How To Get Over Someone You NEVER Dated 💔

[riderzz]

This is soooo fucking true.... I can tell from experience.
The harder it is to let go.. The less you love and respect yourself

[brvndxnl]

It's been 10 months since the girl I liked cut me off. It was entirely my fault; I said some pretty immature things. The worst part was that she stopped talking to me right before my trial, after I was arrested the beginning of that month. And what really hurts the most is that she assured me she'd still stick by me.

Ever since then, I've been unemployed, locked in my room, depressed to the point of contemplating taking my own life. I know very well that one girl shouldn't be affecting me this much, but this is just how it's been for me.

To all the strangers reading this, don't be like me. Don't let yourself be held back by any series of unfortunate events. I'm wasting time, please don't waste yours.

[BenDaugherty-yc]

Dude, this video just made a lightbulb go off in my head and automatically I feel less of a burden. Thank you for that!

[starchildsol]

To get over someone find something that really fires up your heart and soul something so interesting and cool and fun you can do or create 😅 ❤thank you!

[Dr.Steampunkd]

It has been two years for me. I put her on a pedestal, and I only just realised yesterday. I still think that she will always be the only one.

[TocaEva]

My crush is leaving in 3 days and not only are we friends but they make my day better. They are leaving for high school and I’m one grade lower so I would have to go to 8th grade. I’ve been friends with them since I was in middle school so two years now, and I’m very sad but if we hang out it will be awkward, because I can get awkward. I hope we stay friends, but I doubt I’ll see them once until they go to high school. I’m really sad and have been crying every night because it’s been one year that I’ve liked them for (I didn’t feel like that with them in 6th grade), and I’ve never felt this way with nobody, and the fact that we are friends just breaks my heart even more. I hope I heal with summer coming up for me, but I don’t think I will any time soon. I hope the best for our future although I’m scared that right when I healed, I’ll go to high school and it’ll start again. I hope I either stay friends with them or stay apart. And I hope we stay friends for my heart and I hope we stay apart from my brain. I’m having so much fun this summer but I’m going to think all about them this whole summer, and the fact they won’t be there for a whole year makes me want to curl in a ball and cry. (Which I have done because of them). They are not a bad person, it’s just me. I hope I can heal, and not cry every night.
Worst part is my friends don’t know because I’ve told them I’ve liked guys but this person was born a woman, and I am too. My friends don’t believe in that stuff, and being Christian I don’t either, but I can’t control it. My two closest friends both do not support LGPTQIA+ AT ALL. And I’m afraid to tell them, and I don’t tell my parents either because they are extremely religious. I wish I could get it out but instead here I am, on an alt account venting. I hope one day I could start liking men, and not have to lie about crushes.

[IAmThatBoySnowy]

Thank you jak for the last 2 years of help man I'm so glad you were my guide to be better.

[Danielhaas-]

Just another guy who helps all of us every day thanks so much I really appreciate you and what you do ❤❤❤

[sleepingboiz]

My advice is, get to know the person you’re loving then you’ll realize that you’re loving them based on how you wanted to be loved. Not because they’re special. But if you still love them regardless then confess it and move on.

[noodlenado]

It makes me feel so much better, tbh, to know that this is a very common experience

[DylanTodaro]

That last part rlly just turned my thinking around thanks bro

[HarveyFoFi]

Thank you, I didn't have this horrible feeling for a really long time, but its back again with a vengeance. Its worst, because this person lives right in front of me, & has a new boyfriend.

[meezoidfanboy]

thanks man I just found the root, the reason I love her is cause she gave me attention... she was the first to ever look at me, maybe ive never talked to her but she always stares at me... I feel so lonely..

[asdfasdadasd]

i dated 1 girl just once and i never see her again, but i feel like this loss is gonna haunt me as long as i live

[thedoodoobrain]

I felt it differently. I was at a point where I loved myself fully, finally. She came along and it was perfect. A month of study dates later, I confessed my feelings, and she shared those feelings. Two months are gone and she's back with her ex, seven years had they been together, I never even got a date after confessing. The worst thing is this, she acts like it never happened, she said she thought my feelings had changed, like we were somehow just friends. Maybe it makes it bearable for her, but I am now stuck with love I can't give, which turns every waking moment into grief.

[planetkeatonia]

Thanks man! It really helps hearing you say this.

[Alpha_Scavenger]

There's this one girl that I say I'm over and try to convince myself that I don't like her, but I just end up at war with myself😓

[Swiss-Guy]

Its like you just wanna date every girl you see and think oh shes cute. I hate it cause it destroys me. All the time when I see my crush that I probably talked a some words too I feel so down. And when I wanna do eye contact and walk past her she doesnt even notice me but I am not suprised about that.😞😞😞

[GrDarkLordVoldemort]

Brother I needed this... I knew all this. But I guess I need to hear it from some one else

[schqrr]

It was only because she was my first ever real like pursue someone go out with kinda thing, but I guess it was a one way street of feelings