Parents Open Up About Regretting Having Kids

In this video parents open up about regretting having kids. Unfortunately it does happen and it's an important topic to talk about when deciding to live childfree or have kids.

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00:00 Intro
00:16 There are no guarantees how your kids will turn out
01:42 Kids ruined my marriage
03:02 I get no time to myself anymore
03:44 I miss being spontaneous
04:34 I have no motherly instinct
06:33 Kids get into trouble all the time
07:39 I wish we'd waited to have children
08:40 I'd be just as happy without kids
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Talking about regrets is always a difficult topic especially if that involves kids. In today's video I discuss parents who open up about regretting having kids. There's this idea that if you say that you regret having children that must mean you don't love your kids and I don't think that's true. The decision to have kids is such a big one and often only the perks and good things about having kids are talked about. Having kids vs childfree is a debate that will never end. Parenthood is a great option if you want kids, but if you find yourself deciding that might not be the path for you, then living a childfree by choice lifestyle might be a better fit. No kids is a good fit as well. Having all the information puts us into a better place to make an informed decision about kids vs child free.
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[jazzgrrl]

So many parents insist that those who choose not to procreate won't have anyone to look after us in our old age, but I'm flabbergasted by the number of parents these days who are literally raising their grandchildren.

[theMermaidRhonda]

I really wish girls were taught that it's perfectly fine to not want kids. My parents never said that I would have to have kids and I'm grateful for that. I never felt pressured to have them and I'm glad I never did! I'm also an introvert and I treasure my time alone in the peace and quiet. I can't imagine giving that up.

[MoistCrumpet]

People claim that you won’t have anyone to look after you when you grow old if you don’t have kids, and yet so many elderly parents living in nursing homes have no visitors.

[UnovianPrincess]

I had someone I worked with harass me about not having kids. Then one day I straight up said I just didn't want them you can drop the subject and stop worrying about what I'm doing. What happened next was just crazy, she actually opened up to me and said, "You know if I could go back, I wouldn't have had my kids. I know that sounds awful but its true. they are such hard work." I was like OMG WHY ARE YOU HARASSING ME THEN? LOL

[briannamorrison]

I'm so drained by the time I get home from work just from dealing with adults all day. I can't even imagine coming home and having to deal with kids. Imagine never having a place of peace to come home to after working hard all day. I would be absolutely miserable.

[trevagraham]

I love children, but I know if I ever had one I would instantly regret it. I would never bring a child into this terrible world.

[Iiiivvvvvyy]

Oh God, I get reassurance every single day that my choice to be childfree is the best desicion I've ever made 😂🙌.

[SindyJ]

I appreciate hearing people admitting that having children isn't all that it's cracked up to be. My husband was willing to have a child for my sake but I could tell he didn't truly want to and I'm thankful we decided to stay childless

[jamesduncan]

I think it’s fine for parents to regret having children just as long as they don’t let their kids know that. Their still the ones who chose to have them and they shouldn’t blame their kids for their own decisions

[yoyatecontare]

Let's be honest, the world is not a child friendly place to live too.

[khensk]

Being a child of a parent who didn't want kids. It can totally totally diminish you as a child. I'm much older now though and wiser, and don't think I would want the responsibility of children or the pressure of being a good parent to them in an ever-changing world

[scarrasquillotorres]

When I was a teen I knew I didn’t want children, but I met my husband and we had a daughter together. She has ADHD and often has tantrums. I get so exhausted of her shenanigans. I wish I had listened to my intuition and just didn’t have a child. I love her very much and try to be a good mom to her.

[chewbacca]

My parents regrets having me so I ended up being in the care of different relatives and it's tough. So I'd better be childfree than repeat such toxic cycle 🤷

[arikill]

Thank you for normalizing a child free lifestyle for women 💜

[rmrmrm]

The thought of having a kid seems so overwhelming to me, I have friends who are amazing moms and they seem happy. But for me, I just find the idea to be completely exhausting and draining my entire soul. I feel like it’s smart and admirable to chose not to have kids when you are unsure if you can handle the responsibility.

[catguy]

It's objectively worse to regret having kids than to regret NOT doing so. Because children can always tell when they're unwanted, and this is what causes depression in the world. The Earth would be a better place if people only had kids when they were 100% sure they could stand being a parent for 18+ years

[housesing]

I’ve worked in nursing homes and found that kids won’t come to see their parents until they are ready to pass over.

[hugoumero]

The reason Why the people went childfree Is because They do not want to become the worst just like deadbeat, narcisstic, toxic and abusive parents

[presidentamanda]

I’m an introvert too and I watched my friends 3 kids for 5 days recently. Naturally, everything was about them bc they’re kids. I spent days entertaining them, watching kids shows. It was exhausting and I felt like I was having an identity crisis just from 5 days. I wanted to cry from the stress after they left. While I love kids, I’d rather enjoy them in short spurts. And I can see very clearly what my needs are. I value closeness with my spouse. And I know a child would interfere with that.

[bobbywright]

Not having kids is the best thing that ever happened to me. I say out loud “God I’m glad I don’t have kids” every single day. My girlfriend and I absolutely love it. We are on vacation right now, because we can whenever we want, and yesterday ran into a couple with a few kids. A teenager and two younger. They had the hardest time just ordering ice cream. So much bickering back and forth. Both parents looked absolutely miserable. We just giggled and when they finally walked off, literally all yelling at each other, we talked about how wonderful childless life is. Those poor people cannot enjoy themselves even on vacation. It’s a shame.