SHOULD YOU BLOCK YOUR AVOIDANT EX?

Whilst blocking an avoidant ex is ideal in theory, not everyone is ready or capable to do that just yet and I don’t recommend this strategy for everyone. #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment
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Disclaimer: This is NOT a sponsored video. All opinions expressed are wholly my own.

[Wbe]

It’s crazy how somebody can literally be on your mind so much that you have to quit them like a bad habit/drug.

[firefoxchibi]

Agreed. I didn't block my ex until after getting back together twice only for him to do the same thing, then try a friendship, that didn't work either. It wasn't until I found out he had lied to me and betrayed me that I blocked him, and by that time, I was more than ready to slam that door shut. I know if I tried to block him when I still had hope, it would have made me feel worse and I only would've ended up in a cycle of blocking and unblocking. Now he's cut off for good and I feel great about the decision.

[barbara]

If you were discarded or the breakup ended with disrespect....BLOCK! Why would you make it so easy for this person to come back when you have evidence this person does not have the human decency to handle you. You are dodging a bullet. BLOCK and never look back. Hurt people never stop hurting. Make them ho through the hurt to try to get your attention and them if they do try to convince you they have changed, hold them accountable. The majority never ever change.

[hansolo]

Shoot I did it because I refused to put up with her toxic behavior. I feel much better like I have my mental health back.

[stavros]

Took me a week. She kept stalking my stories. I blocked her after that. Felt way better

[JoeJoe-lobk]

It’s time, I just blocked her on social and phone, I don’t want to go back anymore, I admit I did, but now I want to move on without any contact at all. To be honest she probably doesn’t care anyway being that she’s an FA due to childhood trauma. Too bad because I did care for her, but it’s time to move on after three months. Thanks

[rrsepicchannel]

Thankyou. I would rather wait for answers that may never come than shut off the possibility of them altogether. I am realistic about the chances of me getting answers. And there is a grief process to this which may last a long time. Thankyou for acknowledging. You have to go through not around. I think a lot of people who recommend blocking don't truly understand that avoidance is not intentional but rather subconscious driven behaviour.

[francis]

I unfriended my avoident crush on discord. They said I maid them feel safe. But they were alway too busy. I'm anxious and worried I had bothered them. I couldn't stand the reminder of them on Discord. Or being told what games they were playing. I feel guilty about unfreanding them. Apart of wants to apologize. But I feel like that would just create more problems

[lynnlombardo]

So many people have told me to do that.