Why You Get Attracted to the Wrong People (Matthew Hussey)

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Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you?

Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people?

It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want.

In this video, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening.

At the end of this video, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yourself to change this...

Learn the 2 mistakes that keep you from meeting the right person...

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[bel]

For me personally, when I was attracted to someone who was emotionally unavailable and/or toxic, it was because I hadn't healed parts of myself. If you want better you have to genuinely believe you're worthy of better 💙

[iancopperfield]

"treat yourself as if someone you are responsible for"

[boutiquebabe]

I don't chase anybody anymore! I'm over that part of my life. I'm trying to attract the right person to me!

[UrUrbanRockstar]

This is for you...
It's easier said than done, but guard your heart. Everyone doesn't have the capacity to love us or care genuinely about us at the level we care for them. Respect yourself enough to CHOOSE YOURSELF over the attention, validation, and love from others. You are enough. You are worthy of being truly loved, not just tolerated.

[sunshinerays]

Stop going to places where you're presence is not appreciated...

[nicolehuber]

"Do I like him, or is he just ignoring me?"

[amerikatt]

Also, people who have intimacy issues they're not aware of, they usually go for the hard-to-get-person because that means 0% chance of a serious relationship

[CrystalDatingCoach]

The wrong person is someone who is Taking and not Giving...ANYTHING.

[doglovingirl]

"Well if you want me, there must be something wrong with you"...Yikes, that hit home. I need to get out of the habit of doing that.

[TokyoACR]

"If they're not available, they must be worth more." One of the most important lessons I learned is that nobody is more special or more valuable than anybody else. Everybody is the same. I learned not to waste my time with people who are unavailable. Best thing you can do for yourself if you come across this kind of person is to tell them to piss off and you're wasting my time. Last time I said that to someone, he didn't take it too well. If they don't take it well, that's your answer right there.

[dailydoseofmedicinee]

You are afraid to be alone. Much research has shown that women are willing to endure being in an unhappy relationship rather than being all alone and that's why they fall for the wrong kind of men. They think it's better to date a wrong man than be alone.👍

[AbigailLeeCool]

This video is a wake up call for me. I’ve had a crush on this guy for 10 years, he rejected me 3 times and treated me like his spare tyre. I’ve tried to be like him (eg joining leadership programs when I don’t enjoy it). Its been a pathetic 10 years really. This video reminds me of how little self value I have chasing after this guy that wont like me back. Thank you.

P/S: i really like your new hairstyle.

[ansyona]

I literally shed a tear, when you said imagine someone you love and turn this love inwards. Love your videos, honestly, you make my day everytime. Thank you! 🤗😘

[fiona]

sometimes you just simply genuienly like someone, but he just doesnt feel the same way about you. and it sucks

[silverlimosine]

Matthew I have followed your content for many years since way back when I was single and doing it all wrong on the dating scene. I’m now happily married and expecting my first child, and I just want to say your content still holds such value to me. It applies not just to romantic relationships but to work, friendships, family, etc. I appreciate all you do.

[uglaegilsdottir]

I don't want to cancel 2020, either! I actually planted a garden for the first time in my life! :)

[GemGames]

I can't believe I still need this after two years....

[ranikster]

If he doesn't accept you for who you are if he makes you feel less worthy he's got to go

[Googleuser-jvfi]

That respect about thinking of somebody that you love and only accepting the respect they deserve that was probably the most helpful tip about this topic ever thank you

[steffiacar]

“A lot of try-hard people, drinking overpriced vodka, at tables” 😂😂