HOW TO GET OVER A BREAKUP FAST | forget your ex, move on for good and glow up.

HOW TO GET OVER HIM FOR GOOD AND GLOW UP IN THE PROCESS
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[ginger]

this is a small message for all the people watching this video or reading these comments: a breakup is not easy and although this video is super in depth and helpful not everyones healing journeys are going to be the same. I had a super messy breakup earlier this year in January from a guy I loved for 6 years and it took me SO so long to detach myself from him even though he was super toxic. 7 months after the breakup and many failed talking/dating stages later I met my current boyfriend, I can't even remember the pain I went through from that breakup because of him. Sometimes it takes another person to show you what love is actually like to get over the past. Wishing everyone lots of luck on moving forward and being happy !!

[HurrairahMohammed]

“That mistreatment is your closure” absolutely 💯

[atinyff]

He didn't even like me in the first place and im here getting over him

[sanyasachdeva]

I freaking hate him for how much he has hurt me, left me cryinh and went to sleep and called me stupid for crying i freaking hate hate hate hate him

[cogaichamchi]

2:24 the grieving stage
2:41 #1 feel your feelings
4:03 #2 write a letter
5:51 #3 the IT list
7:35 #4 move out
9:38 #5 have boundaries
10:16 #6 stop focusing on him/her

11:27 the healing stage
12:00 #1 realize your own toxic traits
13:43 #2 reassure yourself
14:26 #3 hold yourself accountable
15:38 #4 everything happens for a reason
17:13 #5 change the narrative
17:56 #6 create a new routine
18:34 #7 what is your purpose/mission?
20:02 #8 the glow up

21:39 living
22:16 #1 regular solo dating
22:48 #2 detach
23:31 #3 don't beat yourself up for having flashbacks
24:15 #4 focus on YOU
24:33 #5 practice self love

25:36 homework

[musewounded]

This is spiritual alignment because I needed this right at this exact moment ❤😂

[jacquelynlauren]

You know, I wrote out my dream man qualities, when me and my toxic ex broke up back in March 2021. January 2022 I met a guy and he checked everything off my list. Literally everything. We dated for a year and a half and I thought we were soulmates. Long stories short we broke up 11 or 12 days ago and I’ve realized so much. And the list I had for my “dream man” back in 2021 is still my list, I’m just adding things to that list that I didn’t know I wanted in a man, until after my most current ex. It was a learning experience and I suggest that to anyone I talk to going through a break up. I love this video. Thank you 💞

[Jaya-]

the ick list works wonders. i read it everytime i miss him, and i nope tf out of whatever i was missing 😂😭

[forevergodly]

"Why are they not blocked?" that was so loud Tam. But thanks for calling me out.😂

[nosihlemasemabanga]

The timing of this video is too perfect😭 I am currently going through a break-up after my relationship of 5 years ended. It has only been two days but to say I am going through it would be an understatement. Thank you Tam!

[DavisMalone-mq]

Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.

[xxutauhshinaxx]

Three months into my breakup and watching / reading everything i can to process my feelings. So happy you touched on this 😭 THANK YOU TAM

[priyaa_]

To do list:-
1. Write what made u feel bad in that relationship/ guy.
2. Perks of not being with him eg, wear whatever u feel like, do whatever u feel, talk to whomsoever ( feel free)
3. Write your dream relationship
4. Write What value that relationship added in your life other than toxicity 😂
5. Write your dream relationship
6. Overthink what was so spl in them other than the energy u put in them

[KM.]

How badly I needed this video as my boyfriend of 4.5 yrs just left me a few months ago for no solid reason & I've been switching between being fine & literally having a mental breakdown, ur vids always give me a new outlook towards a situation 🩷🩷

[prajjwalika]

Me who's not even going through a breakup rn but when Tam posted? I've to watch it coz ik there'll be something that I'll be able to learn from this and apply it in my life someday.

And we don't say 'No' to knowledge, do we queens??

[oyinkansolaadekoya]

hi tam,

I’m a 14 year old girl and I love watching your videos. I know that your content is typically geared towards older people, but I just want to thank you for your videos and guidance. By following your strategies, I’ve made my life a little bit brighter. Much love for the US ❤️❤️

[hsinf]

I’ve never had a ex bf but multiple failed talking stages 😭 I find myself becoming so desperate to be romantically desired that the other person consumes all my thoughts and I become delusional and miss all their red flags SMDH. I definitely need to prioritize my self-love and not let a man’s validation control my life.

[simxiiety]

been 10 months after the breakup and duh still haven't moved on but i know someday it wont hurt anymore and ima work hard for that. thankyou for this ❤️
ps - will come and edit this comment when i feel like i have moved on fr

[bestiiejenn]

i recently went through a terrible breakup but you helped me move on from him & i realised he was so toxic for me. Thanks Tam! Enjoying this so far <333

[Elevenbravo_ABN]

Even as a man, I’m benefiting a lot from this. I’m even more prone towards nostalgia than the average person, and that’s always been a huge roadblock in getting over my ex.

I finally learned and deleted every trace of her, including emails and texts. I should have done that from the beginning.

Don’t make the mistakes I made.