Stop Being So “Nice” 👉 Be REAL Instead!

Stop being a fake people pleaser… Let your TRUE self shine!

Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.

Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!

His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!

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Stop Being So “Nice” 👉 Be REAL Instead!

What causes people pleasing? In this short, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) exposes the disease to please... And coaches a client into being real and being authentic!

#authenticity #bereal #peoplepleaser

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[isadora]

Once I had to take part in a debate in front of my whole high school, microphone and all, and ended up mixing words together, but when some people laughed I looked at my friend and said in the mic "sorry I'm shy and nervous". Turns out, people actually were empathetic, cheered me up and waited for me to take my time when needed. It was such a nice experience.

[nocturno]

If I say what I feel I’ll be thrown in a mental hospital

[Skimblie]

As someone who struggles sometimes to communicate how I feel, this is gold.
I once heard "If you think something, you should say it."
Overthinkers, take notes...

[meestyouyouestme]

"Really? Nothing from me putting your hand on me?"
"Ok fine, no filter. I wish this guy would rub my hand all over his bod-"
"Wait... No. Thats not wh-"

[rawmediamalayalam]

This 1 minute clip can change your life, if you really understand what it conveys.

[grandplat]

I've learned through my own experience that this is the number 1 tip to learn not to be awkward. I think this is what it means when you hear someone say 'be yourself'

[redblock]

This happened to me one time, i was getting so anxious and I didn’t even know why, as the situation was passing by and time doesn’t seems to stop, I collapsed and screamed I AM FUCKING SCARED OF THIS SHIT, ALL I HAVE IN MY MIND IS FEAR RIGHT NOW, all of a sudden, instantly, like magic, physically my body started to relief anxiety, I started to feel better, certainly fear was still there, but I addressed the situation in a very focused way regardless how I felt, and all because… I accepted what I was feeling/thinking… powerful

[kanteannightmare]

Yep. He's absolutely right. Sincerity is how you beat social anxiety.

[danieldionne]

One of the major issues with our current society is people walking on eggshells for others. It simply makes people weaker, never being challenged.

[TheGlaabFather]

I’m in a speech class right now and I’m absolutely terrified to get up and speak in front of the class. I deal with social and generalized anxiety already but the thought of being the center of attention and messing up/embarrassing myself is borderline panic attack inducing. I actually think this advice could really help me out dealing with that anxiety while in the classroom. Thank you!

[sirdavid]

I told my boss he was being an asshat, ig im on streets now. Thanks Bro!

[bobgert]

I think it’s good to filter the thoughts that come to your head (as not all thoughts that come to your head are ones that should be spoken). If everyone just said the first thing that came to there minds all the time there would be chaos. Things come to my mind in certain situations that I want to say but instead I stay calm and professional and man when I look back on the situation I think to myself “thank the lord I did not say that”

[lovingmontasoccer]

What i notice is the stronger the person is the more open i can be!

I have a comrade and he is so strong and he is always responding with respect!
When i go out of line he picks me up and tells here buddy you are back in track!

[pollopallo]

In society you need to filter yourself if you want to have a job, I think it's about finding the useful filters. I think you should talk also about that Julien, how to be yourself AND fit in the corporate world.

[TheSylwek]

That part hit me when you realise your anxious and accept it, it gives you relief

[TheKlawwGang]

"take off the filter! Say exactly what's on your mind!"
Everyone around me: "omg you're so rude!"

[codgamefreak]

Tried it and now I’m banned from my local gym.

[azul]

'If this goes on YouTube, I'm not gonna watch it' LMAO

[CvCipher]

"Oh ya firmly toned chest"

"What?"

"What?"

[Koheleth]

⚠️ Warning ⚠️

>IF< you start living your life like this (Being Authentic) Be Prepared, for much hatred coming your way. Secretly, people will be against you, and wish/hope for your downfall.

Society "Really" doesn't approve of those who are uplifting, truth tellers, and those who are NOT afuplifting, be Authentic.
I am not speaking of those, who tear others down, to build themselves up.

But rather are not afraid to always speak truth, when "asked" for it to encourage, uplift, and edify those who ask. Even if, it may go against the grain of your listeners.
I promise, one thing however it is absolutely freeing. And no one is confused about where you stand on issues, or can pretend that they didn't know (for future manipulation).