Why is the breakup easy for them?

Why does the breakup seem so much easier for them and will they feel what you feel? When a person breakups up with you, they are not having the same experience you are. These are some of the things they may be feeling

[shannareads]

Your channel is the only one giving me the strength to not believe it’s completely over but also giving me the reality that it might be and also see I need to address a lot of things within me.

Thank you

[theempire]

“Don’t go to the future” — Such great advice! My mind ALWAYS goes to that dangerous place, where I start thinking about her with a new partner, and starting a family 😕

[dceufan]

Y’all listen to this special woman!! LISTEN TO HER!!! I wished this video was available 10+ years ago… it would’ve helped me tons!

[jocelynxoh]

This gave me so much peace and clarity. You really made everything resonate, I’ve been told this by other people but I kept choosing to be hopeful and beg to be together this last time I saw him. Now I understand why my none of my solutions worked for him. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. ❤❤❤

[ddt]

I have watched this video 3 times in two days. It’s keeping me grounded right now, thank you.

[loganhillier]

fantastic video! My girlfriend broke up with me almost two weeks ago and after I poured my heart out saying how things are fixable, how I would do anything to keep her, and how I was so upset she was feeling okay so quick and she just told me I needed to move on and that hurt so badly. I couldn’t understand why she was just doing so great and I was feeling horrible but this video helped out so much! Part of me hopes she will miss me and comeback but the other realizes she hurt me so bad and left me so I should just move on and lose that hope

[AngelAguilar-wrqn]

Darlene you are a blessing to the world. Your videos are so helpful

[JoeBlack]

Darlene you're a blessing to many people including me, Thank you. You keep it 💯

[briteidea]

Felt it coming in the previous weeks. She wouldn’t really open up.
The day she put the maul down. I was in absolute shock and really couldn’t argue. Just told her I wanted my stuff back. And I will meet her the next day.
Absolutely devastated. Did nothing but reflect and sought therapy. I’m not perfect for sure. I admit my mistakes and they were small.
Still miss her sox months later.

[annafleming]

Thank you for the reminder to stay in the present 😊

[deanhennessy]

Happened to me a ex partner planned a new life with someone else leaving me distraught anyway enjoying your casts keep up the good work

[lelonene]

New subscriber here 🙋🏽‍♀️ you’re like an online bestie because I needed to hear this even though it made me feel uncomfortable. I need time back to myself

[floridabrit]

I love listening to you speak. You resonate with me 💯. Thank you 🙏 ❤️

[xailus]

Thank you so much, you’ve been my friend for the past 5 days. You have been speaking to my soul and I love you for it, even though I don’t know you.

[GarciaGKAcademy]

So glad I stumbled across your channel. Thank you for your wisdom

[dom]

But why? How is this possible to just leave someone you’re supposed to love.
We were so good a week before it happened and we celebrated 18 months anniversary. Then the next week he was moody, I got upset and exploded with every issue he’s been ignoring for the past months.
I begged him not to break up with me for 2 days, minutes before he did he asked a questions “when did you fell in love with me?” And I wrote so much about all the memories we shared, all the small things.

He said he wish he could give me another chance but what I did was too much and he can’t find this within himself to fight for me. He blamed me for everything, said I emotionally abused him and I will never change. He said he lost all the respect to me I am bipolar and other things.

I just don’t understand. I am not even near being perfect, but I loved him, I listened to him, I cared for him and I just wanted the same from him.

He compared me telling him how disappointed I am with him and how humiliated I felt to cheating. I took the blame on me but how can he not see my side? I wanted to fix things, work on us. I don’t just give up on people. He said we can be friends and maybe pick it up in a few months again but I couldn’t be friends with him after how he made me feel. It’s been 4 weeks no contact and 5 weeks since the break up and I’m worried it will never get better.

Sorry for my rant here, but it’s been so difficult and I’m not sure how to move on. He’s blocked on almost all social media, he’s not trying to reach out and probably already dating and I’m crying in my room every day.

[Setgpark]

listening to your videos calm me so much!!

[YyegG]

You are really helpful thank you so much

[lamppostpopyoullyipuracott]

Another amazing video thank you so much 💞

[axess]

We were together for 6 and a half years but then suddenly broke up with me a month ago because she thinks I don't have a plan for the future which is way off the mark as I have been planning how to propose to her. She then said I don't prioritize her even though I give up so much of my time just to spend time with her.