10 Signs You Might Be A Lesbian

#lesbian #bi #bisexual #gay #lgbt #lgbtq

“DUMP HIM!” Digital Book:

“DUMP HIM!” Audiobook:

00:00 Intro
00:38 My Queer Journey
02:22 Comp Het
03:47 1. You Only Seek Male Attention
04:42 2. Your Only Male Crushes Are Celebrities/Fictional Characters
06:11 3. You Like The Fantasy of Being With A Man
06:55 4. You Just Feel Like Something’s Missing
07:29 5. “Women Are Just More Attractive Than Men!”
08:07 6. Unsettled By Idea of Future With A Man
08:54 7. Hyperspecific/Unrealistic “Dream Guy”
09:44 8. You Get the Ick Very Easily
10:25 9. You Want Men to Want You (and then when they do, you bounce)
11:12 10. Your “Butterflies” Around Men Do Not Feel Good
12:30 In Conclusion…

[golden_leader]

I can't say i find myself in these points (i'm het) ... but it was wild to me when i discovered i was under the aromantic spectrum.
We don't really talk about sexuality and the wide diversity of every spectrum. You're right Lexi, we're generally conditioned to adhere to standard 'models' in society that we have the necessity to discover and kinda ''question'' ourselves even as adults. I love finding people that are really helpful in helping others with this, just like you are.

I was 30 when i finally understood myself and my take on romantic relationships (i'm 32 now, so it was recent). It was wild.
Ah, and my best friend is the same regarding the aro thing, but she is bi. Wild as f.

[THT__WL]

Me thinking im bi turning out to be lesbian: ˚^˚

[ZMBE_CRPSE]

Here before 50 views! :3

As a lesbian who thought was pansexual, I am glad I found this because I relate to ALL of these things. I still have fictional male crushes but I don't wanna date men.

[Sanajmy]

POINT 5 IS SO VAILD. I get so shocked whenever my friend says “I’d like her is she was a guy”. Like girl she is perfectly fine already😭

[fuyukoyamomoto]

I have those "butterflies" every time I think about talking to a man I fantasize about I relate to every statement here

[catfreestyle]

thank you so much for this video 🥹 I’m with a man right now but honestly been questioning so much… it’s tough. I just want to please my family.

[sarasantander]

I entered the video out of curiosity and because I love your Sephora videos on Tik Tok Lexy but the thing about celebrities and the idea of ​​having someone like in romantic movies is so me but the thing is that since I haven't been able to experience ANYTHING with a man Not even holding hands, I don't know what the other points feel like, and I know I'm not a lesbian, I don't see myself with a woman doing what I'm supposed to do with a man, but anyway, thanks for the video, it made me doubt certain things for a second. but well I think I need to live more I'm barely 17

[kourtneycremeens]

My asexual ass just jaw dropped at the realization of how this applied thinking back on my relationships.

[willbyers_clizzy]

having "drag queen" as a criteria for men and still thinking you're attracted to men is wild
not saying it's impossible, but it should set the alarm off

[KimberlyRamirez-kn]

Nice vid Lexi very helpful. I resonate with most if not all of these. Especially the celebrity/ fictional character one 😂😂😂, but I’m pretty sure I’m attracted to men still just with a preference for women. Very helpful 🌸👌❤️

[ladaneii]

Thank you for this video Lexy!I’ve been struggling with my sexuality for years because i don’t know if im lesbian or bi. Your video really opened my eyes and for the first time i feel heard<3

[Jloofaz]

I definitely know I'm not straight but this is kinda making me really question things.I need to really take a deep dive thank you for this I literally don't have anyone I can talk to her this.

[opalskycanvas]

I still consider myself bi but I’m starting to prefer women more than men

[sabalvasan]

OMG!!! Been looking forward to your videos all day! ❤❤❤ also been trying to figure myself out and well it’s hard. Like really hard, especially these days.

[EleftheriaSkederidou]

Hey! Could you maybe make a video giving advice about coming out on parents? It would be very helpfull❤ Love ya

[ann]

thank you Lexy, I needed that video<3

[Rizzydizzyswizzy]

I was so confused questioning if I’m bi or lesbian but I think I got the answer 🧡🤍🩷

[arashi]

Thank you so much for this very insightful video! I think everyone should see this even if they know who they are attracted to in terms of sexuality already. You don’t have to be questioning your sexuality to find this helpful and I think everyone should take their time to think about their sexuality and not assume that they are heterosexual. I like how you said “your body will tell you before your brain can tell you. Trust your instincts.” I think it’s true even for friendships to be honest with you, not just romance.

I also think there’s a difference between being attracted and finding someone attractive…I can find other women very attractive but that doesn’t mean I’m a lesbian or bisexual. I could be heterosexual and find men attractive but not want to date that man (aka be attracted). It could also be that you aren’t open to relationships and love right now or it may not be that you haven’t met anyone worth a relationship just yet. I can’t force love and I am a believer that it will happen when it’s meant to happen, whomever it may be with. ❤

[franciscacordero]

the fact that it took me years to found out I was demisexual is wild, just explore and find what makes you feel comfortable

[Danae-slay]

I think it’s amazing how you want to share this