spend my time with.

(I speaking this to the commenters below, because I know you all can relate to this and it's ok, we all can have our time to overcome it if you are experiencing the same problem. Feel free to comment.)

[ahmedyounes]

The main point is to reduce online interactions and try to go and interact with people in real life to have all the factors playing like " sign language, etc. " so If we want to improve our social and communication skills we just have to try to talk to different people even by saying hi
• This is what I have understood from the video and for anyone reading my comment I hope you have a great day