Signs You're Not Meant To Be In A Relationship

If you've been questioning your dating life or feeling unsure about love, this video is for you. We will be providing valuable insights and relationship advice to understand if a relationship is not right for you at this moment. Whether you're exploring dating advice or seeking clarity on love, this video provides essential tips to help you navigate your romantic journey. Click the play button now to gain a deeper understanding of why a relationship might not be the best path for you right now.

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Writer: Dylan Swanepoel
Editor: Isadora Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Brandon
Animator: Krisha Que
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

[kenrickbautista]

I'm 28 and still single to this day. I'll date someone when I'm officially ready. Sometimes, it's better to be alone than be with the wrong person.

[Rando_mIndividual]

0:31 How do you act in your other relationships?
1:23 How do you feel about yourself?
2:07 Do you know what you want?
2:52 Do you change to attract people?
3:37 Do you feel pressured?

Also, just for anyone who needs to hear it, please take your time. The world will not spin without you, it’s not gonna leave you behind. You deserve every kind of love, and self love is arguably the most important love of all. You’re allowed to take time to yourself, you’re allowed to feel uncertain, you are completely valid to value yourself. Don’t feel bad, you’re gonna do so well in life once you learn how much you matter and how much you’re truly loved.

[neofulcrum]

It’s kinda tiring seeing everyone you know in a happy relationship for years now. Happy for them yes, but it gets pretty lonely sometimes.

[Laniya.]

When i was "talking" to someone for the first time, I realized how insecure i was. On top of that, I was dismissing all the red flags from this guy because I got attached so quickly, and I just wanted to be with him. I realized I had an attachment issue and a communication issue. So I am glad he ghosted me because I needed to work on myself so that I could attract people that also worked on themselves

[stayhappylittlemermaid]

Wherever you go, no matter what the weather, always bring your own sunshine.🌞🌝☀️

[O.uroboros.]

I don't need a video to tell me that I'm not meant to be in a relationship. Figured that out a long time ago

[GaryGeat]

After several failed attempts in finding love, I have determined that maybe I am better off alone. This is not meant to sound like self-deprecation, but more of a harsh reality check. There is no better half out there for me.

[purplecyanblack]

I have a friend I’ve known for over 5 years. Ive had feelings for her that entire time. She never felt the same way, however. For the longest time, it was very difficult for me to come to terms with that. Hell, it still is. But one thing that helps, is that I know our relationship as very close friends, would absolutely be ruined if we were to take it further.
I love her dearly. She means so much to me. And because of that, and pretty much every reason listed here, going into a relationship with her would be a terrible idea.
The heart wants what the heart wants, still. But that’s going away more and more as I come to terms with this reality.
There’s so much more to life than being with someone. We are our own people. We are infinitely complex creatures, to the point of sometimes even being hypocritical in nature. We are not defined by one thing, person, or event. And when we choose to be that way, it stifles our growth in all aspects. It makes us into a fraction of ourselves. And no one person can make us any more whole than how we choose to be, consciously or unconsciously.
No one is going to complete you. No one is going to save you. A relationship just complicates things. And yes, there are so many beautiful things on the other side of all that complicated stuff, but unless you have someone with whom you can navigate that with, you’re never going to get there. And both of you are just going to become super messed up because of it all.
Take time. Find yourself. And once you do, strive to become the greatest version of yourself. It doesn’t have to be all at once. Just a little bit every day. The only “too little” is nothing at all.
Everything else will fall into place after that.
I promise.

[huseyinaltun]

According to this video, im perfectly ready for a relation.

She chose someone else over me 😔

[pessimistkage]

"You should love yourself, NOW"⚡⚡⚡

[NOTHlNG]

It's very uplifting to know that you will die unloved, alone...

[RetroManiac]

For me, I'd say that I'm not ready for a relationship, but I still really want one, and my biggest reason for wanting one is because I deeply want to feel loved and cared for by someone other than family. I have a great relationship with my mother and love her a lot, and I know she loves me, however, I've gotten to the point where her love just isn't enough anymore, I need someone my own age who I love and care for to do the same for me now, and she understands this too. Another major reason is because of the huge lack of people in my life.

To get slightly more personal, the amount of people in my life is extremely low. I'm an only child, none of my grandparents are alive, and while I have some aunts, uncles and cousins, none of them are blood-related, and I don't really have a relationship with them at all and rarely see them. While my father is alive, our relationship is a little strained and I rarely see him either, and I also have no friends. So basically, the only person I have in my life is my mother, and again, while I love her, I just need more. I have a void in my life that, I feel, DESPARATELY needs to be filled.

I always hear that getting into a relationship simply to fill in a void is generally a bad idea, but for me, because of how my life is, I just can't see it as a bad thing. After all, I hear constantly that humans are social creatures, and of course, most of us have a biological drive to find a mate. So I'm sorry, I just can't see "filling in a void" as a bad thing in my case. Plus, it's not wrong to want to be loved and have a fulfilling relationship, so my want and even need for one, I feel is completely justified. Now some might say that I should focus on making friends first, and I can understand that too. But to me, I view a partner as not only a romantic interest, but as your best friend, so in my mind, focusing on a partner is also focusing on friends to a degree. Now, of course having friends would be nice too, but even just having one person in my life (either a romantic partner or great friend, but preferably the former) would help me a ton. Of course, I can't know for sure until I have one, but that's how I feel currently.

[TheMCzorro]

Apparently, I'm doomed to be single forever. There's freedom in that though

[michaelfisher]

After two failed marriages i had to come to terms with the fact that i have never been and will never be suited to a relationship. Its hard to give up on the ideal of sharing your life but some of us will never be able to. And...oh well.

[avertthymortaleyes]

If I'm not madly in love with someone I'm terribly selfish.

[tatum_art_with_fluff]

The only thing I can see I struggle with (and my partner as well) is the fact that I couldn't imagine a future for myself before meeting my bf, I felt horrible about myself, and just when I met him I felt like I had some worth, not just as a partner but as a whole person. I dont think that'll go away if we break up, but I've learned it with him. I hope we both get treated someday and can learn to love ourselves more, but I don't think I need to leave them to feel worthy for myself now.

[timothy]

It's sad that there are multiple places in this video that stick out but I'm glad I watched this because honestly it's a wake up call.

[HailAnts]

Since I was 12 what I've wanted more than anything is a girlfriend. I'm 58 and have never really had one. And aren't going to.

No self-esteem. Zero. Full of self-loathing. Took me 25+ years to fully realize that, now I just drift along rudderless.

No goals, no hope, nothing. Just waiting to get old and die. And I don't really care.

[jwanie]

I've been asking myself recently if I'm ready for a long-term relationship (or if I actually even want one). So many people I've known for awhile have gotten married or had kids over the last few years so I've been getting that FOMO. But my family keeps telling me it's just not my time yet; I just gotta keep working on maturing as a person and eventually I'll meet that special someone

[cannibalcarwash]

I agree with loving yourself being important. But some people are arrogant in the way they do it. Constantly looking for validation and attention on social media. And that can damage you're self-esteem.