What causes a narcissist to NOT REACH OUT to you?

If you've ever wondered What causes a narcissist to NOT REACH OUT to you? This is the video for you. In this video you get the Perspective of a diagnosed #narcissist on why some narcissists never contact you again after the breakup or after the relationships ends.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[maryrios]

In the early stages of zero contact it’s normal to want your ex to bother you. That’s just withdrawals kicking in. Hang in there you’ll get over that feeling.

[kimmae]

When you consistently call them out on their lies and behavior, that also drives them away because they can't stand the shame.

[SarahEvans-eg]

Too proud to reach out to you, but not too proud to stalk you.

[deborah]

He could not control me. I refuse to stoke is frigging ego, If he didn't call, I didn't call. If he didn't text, I didn't text. He wanted to beg and run after him. HE Hated if I held him accountable for his actions. I was too difficult. So he did the reverse discard.

[kingaberlakovich]

When they know they can’t control and manipulate you anymore!

[alexakearney]

“Too toxic for the narcissist”. You’re hysterical 😂

[yvonnecantrell]

When I was done, he knew it. He made one attempt to start drama and I gave him a dead cold stare. I never heard from him again.

[TejuanHart]

No contact is the greatest move you can ever make narcissist or not.

[renewedself]

The win is that you deserve to be loved and in their flawed state they couldnt love you.

[TawannaDaniels-ujcs]

They don't want their "Ego Bruised."

[sharlenalove]

Them not reaching out seems too good to be true

[MamieBaimba]

They try everything they can to force interaction and when it doesn't work they finally leave u alone. But I know they can sometimes wait years to start stalking again so I'm just praying he leaves us alone for good

[FunkyVibesStore]

Just when I was thinking this morning that u cannot make it work with a narc because they already mirrored u and there's nothing exciting in u anymore for them to exploit . Always looking for new shoes to wear no matter how comfortable the old ones are

[ferg]

Lee, I was about to say....the title of this video, people really should NOT wonder WHY a narcissist isn't "reaching out" to them after a break up. Like you The. Win. TAKE THE FREAKING WIN! Folks, if you were previously with a narcissist and he or she is NOT contacting you about IS GLORIOUS! SILENCE = VICTORY

[EmpathicCharWithBounderies]

The rejection is a big thing. Me and my ex-husband had to live together during our divorce process. He didn’t talk to me but would text me from odd numbers and play music in the morning loud for me to hear. I am not going to lie; I was fire towards the end so he had a reason to be afraid of rejection; I wasn’t playing. Blocked him and his family! Filed and wasn’t backing down. 35 year invested. 20 years HARD! Last 15, HELL! I was awaken and I wasn’t playing… I still don’t play. I demand respect and I have serious boundaries and I let everyone know I won’t back down on those boundaries. 🙁🤷🏽‍♀️🙏🏽

[joseannedube]

You made me laugh out loud! 😂 I guess my refusal to be manipulated and controlled finally got to her! Screw her, I'm done! Stay gone! So far, so good! I'm a winner!

[bettycarmella]

Not hoovering can be a hoovering tactic too!🙃

[kate]

They know better than to reach out to me.

[carolrodriguez]

They are not reaching out to love you better. They don't have better. Remember that, everyday. ❤

[deha]

After a year and a half and getting someone else to tell him to leave me alone, it SEEMS the ex narc has gotten the message that when I dumped him, I was done. It was the weirdest experience I have ever had. Be VERY happy if you do not have to worry about this nonsense!