7 Reasons Why You Attract Toxic People

Do you ever wonder why good people attract toxic people like narcissists, psychopaths, and sociopaths? If you’re a good person, there are several reasons why you attract toxic people. You see, the types of people you attract have a lot to do with who you are. That doesn’t mean that you’re doing something wrong, but you may want to figure out what it is about you that is so alluring to toxic personalities.

If you are a highly sensitive person or an empath, you may especially feel like a magnet to toxicity. You attract narcissists, sociopaths, and toxic people because these individuals tend to flock to those with a generous and compassionate nature.

So if you tend to attract friends with problems or constantly attract toxic partners, watch this video to find out exactly why that is – and how to turn things around.

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[carolynjaynes]

I kicked all the toxic people out of my life. Went no contact. Blocked them on all fronts. Moved on, doing what I love to do and healing myself.

[marykissel]

Bottom line: establish tight boundaries, protect your time and emotional energy and learn to say NO !

[chisom]

Loners have the most positive traits. Happy to be a loner

[jonathangriffin]

As a person who is a good-hearted person, I have been around toxic people, but instead of trying to change them, I let them rant or throw shade and I totally ignore it and nine times out of ten, those toxic people are usually met with karma and karma shows them no mercy.

[yayyay]

When someone shows you who they are, believe them, end of story!

[rhondakoski]

I don't tolerate toxic people any more.

[hilaryjoseph]

So many of us non toxic people innocently believe that since I'm genuine kind honest caring and wish well for others that others will treat me that way as well...how wrong we are...what a rude awakening..the hardest thing tho is when it comes from one's own siblings and parents

[scholarthefuture]

I wasted a decade of my life tolerating toxic people!! But now I started to say No! 😇

[cherylthompson]

Never misinterpret my kindness as a weakness... I will take you down!!!!

[Messiahandmaster]

One doesnt 'attract' toxic people. One just 'allows' toxic people to stay in one's life. Simple truth.

I've learnt that the first instance someone disrespects me and treats me less than, I'm going to move on from them. The thing is people ALWAYS know they are disrespecting you but they do it anyway. So best to move on from them before they keep hurting you. The first red flag ALWAYS becomes the reason why you eventually break up from them anyway.

[Milestonemonger]

I was an easy target. Agreeable, generous, put other's needs before mine.
It took years to appreciate my own worth and say NO!

[mikemcgown]

My dad gave me some good advice about this situation, when you're alone, you know who you can trust. And he also told me when you're by yourself you know who your friends are. Ok, I'm a loner or lone wolf. I'm happy with that!

[ful]

WE ARE LIGHT!!!! AND THEY CAN'T STAND IT!!! 🤛🏽

[bobtaylor]

A friend of mine who is kind and wise illuminated something for me when she explained that malignant narcissists love to attack people who have already suffered a great deal. It gratifies their sadism.

[janetstonerook]

I was a social worker and after I retired I gradually became aware that I was still social working toxic friends and family members. My turning point was when I had a life threatening illness 5 years ago and afterwards while still weak I noticed that my toxic partner and relatives were even more demanding of my time and resources. I started to link my poor physical health with always doing for others and putting myself last. I simply stopped! I informed them I would no longer be available to them and pulled away completely once I realized they would never respect my boundaries. My life is really good now! Since they took so much and contributed so little positive, I am much better off emotionally, physically and financially.
I find beauty in living each and every day and can concentrate on my positive friends and family members.

[lunny]

I am avoiding them at all cost I don’t mind losing them, I used to believe people can change but they don’t no matter what.

[Whutugotme]

I just got tired of going through the motions and decided to eliminate a good amount of people out of my life. Energy vampires. People want to intentionally or unintentionally pull you down yet still insist on being a part of your life. I owe them no explanation. I have to do what’s right for me.

You can’t have goals, dreams, aspirations or be excited about anything around these people. They take you for granted and always have something negative to say about you or what your doing.

[britneythao]

These are example of "good" people with no boundaries. Boundaries, boundaries,

[sirbughunter]

As an empathetic listener, I've fallen victim to a narcissistic and mentally damaged person once. NEVER. AGAIN.

[G-spot]

Everything that is "too much", even in good traits can be our toxic traits. Self awareness is a must.