Emotional Detachment in Relationships - Sadia Khan

@sadiapsychology about Different Types of Woman in a Relationship and their Emotional Detachment.

[stacelock]

I was the super loving woman waiting at home for my hard-working man. I wasn't anxious when he was away as i trusted we were a strong team.
I raised our children, took care of all their needs and wants. I ran the house and got up all throughout the night with all the babies so he could rest. I also made sure his sexual needs were met nearly every day!
He took advantage of my trust and his freedom by cheating on his weeks away for work. His ego slowly grew out of control with each promotion.
He became sexually promiscuous with men and woman all over the country. Put my body in danger while i was pregnant by sleeping with strangers without my knowledge.
Destroyed the fabric of our children's reality and now they dont have mum and dad at home.
Some men don't know how to treat a hearty, honest and loyal woman when they get one.

[n_bees]

This describes my mom, emotionally connected. She married my father who was hard-working but always put family first. He switched around meetings to attend practices and recitals without my mom having to ask.

They both had a common goal which was to be a healthy family and raise healthy children who had a front seat to what a healthy relationship looks like.

We were middle-class, had a couple of financial struggles (due to recession) but man oh man… throughout everything the security they gave me as a child knowing that the world could end but my parents would still walk to the end of the Earth holding each other’s hands is something I don’t think many children have today.

The way you are as husband-wife has deeply lasting impacts on not just the couple but the children who get a front seat to seeing that relationship. It lays down the the blueprint for relationships they will eventually forge.

Be careful who you choose to spend your life with. And all the best finding them!

[privacyplease]

It’s the women who are loyal they make fun of - she is too emotional: but as the years go by, it’s those emotional women who will stand by you when the office eases you out when you old

[lisac]

Thank you! This confirms that i was with the wrong man. And know exactly what i need. Not every man wants this type of woman. Im wiser now.

[demzwordz]

AMEN…my boyfriend got a new job and we don’t see each other enough and he stopped communicating. I gave him a little leeway because it is a new job but after a month I told him this won’t work for me long term. Then I set some ground rules of what type of communication I need from him to feel secure and he agreed and is making the effort. Now things are good.

[alqoshgirl]

Reason I wouldn’t settle for a man who worked long hrs. Most women just want to have a comfortable living not be super wealthy. My husband pursued engineering when we were engaged as we talked about it being a good field for a familylife. It’s been great! Good income, plenty of free time, lots of flexibility, and I can be home. He loves it too being a present father and husband. 8 years blissfully married and expecting our 5th child! ❤

[sgayathiri]

Finally someone tells d truth... Womens also have feeling... They r not only made for sacrificing ...

[veronicaharris]

Basically, Bros be sabotaging themselves. Want a perfect loving stay at home wife. And then don’t stay at home and attend the household and relationship matters themselves. And then their needs aren’t met.
Big surprise.

[sharonlilyux]

Me and my husband both work from home. It's perfect because we are both needy and understand that about each other. Been together since highschool ❤

[grendurwow]

As a man. We need to start understanding emotions. Im not saying you should be crying. But understand your woman's perspective, then you will ve able to tell why she reacts a certain way and comfort her.

[danaluha]

😢Simple life happy wife. I was born to be a loyal and loving housewife, i just never landed a man that appreciated that.

[hoz]

Yep. I was told I was “needy” by an ex years ago and I’ve spent too much time trying to prove to men that I’m the cool chick and doesn’t need much. Needless to say I never felt connected or secure with any of them. Sometimes we need to hear that as women it’s ok the act as a woman. With all our emotions and needs.

[Lighttub]

The guy i dated treated me poorly but gave his secretary flowers and other females attention, gifts, comfort and empathy. I got dismissed.. I think i dodged a bullet when he ended it.

[soniapetinatos]

I was the super loyal and emotionally attached wife. He was always too busy and I was left to manage on my own which was so painful. I remember working full
Time and coming home - getting kids from day car and later school after care, putting kids to bed as if I were a single mother - only with a great income. It got to the point where after 20 years I had been forced to emotionally detach completely and I did. He wanted me to change careers to make things easier for him. I didn’t want to be emotionally connected anymore to him. I had pulled back so much and I had become so independent. I suggested counseling - we went to 3 different marital
Counselors and Instead of wanting to fix things with me he clamped down on control. That led to physically abusive episodes at home with him physically abusing the kids and I. That was it - for me - we separated pre pandemic in 2019 and our divorce was final
In early 2023.

[gabrielbalta]

Simplicity is the best. Stop chasing money, you"'ll become blind, lost and unhappy

[ash.leeann]

I'm that first woman, but i also support my man in all he does and even his sometimes weekly business trips. It gets hard but he provides a life i dreamt and prayed for, i stay home and care for our home and family and homeschool our children and when he's home he's all in. He's such a wonderful husband and Daddy. I am truly blessed.

[Sandra-yxyp]

No one wants to be with someone who's clingy and needy, but if you really love your husband or wife, you WANT to be with them and spend time with them. In fact, there is no one I'd rather spend time with!

[Camel]

Psalm 29:10-11 The LORD sat enthroned at the Flood,
And the LORD sits as King forever.
The LORD will give strength to His people;
The LORD will bless His people with peace.

[rosesmoemoe]

I prioritize family matters 1st. I want my husband to be at home to play, have conversation with kids and me.
busy man even though he's rich, hanging out everyday with his friends everyday, come back late everyday, I just feel like not match my needs.

[teneshalowe]

My man would be gone for months, and even though I talked to him all day, him not being around drove me crazy. When he finally I got home, I didn't want anyone else around him. This is true. Now he's with someone who doesn't care. 😢... But, I'm ok.