What Healthy Boundaries Look & Sound Like

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[JennySEJ]

The more healthy boundaries I have put up for Myself to gain control of my OWN life and energy, the less friends and family stick around. 😐 That has been a bit of a scary and at times rude realization, as many people really lack the emotional insight of what healthy boundaries look like, and some are easily offended by You "suddenly" using your right to set up healthy boundaries to not be constantly drained; because the dynamics and energy thats in the relationship Will shift the moment the boundary is there emotionally, no matter how kind, true or soft you share it verbally. Some people simply cannot take that shift in a healthy way. In my case; most have not taken it well, my own mother pretty much disowned me because I chose at 37 to have healthy bounderies. I realize it's for the better and that this is what needed to happen, but it's a rude awakening that so many people don't seem to be ready for healthy relationships with healthy bounderies!

[annadreamsart]

Thank you. Oh man, trying to internalize the "what's right for you is right for you. It was never wrong. Just wrong according to someone else." I've had a lot of people in my life and recently tell me how what I say, do, eat, how I dress, even the way I do random acts of kindness, etc etc is wrong/selfish/bad. And often the "right way" is different depending on who's talking to me. I know I have boundary issues. But all this has made me go on a People Sabbatical. People and I are kinda on a break.

[geleahdowler]

Can you do a video on boundaries specifically for marriage.

[Nina_Kowsari]

7:20 really good distinction..is it better if you are mad at yourself because you didn't hold your own boundary? Can you even know that they would be mad at you if you lovingly stated your boundary at the moment that the need for it arised? Sure if we struggle with setting boundaries, we most likely were raised in situations where we were not taught how to healthily have a boundary or how to set it in at the exact moment we feel the need for it without pushing people away -- so instead we learn to trample our own boundaries, build resentment and story tell that the people we wanted to set those boundaries with were boundary crossers and blame them for feeling pushed away because we didn't know how to include them in the process of us setting the boundary. It's like verdict without trial and that is not fair.

[LisaSmith-ybuz]

This can take a lifetime to regularly practice well, especially for those of us who have any significant paired associations with being consistently met with narcissistic rage whenever we needed to have healthy boundaries. ❤️‍🩹🙏☺️ Thank you for another awesome video! 💗✨😚👍

[lori]

I just discovered you and you are saving me Thank you so much for your video and I love your carefree, easy going, youthful yet wise energy!!!

[kardoyle]

Yes…. Speak up for yourself however don’t expect a lot just roll around in the fact that you spoke up for yourself .

[Greatpacificnorthwesterner]

You are like the little sister I wish I had. Thank you for the great tips!

[brikachu]

Love theseeee although I was hoping you’d bring up boundaries in the workplace. That’s where I struggle because I feel conflicted between “this is my limit” and “but this is my job..”

[MsJocelynC]

I’m in LOVE with this video. Thank you for your service. Taking that prompt and passing it to a friend now 💘🧚🏻‍♀️

[SleepyHugAsmr]

I loved this so much Candace, next time I will just say “yes I do love this, you want some?” Instead of feeling like I have to explain myself

[debbie]

Thank you Candace you are awesome ❤️❤️❤️

[Angell_Lee]

Candace, you are such a gem and I am so glad that you are putting boundaries on yourself and teaching us as well on how to do so. Otherwise, people would abuse a such a beautiful, compassionate heart of yours. I can feel your beautiful aura through my screen. Always listen to your intuition, you have the key to live your most authentic, beautiful life. You are attracting, great beautiful opportunities for yourself. Much love xo

[kristelwalton]

Great video Candace! Love how you demonstrate the calmness and compassion we can use when setting boundaries. Very helpful.

[kierstinvanderjagt]

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[chapplepeach]

Thank you Candace! Shares with one friend and one community. Love this one!

[allimarie]

Thank you for this! So helpful to have specific examples and answers!

[johnbehneman]

TOTALLY AWESOME VIDEO I AGREE WITH YOU 100% WE SPEAK THE SAME LANGUAGE!!!! I NEED TO ENROLL IN ONE OF YOUR PROGRAMS IN THE NEAR FUTURE!!!! IT SOUNDS LIKE SO MUCH FUN!!!! I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL AND PLEASE CONTINUE TO SPEAK YOUR BTW I ALWAYS LEARN SOMETHING NEW FROM YOU.

[nechamiabraham]

Fucking love this one! I learn so much from you! Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🦋

[Portia]

No problem for me I tell people the truth.