WHY NO-ONE UNDERSTANDS THE ABUSE YOU WENT THROUGH - Its a personal journey

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The Royal We has helped Millions to escape the grip of narcissistic abuse. Here’s a deeper look into what narcissistic abuse looks like and steps to heal from it:

Narcissistic abuse looks like:

Lack of Empathy: Narcissists often show little to no empathy for others, making it easy for them to manipulate and exploit. Narcissists use various tactics such as gaslighting, love bombing, and devaluation to control and dominate their victims.

Common Tactics Used in Narcissistic Abuse:

Gaslighting: Making the victim doubt their own reality and sanity.
Love Bombing: Showering the victim with excessive attention and affection to gain control.

Devaluation: Undermining the victim’s self-worth through criticism, belittling, and emotional neglect.

Isolation: Cutting the victim off from their support systems to increase dependency on the abuser.

Triangulation: Using others to create jealousy or competition, keeping the victim feeling insecure.
Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

How to begin healing from narcissistic abuse:
Understand that you have been enduring narcissistic abuse. This awareness is the first step toward healing.

Get Help:

Establish No Contact or Low Contact:

Limit or completely cut off communication with the narcissistic abuser. This helps you gain emotional distance and begin your healing journey.
Rebuild Your Self-Esteem:

Engage in activities that boost your confidence and self-worth. Surround yourself with supportive, positive people who value and respect you.
Educate Yourself:

Learn about narcissistic abuse and its effects. Knowledge is empowering and can help you recognize patterns and avoid future toxic relationships.
Practice Self-Care:

Prioritize your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Regular exercise, a healthy diet, adequate sleep, and mindfulness practices can all contribute to your recovery.
Set Boundaries:

Develop and maintain healthy boundaries in all your relationships.

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[SCSRdotorg]

The worst part of being a victim to these people is no one believes you. They think you are exaggerating everything.

[RPJacob]

I was told many times: "Nobody has perfect family", yes but there is a line, beyond which the family becomes pathologically toxic.

[lawrencemorris]

Only someone who has experienced this mind boggling torture understands it. Everyone else says, just get over it. Your sanity comes back when you are away from them.

[nancyshiver]

You only understand if you have been through it yourself!! And once you see it you can’t unsee it!!

[SteenGroentved]

That nobody understands, and that you potentially just dig the hole deeper in trying to get help, is absolutely the worst part of narcississtic isolation.

[dawnborelli]

I was born into the narcissistic relationship and the abuse can literally make you hate yourself. Outsiders don't understand as it can be so difficult to even describe the abuse. Thank you for helping to clear a path for acknowledgement and subsequent healing.

[angellove]

It makes me so lonely.. 😔
That no one seems to understand.. and no one even tries to understand.. So lonely..

[Elementtlife]

Any type of abuse that hits your whole core is pure evil!

[Demebeso]

The narcissist has different sides to their personalities...some see only the good..others experience the evil..the one who only experiences the good will never ever believe you..and will turn against you and team up with the narcissist...get away from both or all of them!!!
Preserve yourself at all cost!!
Kevin you're awesome!!!

[joelaustin]

My narc screamed at me in a fit of rage "Noone is going to believe you!"

[danielc]

As the family scapegoat from an early age, I've been subject to the proverbial Chinese torture chair longer than some. I realized early on that no one understands, or cares to understand me, so I became self isolated. From the outside, people probably just sees me as a asocial curmudgeon. But, if someone was to know me intimately, they'd see a empathic person who has no tribe.

[TheMsronel]

GOD SEND! I just burst in tears when you said " you were in a relationship that you had no business being in.."
This video really gave me insight into my journey.
Thank you

[Scotts]

Many people do not understand the mindset of the narcissist. I can now spot them right away. It took 5 plus decades of abuse to understand what I was exposed to and very fearful of. I now know you can’t change the behavior of these people and you can’t rescue your own children who have also fallen into the narcissist trap. Once you get past the poor me portion of recovery and learn to love yourself only then can you heal and realize the narcissist is a very damaged individual who goes around damaging others. You do have to stand up to narcissist bullies and look them in the eye or eyes. The flock is your inner spirit that you have always been. Unfortunately you can’t be with the narcissist because it is dangerous to your health.

[raymundocastano]

Thanks Kevin you really know the pain and hassle that we go through. Its true no therapist or counselor understand narsissistic abuse. People have to experience it in their own skin. Its a so well disguised abuse. It has to come from the devil he is the master of deception.

[alshields]

My family and former friends don't understand my abuse because they are the problem. Everyone in my family, which is huge, are all narcacists. So I've figured out very recently that either they don't want to understand or they don't have the capacity to understand. I come from a family of bullies who are completely oblivious to the pain that they've inflicted upon others and don't seem to care who they hurt as long as they're getting what they want.

[harleyanne]

I found after he passed that he bad-mouthed me all the time so he could look like a “victim”. I had no idea. He lost control of me so he made me look like a shew. I was heartbroken when I heard it from multiple people. After three years I’m healing. It’s God that got me through.

[GodsPeople]

We can't let them turn us into them. ..we have to always remember who we are in HIM

[tipresource]

My mouth fell open when he said —with physical abuse people could see my scars. First time I have ever heard someone say my thoughts!! I’ve said “I wish he would just hit me & get the torture over instead instead of day in and day out mental abuse”

[kimhobbs]

In order for these creatures to succeed they reside in a world of evil.

[lizzyflip]

As a Christian I thank you that you have approached this from a godly perspective 🙏🏼🙏🏼