9 Signs Your Wife is Toxic | Pooja Priyamvada x Bonobology

People feel a strong sense of stability when they get married because they have one person who they know will be their support system. Unfortunately, when you have a toxic wife, it is the exact opposite. Instead of being your rock through thick and thin, she is the one that will make your life feel unstable.

A toxic marriage can make you feel more alone than if you were single. A toxic wife will not only affect your life at home but can have a detrimental effect on your career, mental health, and friendships. So, if you have a gut feeling something is wrong but can't quite place your finger on what it is, maybe you have a toxic wife.

Spending your life intertwined with someone is not easy. This is why fights are very normal between married couples. It is important to make sure you are not confusing routine marital troubles with something more serious. You cannot expect your marriage to be smooth sailing all the time. It is only natural for there to be a little bit of choppy water. However, if it feels like you are perpetually stuck in a thunderstorm, then you must reflect on your marriage.

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[imDeify]

Whats even more sad is the amount of men who searched for this video because how their wives are treating them..

[Silent_Shadow]

I'm a mechanic and I'm sitting out back tearing up because every single thing you listed is accurate. 18 years and 3 kids. I absolutely hate my life.

[twmupie]

I absolutely don't trust my wife. She hasnt ruined me and my life though, I have allowed her to do so. I wish i could go back in time and never have met her.

[soanbabustores]

My parents always told me from childhood that betting and gambling is a bad thing. But, now as a married man I feel it is better than the Gamble of MARRIAGE.
I suggest young boys to be away from marriage. Take care of your old parents. Take your parents for a vacation and Llive a Happy SINGLE life.

[BoksCar]

Yes, my wife is toxic. My wife is highly manipulative, demanding, threating (often with divorce), explosive anger, name calling, condescending, silent treatment. She is ALWAYS right, never interested in any other point of view to name a few. My wife controls ALL the money and I'm given an allowance. I'm always questioned what I spend my allowance on, but she Never tells me what she spends money on. Yes, my wife is toxic.

[hishighness]

Sucks we don’t learn these things until it’s too late now we’re pretty much screwed…

[aarzoogadal]

I am a lady I have realized I am being toxic to my husband .the fear of losing him and about future, kids makes me do somehow this behavior.i have never realized I am effecting my husbands mental health I am going to work on myself now thanks for the information 🙏

[sulakshansharma]

I’m even afraid of saying anything against her, …fed up of everything, life’s hell now

[MrSaurav]

13 years & 2 kids. Your video is almost like my life's story. I am living with someone who is ever critical of everything I do. She wouldn't take responsibility or ownership of anything but criticize every decision I take. She'll go out of her way to make me suffer if I am even speaking to my parents or sister. She's the reason I spend every single day for the past many years under stress. I've gained weight & do not feel like moving out for a walk even though I like to play badminton and tennis. I want to work on my career for achieving better prospects but her behaviour creates conditions in my house that I always feel mentally tired and exhausted.

[nmazhar]

I realise that in the last 31 years of marriage everything you mentioned is true about my wife. Surprisingly I also recognise my own toxic behaviour after reflecting on these last 30 years. It's not all black and white. I apologised to my wife three years ago and decided to do what I can to remove toxicity from our relationship. On my suggestion we started couples counseling and with good results and so I thought. Gaslighting control and financial control all is true. I love her very much but apparently she doesn't have any feelings for me. So we are living separate lives in different countries. I wish her well. We are not officially divorced but there's no more toxicity due to our distance and my commitment to give her the space she needs.

[ajaygoel]

My wife is just opposite of what you have mentioned in this video..glad to have her in my life.. thankyou

[tusker]

I wish I could leave behind everything and go away far away..

[arizonasasquatch]

My wife doesn’t work, doesn’t try to work and if she had a job, found excuses to leave it and dump her crap on me. She spends our paycheck as soon as it hits the bank. She demands I do everything for her. I work 60 hours a week, take care of our child and do nearly all the household chores because she is an excuse within an excuse. She demands I do things for her and expects me to do it without saying anything. I’m constantly picked apart for anything I do, I can’t do anything for myself because it’s wrong to her. If I stand up to her, she turns up the threats and mental and verbal abuse. It’s insane and I know I need to shut her down. I just don’t know what to do in fear of losing everything.

[insurancereact]

Never trust your wife if she's being in toxic guys.

[cloudygrosso]

My wife has all the characteristics mentioned. We've been through months of counseling, with different counsellors resulting in my wife being told she is the problem and her breaking down in tears with remorse, then going back to square one the very next day denying the outcome. Tried every approach, to no avail.

[aimhiger]

My wife is also super toxic. She never supports me in my decisions and is always critical of what i do. she always demean me in front of my neighbours and family members. it is so painful for the last 25 years. even on a spiritual visit, she does not miss to fight on very petty issues. she always complains about everything and have a negative view of everything. Anyways, i spend a lot on her and never say 'No' to any of her demands.

at times, she is so much abusive with me and calls names to my parents.

She does have all the characteristics of a toxic spouse. for the last 3 days, i m damn seriously thinking about moving to other city
and live alone.

[koukimonzta]

Single here! Living the best of life ever ! 😂😂😂

[aadi]

It took 8 years to identify that it was a toxic relationship right from the start. Now atleast I priortized myself and just moving out to breath again

[gregrogers]

I have watched this video and have decided that there are enough difference that, while our relationship is very difficult, it could NOT be considered toxic. This gives me hope. Thank you.