Stop Being A FAKE 'People Pleaser' 👉 Be REAL Instead!

People don't want you to be nice... Discover why having the COURAGE to be authentic is the key to advanced social skills!

Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.

Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!

His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!

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Stop Being A FAKE "People Pleaser" 👉 Be REAL Instead!

Stop being a people pleaser and be real instead! In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) exposes the disease to please... Discover how to stop being a people pleaser and how to stop people pleasing when it comes to improving your social skills.

#authenticity #bereal #peoplepleaser

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[JulienHimself]

Comment your top takeaway from this video here below! I personally read through EVERY SINGLE COMMENT!!!


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[CharismaMastery]

Yeah this is a huge point that many people get confused about. You do want to have a healthy ego, but balance it with empathy. When you have both, people you meet will perceive a reasonableness and authenticity, as opposed to someone who's pandering out of neediness or desperation which is a massive UNATTRACTIVE trait. The practice of empathy brings the ego within a healthy zone. Others will see a person they can trust and follow.

[OwenCookFreeTour]

Push / pull reveals how people need the chance to invest in you as well, but it's when you LIVE your truest confidence that the effect transforms from being a brief spike to an ongoing response from people -Owen

[silkroad]

Being real takes practice just like anything else. The more you are the real you, the better the real you will be

[KalkiAvatarATWAR]

That part about not being able to 'cheat your way there' is so ironic, because we think we need to be at a certain level of income, status, looks, etc. to gain the network needed to get the things we desire.

The truth is that just giving off that authentic vibe is the ACTUAL cheat code, you don't need anything other than the ownership of who you really are to forge the relationships that will enable you to reach heights previously inconceivable to the deepest parts of your mind.

[hamodetahaht]

Julien you're amazing brother, appreciate all the content you provide for free!! absolute gem.

[hammads]

Key takeaway: I need to be honest and real with myself. Right now, I can't even admit my truest feelings of my life until now. I need to sit at a mirror and get myself talking real shit

[Oblisk]

I love the analogy of being punched in the stomach and even if we were being restricted and held back, at a certain point we’ll be “disgusted” and had enough and try to get out of that. Like a guy named Tyler Durden once said..

“Hitting bottom isn't a weekend retreat. It's not a goddamn seminar. Stop trying to control everything and just let go! LET GO!”

[sxnsty]

Julian thank you for being so dang relatable! Also for making complex subject matter such as psychology simple. It's refreshing to have self improvement in small digestible portions..

[animesh_bhatt]

Thank you Julien! You generously provide so much value on YouTube for free! It's really helping me. :)

[mz]

I prefer Upper / Lowebody over Push/Pull

[lovelinda]

It was So tough dating a people pleaser. He was never honest and then blows up later on. Tried helping him be aware of it too but you can only help yourself

[CopWatchersOfficial]

Years upon years of creating mental barriers, out of insecurity and fear, inflicted harm to my social relationships and caused me to PUSH and PUSH my head up my own ass.
With Julien's help, I am in the process of PULLING it out. Thank you Grand Master 🙏

[drewkm]

Thank you Julien. Your content helped me for the better. I’m proud of the changes I’ve made socially, due to your help and others.

[kevperez]

Love the perspective of confronting challenges everytime an uncomfortable scenario comes up—I love challenges when it comes to work but when it came to my social life I’ve simply been admitting defeat, rather than giving myself a chance to participate and engage. Just ran into your content but came at a great time, really been struggling with this myself. Thank you!

[LaloIco]

Bro you are actually insane with this. I completely understood everything and it hella resonated with me thank you so much

[VoVina]

Great video as always bravoo👍 I wish you would also touch upon what to do when your "fakeness" is a direct result of years and years of people turning on you and friends leaving you every single time you started to let go just a little bit and be carefree. A consistent experience of that causes someone to feel like maybe their real self is not fun enough or not worth loving. So we put on a front and that becomes our shield. 😢 also it doesn't help how the generation we live in now punishes genuineness with cancel culture and rewards herd-like behavior. It's no wonder ppl are more afraid of being themselves and saying how they really feel.. so the problem for a lot of us isn't just being more real, it's how everyone hates us when we do.

Btw I felt like the only girl who's watching him because of his audience but I don't care I still appreciate the valuable insight 😁👍

[cacarney]

I had a parent that I had to walk on eggshells around....you better agree on everything is how it felt...when you grow up and realize they weren't perfect and believing them stunted your own personal development, that takes a long time to undo mentally!

[raidenjames]

Thanks for the videos man, I'm currently breaking this personality trait and my own anxiety in social situations. I really feel this because on days where I was ready to kill it and my day was going great I'd get great responses and on harder days I'd get less. So I know it's real. It's nice seeing how to pinpoint the problem and get it broken down in a way that's easy to absorb. I feel like I can actually focus on the problem that's holding me back. I appreciate your explanations ✊🏼

[RebelwoaCause]

If the problem is in the mind/head, the answer is in the body/physical, and vise versa.