12 Signs You're in a Healthy Relationship

Today, you learn the signs you’re in a healthy relationship with your boyfriend, girlfriend, or other gendered partner. If you’re currently in an unhealthy or toxic relationship and you need to get out, this may help you understand those signs too.

Sources:
Review of Research on Romantic Relationships

Psychology of a Happy Couple

Predicting Relationship Dissatisfaction

Psychological Strategies to Improve Relationship Quality

Why Do Happy Relationships End in Separation?

Marital Conflict Behaviors and Implications for Divorce

Tips for Relationship Health

How to Strengthen Relationships

The Science of Healthy Relationships

Thanks to Tristan Reed (writing), Troy W. Hudson (VO) for helping to create this video!

[ossen]

Your relationships will be as healthy as your attitude towards yourself. Self-love will increase the quality of your encounters.

[keshunna]

Creating a better relationship with yourself first will open doors to healthy and happy relationships with others :)

[JazzyFabbry]

1 - Zero Reaction Anxiety
2 - Healthy Disagreements
3 - Division of Space
4 - Displacing Frustration
5 - Avoiding Withdrawal
6 - Conflict Kindness
7 - Diverse Experiences
8 - Consistent Encouragement
9 - Open Avenues
10 - Accepting Past Mistakes
11 - Recognising Recurring Conflicts
12 - Realistic Expectations

...and if all of these are not enough, sit down together and listen to Jazzy Fabbry ;-)

[AJTAR]

Love yourself like someone you've loved - Buenafe

[svajunasgiruckas]

I'm in a relationship for 9 months now, never argued, never got any red flags, never had a problem and those 9 months are the best in my life😄

[rosettesionne]

Showing kindness to each other during conflict is the one who hits me the most. I recently ended relationship with people who made me depressed because they were only nice to me when it was convenient for them but treated me poorly on the slightest mistake. I truly believe that you are free to not like people but it is never a reason to insults or mock them.

[PinkYellowGreen]

A healthy relationship is clearly spelled out in this video!!! The part where he talks about space and boundaries is awesome! I’m going to recommend this video to others!!!

[rickkowalchuk]

Healthy relationships are so important!

[kellykerr]

I wanted to be sure I was right for ending a relationship. Thank you for confirming I did the right thing. Unfortunately there is a personality disorder on their side. I tried to understand, but just didn’t work. I cannot tolerate being constantly criticized and being yelled at over and over. She withdrew over and over, but was not kind at all.

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[saipraveenbehara]

Wow, this video is amazing! I realised I'm being toxic in my relationship and I understood on how I should change my self. Thanks alot 🙏🏻

[Posidens_Poison]

Both me and my partner have been through unhealthy relationships and it's taken us 8 months to get through all the hurt but we have went through trial and error to make it better. Even though we have more to fix I know we won't give up.

[Missy-Leigh]

Did I miss something? I wanted to know about the thumbnail. Why is it unhealthy to send a long text?

[Bibi-hngc]

The First Point is Very Important ♥️ Say the truth each other and The Same Time You Are Honest With Yourself.

[Nepeta-Leijon]

i have this right now, and i never have before. its long distance, and im so relieved to find that this is possible for me that i wont even mind if we break up tomorrow. im just so glad love is REAL and not made up and im always going to be thankful they showed me that

[Dafnesharing]

I start wanting to get away from people. What I want, is to really build up a barrier from those who I knew and I thought to be friends but they just don't want to!

And then what is ugly for someone, is so good for somebody else!

[btscenturygurlss]

1 - Zero Reaction Anxiety:

2 - Healthy Disagreements:

3 - Division of Space:

4 - Displacing Frustration:

5 - Avoiding Withdrawal:

6 - Conflict Kindness:

7 - Diverse Experiences:

8 - Consistent Encouragement:

9 - Open Avenues:

10 - Accepting Past Mistakes:

11 - Recognising Recurring Conflicts:

12 - Realistic Expectations:

[pitshruss]

Am not in relationship and am watching it anyway

[jonahfide]

I subbed too recently to know who Peter is, but I like whoever’s been narrating these videos. The videos are great, too. 👌🏼

[briansmyth]

Food for thought and food for action. Very helpful ideas for having a successful relationship... presented in an upbeat way. Thank you, Top Think!