Signs The Avoidant Misses You

Signs an avoidant misses you. Even though it may be hard to believe sometimes, someone who has an avoidant attachment style can miss you. In this video, we talk about the subtle but present signs that someone with an avoidant attachment style has longing for you.

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[justinemail]

Before watching this one, I know it's going to hurt.
You know most of us are in no contact with our avoidant exes with no signs of them reaching out anytime soon 😅

[livelearnandgrow]

After three years three years, I tell you, he sends me a Thanksgiving turkey meme. I text back and said who is this you’re not in my contacts. And of course I didn’t get a response and I will not respond until I get something more direct.

[tankthearc]

today she came over i played it cool, no insecure talk, no compliments no asking her to go out later or asking her back. just acting indifferent and ready to move on, later she initiated a text first which she almost never does.

[livelearnandgrow]

I’ve done to much work on myself to except bread crumbs.

[tapanmishra-rckg]

Very good. Rightly explained.Thank you.

[maimagai]

Almost 3 months of NC
Focusing on improving myself
Feel a lot better
Im afraid that i'll forget her

[rebecca]

If they come back with something subtle, they know better and aren’t getting anything from me. They know what I want, they know why I cut it off. If they don’t come back with renewed intentions, they can move along. Not interested unless they’ve worked on themselves and have what they want figured out. I’m not responsible for healing them.

[AWAr]

After 5 months of separation from 18 years together, last couple days during our sons soccer games, he approached me very first time stood next to me and handed me the hand and foot warmers said for our son but the son was playing soccer.

I filed divorce**

After we physical separation, he was never close to me when our son played soccer he either stood by the goals and somewhere far away.

[braydenbledsoe]

I share a social space with my ex that basically forces me to see them on a weekly basis. by the time we got to month 4 ish, I about gave up. I think she was just starting to emotionally turn around based on body language but by that point I refused to give her any open body language and I guess in a sense, she felt shut out. Occasionally she'd glance at me to gauge whether I was friendly enough to approach and now she wont at all. At that point, I felt like it was too late.

oh well. I just want to move on.

[craignason]

The indirect thing is sooo true.

I got dumped for someone else so I blocked and went NC.

She would put up stories on Instagram of her ‘new rings’ with a bracelet I bought her in the picture.
Music choice of Bob Marley, a few weeks before we went to the cinema to watch the new Bob Marley film. She never listened to him otherwise hahaha

[Elementrider]

When I told her our daughter wasn't feeling good. She offered to bring me medicine etc. Which she never has offered before. And when I asked for the stroller she was adamant about coming to my place to drop it off instead of me just going to pick it up from her.

[MarcoCameron-fc]

9 months from the day she ended things and I didn't get any of these signs from my avoidant ex. Guess she really didn't care about me at all even though she said she did at the time of the breakup.

[michaelod]

I’m about 2 weeks and 2 days into no contact and I’m nervous af.

My avoidant iced me out and hasn’t said a word and I believe she might of jumped straight into a rebound.

I’ve been a mess for the last 2 weeks, but I’m hitting the gym after work today and starting to try to get back to normal life.

[GB-fjwh]

8 months of indirect directs, nothing comes of it

[lucia]

I’ve realized we will only speak if life puts us in the same place at the same time for whatever reason. I will not unblock and he’s too avoidant to grab another phone to reach out or something. 🤷‍♀️ I’m not making any moves. I do think about him everyday. But he was sending mixed signals so I cut the cord and I’m not going to do anything about it.

[carlfreiermuth]

The cat came up in my case and neither of us had a cat yet. she was already discarding me but then she did an indirect bid, she called me to ask if she could give my phone number as a reference to an animal shelter because she wanted to adopt a cat and they needed a character reference.. she was new in the country, straight out of Pakistan. eventually I got a call supposedly from a shelter asking about her. then eventually I got a call from my ex and she asked about it, I joked to her and told her that I told the shelter that she is a terrible person and should never have a cat. she was actually astonished and believed that I said that about her... which of course I told her that I was just kidding. at that point in time I had no idea that I was being discarded.. I thought she was just a bit slow going with the dating.. eventually I learned that there was a lot more going on than I knew about. some families have major

[GB-fjwh]

I have been in no contact for 8 months and am in the meetup stage due to my ex reaching out. Am i able to initiate contact at this point. I meet up with him and end up waiting on his next text. Im not sure if I should initiate once in a while when I get to this point? No videos anywhere address this.

[AWAr]

Please make some videos what can we do if he’s moving farther away and leaving us take care of the kids..

After our mediation and if we agreed, which is scheduled for next month, he wants to move further away, and I feel terrible for the children. We had been apart for five months. He tried to take my kids away before the court date and made plans for them without telling me, such where they would live and go to school.

However, the judge ordered him to pay child support, and after a few weeks, he hardly ever stayed at home and abandoned our teen, who preferred to be with him alone. Now that he has told her that he is moving away, he pushes her away to me. Seeing how much the youngest son will miss his father makes me feel awful for the children.

He wants me to be in charge of all the kids by myself, and I feel like he doesn't want to deal with my teen because she is a challenging one with ADHD. His primary motivation for moving away, in my opinion, was to try to escape the agony he couldn't handle; he had been seeing a therapist for a year or two prior to my filing for divorce, but nothing had changed. Because I was divorcing him, he is still upset with me.

Even after three months of therapy and no communication, he still lacks self-reflection, and what he did to me is perfectly okay! He is now 54 years old, and I get the feeling that he will return to date his high school buddy. He seems to be moving away, possibly to live near her, and he goes out a lot.

He has spent almost all of the last 18 years at home (we were together as roommates, he’s isolated and distanced himself most of the time). However, since the split, he has changed as a person by going out and making more Facebook acquaintances, primarily from his high school pals. How would you respond if you were me? I am aware that we cannot do anything with avoidant. Please help me with this or share your experiences.

Many thanks