Reacting To '9 Signs Of Male Insecurity That Turn Women Off' By Dan Bacon | Courtney Ryan

In this video, I react to "9 Signs of Male Insecurity That Turn Women Off" by Dan Bacon. From a woman's perspective, I thought this was a great video that could be helpful for all of you guys. Let me know what you think in the comments below and who you want me to react to next!

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[UrLocalPoolman]

*In a generation riddled with anxiety, it boggles my mind that for as much we condemn male insecurity, no one seems to have a cure for it other than say just don't be. Imagine going to the doctor and having them say "just stop being sick."*

[rdptll]

once most men get past their 20s, all this time and energy they spent trying to impress women or be a "catch" and self-doubt begins to fade and he can then be free to live a life for himself and others. It's so nice.

[Guitarwizzard]

Never put any woman on a pedestal. Treat them like a star and they'll treat you like a fan. Be yourself…if they don't like who you are then move on. Millions of other women out there to choose from.

[Thomas-ssjz]

So basically men have to be perfect in every way…

[guitarista]

The cure for insecurity appears magically when a guy realizes that worrying about what women think is mostly
a waste of time. Just relax and live your life.

[Shuxy]

Having low intelligence definitely helps with confidence. That’s why people drink in social settings. Thinking can be detrimental.

[johnanthonycreative]

I spent many years masking my personality to "fit in" instead of being my best authentic self. Took me 40 years to finally get that. And if you don't like who you are, then change it. Change your life, change your friends, change your diet, etc

[lukeo]

The key is to basically turn your brain off to prevent any overthinking and literally just be in the moment. Easier said than done but with like anything it's easier with practice

[ulfen]

I saw a quote once I really really like.
”When you get old you become the person you always should have been.”
Oh how I wish I was 18 years again with the knowledge and confidence I have now.

[southpole]

I found in my own experience that the vast majority of women, who I try to speak to and approach, are you usually the ones who are boring and can't carry a conversation. Another thing I noticed is that usually all the pretty girls or the hot girls can't carry conversations because they are used to men doing all the talking for them. Lastly, one other thing I've noticed is all of the pretty girls and the hot girls give the weakest sex. Their sex game is weak because they're used to having men do everything for them.

On the other hand I have found that the women who are the least attractive or who are maybe average looking or slightly below average looking give the best sex and can carry the best conversations.

[graves]

I watched this video with total confidence, just being my true self, maintaining eye contact with Courtney, making her laugh occasionally with my great sense of humor...I think we really hit it off.

[bermanmcknighttv]

I love how soft spoken you are, I hate shouting and the way you project your voice just works for me any day✅

[huugosorsselsson]

1 sign of insecurity: trying to construct or fine-tune your personality so that it would maximally appeal to women -- because you need validation from them in order to feel you have value.

[Shulcyo]

This is ludicrous ! Dating used to be so simple. You like each other, go on a date, laugh, have fun, talk about interesting things.

Nowadays it turns out to be whole science.

[TheGreenHeartofItaly-flwv]

It is refreshing to find normal people talking in a calm way about these things. It says a lot about the confidence of the presenters, that they don't feel obliged to "spice up" the content. Keep it up Courtney!

[bastidface]

Every time I hear the words "a girl doesn't like a guy who..." just makes me feel more anxious and insecure. Being single and not having to jump through all these hoops just to be perceived as a "cool" guy to a girl is wayyy less stressful.

[TheWanderer]

Dating 101: Take to path of least resistance: If you feel any kind of resistance, just move on to the next one. It may take a few iterations, but you will find the one who likes you for you with none of the BS and drama.

[timpilkington]

Really sad how a lack of confidence/shyness on the part of men is so stigmatised.

[SkyKitten]

Great video, Courtney! I would like to note that as someone with ADHD, I find myself lost for words/hesitating more often than I would like to admit. It's not necessarily because I'm anxious or I lack confidence, it's just that my brain lags like a 2005 Dell Latitude.

[Ian-kydi]

Thank you for this video. I've always struggled with self confidence and eye contact. I think it's because I was made fun of my appearance growing up and it has always stuck with me. I just got to really try to master these abilities and believe women will respond positively. There's no point in being insecure about my looks and displaying that insecurity in my interactions - it's only making things way worse for me.