6 Behaviors That Make People Dislike You

Have you ever worry about how your behaviors or bad habits may make others dislike you? That's okay! People are social beings and depend heavily on other people. Everyone wants to be liked, and desire approval, appreciation, and acceptance from others. To help you work on self improvement, let's look at the common behaviors that may be pushing others away.

Writer: Xinyi
Script Editor: Morgan Franz
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Zyan Méndez
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[Psychgo]

Hi Hamburger or Taco? p.s Don't forget to share this video! You will get a virtual high five!

[slayre]

“3. Not smiling”

Ohhh that explains it

[amcb]

People talking about themselves the whole time without showing interest in others would definitely make people dislike you too.

[LifeisaBeautifulting]

I think people dislike me because I'm generally quiet and private. And I have overshared on social media in the past, because even though i'm private I wish people knew who I really am I deep down. But I decided to let social media go for other reasons. Honestly I don't really care how people view me anymore, I like myself and the majority of people are temporary anyway

[p.]

I’m socially awkward, so when I first meet people I usually just keep to myself and I choose to open up when I feel comfortable, but for some reason people translate me being quite and shy as me being rude and thinking I’m too good to talk to them. So people usually don’t like me when they first meet me.

[Sparrow-]

Time stamps:
1.Over sharing on social media 0:42
2. Humblebragging 1:24
3.Not Smiling 2:23
4.Constantly criticising others 3:00
5.Suppressing or faking emotion 3:52
6.Using emoticons in formal writing 4:27

[savannah]

I don't know why but this art style is oddly comforting 😌

[alexxx]

This video seems to be completely oblivious that being authentic could make one appear unlikeable in the first place (family of orgin and childhood experience plays a major role here).

[Uwhowhereareyou]

Who cares if people don't like me . I'm not here on this earth to impress people. The only one I've got to impress is myself.

[tmc]

Basically you're saying people only like you when you're in a good mood. And i genuinely feel those are the worst people to associate with. They'll never be around when you need them.

[teptime]

I tend to not smile at strangers, as it worries me that they might think I'm flirting with them.

[oceanmistdream]

I would like broader research done on the “ smile more” one. I have met with many people outside of the US and even people within the US where smiling isn’t exactly looked at as a good thing. Turns out, it makes people uncomfortable, even suspicious. I personally think it’s more of a case by case basis and we should just stick with “ don’t fake emotions”.

[ICEcoldJT]

“Every situation in life is temporary. So, when life is good, make sure you enjoy and receive it fully. And when life is not so good, remember that it will not last forever and better days are on the way.”

[dragonzrsick]

I always seem to be more comfortable by myself, and even act more like me while I'm alone.
For example, if someone else is around, I'm less likely to get up and grab a glass of water. I also avoid crying or singing a lot in front of others. However, when I'm alone I'll cry, sing, talk to myself, work on passion projects, work on problems, come up with ideas, work out, and many other things. I do like playing games with others and talking, but I feel like every moment is more meaningful when I'm alone. Like I don't have to freak out about anything. When I'm with others it's like I'm transported to an alternate dimension, and when they leave, I feel I can be expressive again.
I just wanted to vent a little. Have a good day everyone!

[Jasmin-nrnr]

Also being a narcissist. When everything is about you and you can care less about others. I was at dinner with a couple friends one night, and one of my girlfriends started sharing a very personal problem she is dealing with at the time. Meanwhile, our other friend was not engaging or listening to her and seemed to not want to be bothered with something that didn't interest her. So she began to look at her phone and watch tik tok videos and started laughing loudly at the table at the videos. Completely oblivious to the other person's pain and feeling the need to talk to a friend and be heard. At that very moment, I decided to slowly let this person go and move on. I have no patience at my age to deal with people like this. Taking selfies at the table, my god.... grow up!

[Strawberrygremlins]

well I'm autistic so it literally doesn’t matter what I do: People dislike me

[mr.sheeppeehs]

#1: randomly punching people in the face

[enzanXcrystal]

I have the feeling that, if you´re different from what people consider "normal", then they don´t like you.
If you´re swimming against the stream, instead of with it, people seem to dislike you much faster.
If you´re speaking up against things and tell other people that you don´t like this or that, then they dislike you as well.
People even tent to dislike you when you suddenly say "no" to certain things you always said "yes" to before.

Why can´t they just try to understand each other better? Why don´t they question the reasons for your decisions instead of immediately judging and disliking you?
Why do we have to try to be someone else to be liked by others? It´s rare to be able to be yourself around other people because they might tend to dislike you for that.

[momokomo]

You're not a golden coin so that everybody loves you. Best way to live your life is to stop caring about what others think. Workout, build confidence, learn new things, be kind to others without expecting anything, be humble but not spineless, be strict but fair, be nice but not a people pleaser, build and build confidence in yourself and you will eventually achieve all your goals. Do all of these things for you. Don't be a people pleaser, if you want happiness think of yourself but do not abandon people that you love. Keep your mind occupied with goals and don't worry about what others think. At the end of the day, the only one that is going to get your goals done is yourself. I leave this message here if anyone needs reading it.

[Rome]

I'm so glad I learnt manners and public relations skills early in life. It cannot be stressed enough how important it is in all areas of life.