Why We Attract 'Broken' Partners We Want To Try To Fix... #shorts

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[ogeenappa]

I was told by my grandmother that you attract people who need something you have. They are drawn to you because you possess what they lack. They are often somewhat healed by what you have but you have to be careful because they may break you in the process

[natanya]

Persons who neglect themselves tend to become busy or addicted to fixing other people.

[chelseabunker]

We don’t attract them. We pick them and push away the ones who don’t fit our deep subconscious patterns we learned very young. It’s not about nature & restoring balance. It’s about repeating what we saw & learned as kids. Parentized child caring for mom or other siblings ? Probably finds self value by fixing others because that was what they learned. They didn’t learn to be whole in themselves because someone else used them as a crutch to make things ok. It’s a trauma response

[meegee]

I think her statement is difficult. Im just talking what I saw how people behave. And I must say, they're soo different. Not everyone tries to fix. So I wouldn't generalise. Are we made for love as humans? Yes our brains were supposed to be. But many were distorted.

[acristinawill]

How do I know what I’m supposed to fix about me? 🤷🏻‍♀️☹️