How to heal after a breakup

this video explains how you can fill that void and emptiness that we feel while going through a breakup

[selxwrld]

i’m hurting, i have no energy for anyone and anything. i feel so alone and empty with no sense of direction and all i want is to be with him. to be in his arms, to feel his warmth presence. i don’t want to let him go.. he’s been a light in my life. his presence alone has saved me from a deep point in my life. he means everything to me. i think about him 24/7 and sometimes i forcibly distract myself from processing it. i seek love and friendship, he was my only true friend. don’t have anyone else. i really don’t know what to do..

[patchworkcreation.]

While i disagree with trying to not cry, i agree with not reminiscing too much, or really at all. Also, "forget the teacher, remember the lesson" is absolutely amazing advice.

[bozio.]

I almost killed myself yesterday because she broke up with me. She was my everything. Thank you for posting this, it means a lot to me

[eelizabethrosas]

my bf broke up with me two days ago. i feel so alone, i loved him so much, he was also my bestfriend and the ONLY person i had, no one else was there for me like this man was. we had our problems but i was always willing to fight for him and us, but he just didn't want too anymore. it hurts, it really does especially when you've visioned and planned your whole life with this person. anyways, i came to watch some healing videos bc i have no idea how to move on, how to feel, how to think but coming across this video and reading some of the comments, it does give a little reassurance. ofc it doesn't make the pain hurt any less but i still appreciate it and i just hope one day i can come back to this and not feel the pain.

[eatmorechicken]

My gf broke up with me almost 2 weeks ago. When this video dropped and I saw it, ngl it made my heart sank again. It comes back every now and then. But now, I’m starting to feel a bit better day by day and slowly, I’m starting to get back into drawing. Making art has been one of the few things that made me feel comfort, but i still appreciate reminders like this. So thank you.❤

[NokukhanyaNdlovu-sx]

my bf dumped me a week ago at my most vulnerable tym, i loved him so much and id do anything for him . i begged him so many times to to fix things we experienced a small issue, but he decided to leave me and refused fixing things, i thought maybe maybe i was a problem but i noticed that if he really loved me, he would have done anything and i mean anything to fix our relationship but he didnt that gave me courage to step back a little and focus on my books . i was still grieving our relationship and he had already had a new girlfriend in mind . i was hurt coz i was so loyal to him. i hope my heart heals, i deserve better

[JarredWoods]

the timing, i ruined a relationship with someone who truly cared for me. i wish i could go back and fix everything but some things just can’t be fixed. i wish her the best in everything. i didn’t deserve her (update. me and her were able to work things out and have been fixing things, im doing everything in my power to be the best man i can. Just happy i have the chance to show her i can be better)

[marezzy]

I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday. He would always compare me to another girl. And since i started talking to him all my friends have been ignoring me. They may be jealous i dont know. All i know is now that im isolated i have more time to focus and learn about me. I trust in Gods plan, and slowly starting to trust myself. ❤

[akiera]

i literally just got broken up with yesterday this is crazy timing.

think what i'll do for now is continue to just be positive and work on myself because someone better and who's more deserving of my love will come around. I'll miss her still of course but i ain't letting this hold me back from my growth

[P.C._stars]

The relationship was going through a heavy decline, we broke up last night and I finally cried. I have confidence I can get through this because of you now. Thank you dude.

[jadenknapp]

No shot, this is the best video timing ever. Thank you

[joelbenjamin]

no lies here. i started putting in so much work and loving myself a lot more after i broke up with her. i can’t even recognize who i am at this point. i’ve grown so much and i love it! (ps: if you’re going through a break up, remember it’s a break from the world for you to take yourself back up😉)

[Pinshekiwi]

The hardest thing i’m dealing with. Is being alone :/

[commander_]

I still miss her, it’s been 3 months and I continue to blame myself bc if I didn’t do what I did she wouldn’t have been how she was yk? But it’s hard to accept that we’re all humans and we make mistakes but I have hope and faith that one day we’ll cross paths again. I leave it in Gods hands to bring her back all I can do now is elevate myself

[WhiskeyTape]

Well, my breakup isn't recent (happened a year ago), but I always struggle getting over such things for a long periods of time. Many thanks, you've saved me a few more years of quiet misery.

[Blakebyrd]

I hate that I fucked everything up I just wish she had been more empathetic to what I was going through at the time. I just hope she valued what we had together

[darkfoxy]

What a great time posting this. She broke up with me a week ago and I haven’t been the same since. She was my everything and a part of me still feels missing. I’ve been pursing my passion for Music and skating more now and have become closer with my family and friends over the last week to fill the void

[neongenesisbro]

Thank you so much Shimon. I’ve been struggling through my breakup a lot recently and I really needed to hear these truths. Please keep up your great work, you are seriously helping people out here man. I hope for nothing but the absolute best for you bro.

[SwetScnt]

Had some type of situation ship for like 2 years, I was the one that had to stop it since I realised the effort wasn’t equal and he told me he was on a journey to find himself. Later found out during that time we had texted, and during his self journey, he had a girl, broke my heart twice since she cheated on him wit someone else and he lied. Thanks man for this vid it was pretty much applicable to what I went through. <^•—•^> Kat hugs for komfort

[damonteforney]

It's taken me a year and 8 months to finally move forward. I've been going on nature walks, I did get a guitar to add to my music hobby and I go to the gym. Right now, it's been a balance of doing those things plus times of inner healing. It hasn't been easy but now I can finally give myself what I gave her