5 Red Flags You Should Never Ignore

Do you know what happens when you miss the relationship red flags or warning signs as you start dating a new person? Well, not only will you end up wasting your time, you also put yourself at risk of getting really hurt by a person who is not who you thought they were. Don’t let that happen to you... Watch this videos where I tell you the 5 most common relationship red flags that you should never ignore.

I’m Dr Antonio Borrello, and I’m a psychologist and relationship coach. This channel is all about helping you build great relationships so you can grow happy with the people you love. So, if you’re interested in dating advice and relationship advice that is focused on making your love life the best part of your life, start now by subscribing here.

What is a red flag? Well, it is a warning sign - a sign that there is a problem that you should notice or deal with. In the literal sense, Red flags are obvious signs that are meant to be seen to warn you of danger ahead. But When it comes to dating and relationships.. warning signs or red flags are not always so obvious or easy to spot. That’s why people refer to them in the past tense as in… didn’t you see any red flags? Didn’t you see the warning signs? And people miss them for a lot of reasons.. the first of which.. they is because they aren’t so obvious? I mean, you’re never going to see a man waving a red flag in front of you saying… don’t date me… I’m a strange person or I’m a narcissist or i have narcissistic personality disorder ( npd ) Instead, signs of problems ahead are always much more subtle and harder to recognize especially when you really like someone. but don’t get me wrong.. they are almost always present in the beginning of relationships… You just need to know what to look for and be willing to pay attention and not be so willing to excuse or justify bad behavior or incompatibility because you really like a person. These are the 5 most common dating red flags.

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[carolb]

Here they are:

1) they speak poorly of prior lovers
2) he’s a blamer
3) he’s mean or abusive towards others
4) he maintains several relationships with women he’s never met
5) the relationship moves very fast

Thank you Antonio!

[TheNewMissyJ]

I’m staying single. I’m tired of worrying about other people and trying to decode their true intentions.

[lavayuki]

About the last point, if it's too good to be true it often is. Dating by far the most complicated game in the world

[sallyknechtel]

I just got out of a relationship just like this. Everything you had exolained was everything he was doing. I'm glad I subscribed to you.

[FlavinhaOliveira]

You're describing a proper Narcissist.. Thank you for sharing these tips!

[gloriatactac]

These are so important and I feel like too many people miss them. Great Video

[sharonsmith]

I’ve listened to several dating coaches but I think you are the best by far. I wish I could just sit down with you and tell you everything. Things are very complicated in my life and it’s too much for texting. Just keep up this great work you do. Everything you put out there is very helpful.

[showglowshowglow]

That’s why I don’t date with the goal or thought of a potential relationship partner. I date with the thought of having a good time & gaining a potential friend. I am in no hurry in getting into a relationship with a man. If I see any of these signs, I move on & never look back.

I dated someone who tried to hide his abusive behavior. When I told him I didn’t want to continue going out with him, he became entaged & began telling me I was worse than the 4 women he dated before me, (as he is naming each womn) then called me all kinds of names. I hung up on him & blocked him immediately. Good riddens!

[careyf]

I met and went on three dates with a man who did all these things lol. At the end of the 3rd date after he said we should get married!!, I told him I didn't think we were compatible. He verbally attacked me told me I was stupid and that I was missing out on the best thing that could happen to me. Well I stuck to my decision and wow I'm so glad I did because about 2 weeks later I was contacted on social media by a woman claiming to be his SO, and wanting to know who I was. Dr Borrello, you are spot on with this video. That guy was a RED FLAG lol

[t.l]

That last red flag is for real. Run don't walk!!! You have a crazy control freak on your hands!

[Aboutskin]

That's exactly how my ex narcissist boyfriend was! Unfortunately it took me too long to see all those things. And I feel now extremely insecure and self conscious to date again. (Not that I was all that good before, he definitely found the codependency he was looking for on me).
But I'm glad I found this channel to help me get some confidence again. Thank you for your videos!

[CryptoProphet]

Wow, thanks. That was really well laid out. It can be REALLY hard to see this stuff if you had a narcissistic parent (my therapist called my father pathologically narcissistic). Those wounds are really hard to heal - and to not repeat.

[MysteriousRNP]

I'm sick of dating a guy🤣 They are always complicated for me.

[cherylrock]

Thank you for this video. I told my psychologist that I felt like I was being emotionally abused. I was telling her the things he was doing and she responded, “Cheryl, he’s not abusing you!”. That was extremely difficult for me to deal with after he left me. The way he left me was horrendous and he blamed and shamed me for an entire situation that I believe he orchestrated. Mind boggling. Difficult couple years but it taught me so much. I have not dated for a couple of years now and just took out time for myself to heal and learn about and open myself spiritually. I’ve come to believe that the universe will take care of you in little and sometimes big ways. When I was literally at my lowest an amazing synchronicity occurred. I met the most caring, kind and supportive friend that I have ever had in my life. There was a mutual respect we shared and we were there for each other. He was like everything to me and when I was at my lowest he was my biggest cheerleader. It was a real blow to me when he was diagnosed with lung cancer and he died only 5 months later. I guess if there is such a thing as a soulmate, Stan was mine.

[marieanne]

I’m taking a break from dating, once I’m back into dating I am aiming to date a MAN not a boy ..Simple as that ..
Red flags 3 that’s how he was and I thought he was just very inpatient and red flag 4 that’s how things went down in some aspects .
I should have known better and I did not see the red flags either.
And just for the note Antonio it’s amazing I emailed him and he replied back.
Thank you

[Karina_Engr]

Great video and you're absolutely hitting on the 5 most common slips we can detect if we pay attention. I love this and shared on FB already.

[sumairasultan]

I ve been through the exact same situation, you were explaining in this video.

[mwilajoeychiluba]

Your videos have been very helpful, keep up with the good work

[chantelleclark]

Hone in to your intuition as that usually tells you everything you need to know too, Sometimes I feel it is off early then shortly after the red flags are there

[leeannburton]

Thank you for sharing all your thoughts and experiences. I believe anything will work if you work together, a relationship is the rewarding yet it's a fulltime business