Your AVOIDANT Ex Thinks THIS when you Block Them

In today’s video I’m addressing a question some people asked about exes and social media.

It’s easy to get caught up in if we should block our ex or unfriend them if we’re trying to get them back. And a lot of times this can cause us a lot of anxiety or confusion around what’s the best thing to do.

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[goldenlifelove]

I dont care what he thinks!! I blocked him to heal & move on. My breakup did hurt me! It was detrimental to how I felt. My healing is more of a concern to me, than how me blocking him looks to him. Folks gonna not block somebody that doesn't deserve their time, energy or attention just so the ex wont think the breakup hurt them. That's weird!!!

[societiesscapegoat]

Cut all contact…BLOCK AND MOVE ON. They are not worth the headache!

[eurolex]

You do not want to take the avoidant person back if they decide to “win” you back. They will learn that it’s ok to cross your boundaries over and over again, because you will keep taking them back.

[sivabeharry]

Sometimes you have to make a stance by blocking them out of their life via setting a boundary. if they know they did wrong and purposefully tried playing games, you don't need to entertain that. Not all breakups are bad and not all ex's are Narcs. But if you tried being civil or tried being decent and they still disrespected you; I would honestly cut their access off and make a firm stance you won't tolerate what they are doing. People at some point need to accept things don't work out and that's okay. If you pose yourself in a position to make them work for you or try and "win you back"....your disrespecting yourself and taking away from the work you put in to heal.

[marystein]

It doesn’t matter what they think anymore. They are the ones who didn’t want you. Why would you want to be with someone who didn’t see your value? I block them for my peace. I have already done enough for them.

[jacquelinerussaw]

I unfriended my avoidant ex. I broke up with him because the relationship wasn’t progressing at all and we were together for 18 mos..I have been in no contact for 3 mos.. He started to heart my photos so I unfriended him. I didnt want him thinking I was stalking him on social media. That’s what he accused me of in our relationship. I don’t want him back. We have two different attachment styles. I am anxious and he is dismissive avoidant. His attachment style made my anxiousness in relationships worse.

[veronicaocean]

My ex is an avoidant and I had him blocked EVERYWHERE and after 5 months he still managed to find the way to contact me 💀
They always come back

[carnelia]

Lots of advice on why you should leave. Never..try to work it out. That's why you make up your own mind. 😊

[milourh]

Avoidants are NOT children. They are adults fully aware of their situation and it is their responsibility to heal instead of being idiots. We all have traumas. And we are TIRED with games.

[LovelyStar]

If i don't block him, he contacts me and it stops my healing process, I have the will power to stay away but he wont stop checking in every now and again so i had to block him

[MikkoAlex]

For the sake of your future relationship, block and delete all memories. It would be very disrespectful to your next partner and would put that person in an awkward situation if his/her friends and family background check you.

[barbara]

BLOCK & DELETE! If they couldn't see your value when you were together, you make them a lesson in memory.

[PamelaJohnson-migd]

No I blocked mine. It broke my heart, but he came back, I never obsessed or chased, but when he came back he was leading me on with calls as if maybe he might come around. Then I suspected he was seeing someone else. I do think he cared, but I couldn’t heal this way. Blocked.

[glamdoll]

F— that block him and act like he never existed because he didn’t it was an act to get you attached. So why would you want to hear from anybody that don’t care about how they make u feel or care about them coming back.. move on tomorrow a.m. and treat him like he’s a bugger u picked out your nose

[murdiesel]

You have text/cell so when you unfriend them you send a message for your own boundary. Move forward and never look back! If you know your value it is not you who needs to level up if you already are.

[sanskritisrivastava]

I didn’t block him initially but as soon as he felt i’ve moved on and healing from my social media. He’d come back again only to leave me again. After 3 times of this happening, I finally blocked him. I don’t want him to come back now but it hurts alot. I’m still hurting. I just hope I will be fine one day.

[robynsf]

Thank you, I needed this encouragement today.

[_jules]

Well what if they are breadcrumbing and it’s ruining your mental health with their games? Then you block!

[Chloeeee]

My ex broke up with me after an argument and he said that we’re just incompatible and we can’t be together after a year of dating. It’s been 6 weeks of no contact and I haven’t heard. Do you think there’s hope for him to reach out? What do you think I can do

[johnkaiser]

I don't have to do anything as my past partner unfriended me and blocked me. I'm free to work on me for me. Yeah I'd like to work it out with her, I understand all I can control is me and what I do. So I'm working to better myself, I have no control over her and what she chooses to do.