4 Common Behaviors That Kill Relationships

Are you tired of struggling to maintain healthy relationships? Do you find yourself repeating the same mistakes over and over again? In this video, we'll explore 4 common behaviors that can kill relationships and provide you with practical tips to avoid them. By the end of this video, you'll have a better understanding of what not to do in your relationships and how to foster healthier connections with the people you care about. So, sit back, relax, and let's dive into the 4 common behaviors that kill relationships.

Writer: Stela Košić
Editor: Brie Cerniglia
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator: Cristina B.
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

References:

[Psychgo]

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[Nbqu]

1 - Not apologizing 0:56
2 - codependency 2:18
3 - Unclear communication 3:33
4 - Micromanaging 4:56

[cindyflores]

The fact that my boyfriend and I watch these together makes me so happy. Y’all really helped us out ❤.

[chocolatefactory]

Who's watching this despite not even being in a relationship?

[amyhoover]

My relationship used to suffer a lot from unclear communication, and honestly, micromanaging is something that I still struggle with internally... I have since learned how to take control of these compulsive desires, but that doesn't mean I still don't find myself dwelling on the little things that people don't do every now and then.... It's honestly difficult not to let those kinds of thoughts consume me, especially if I've already had a rough day to begin with

[sasakuropyon]

The second one is really true for me... I've always felt this feeling of worthlessness whenever I'm not with my partner. Ever since I got into a relationship too, I slowly stopped talking to all of my friends and replying to their texts. Whenever I'm not with my partner, I feel anxiety so intense that I sometimes get panic attacks or auditory hallucinations. Im constantly scared that I might do something to make my partner leave me so I constantly apologize for every thing... and I feel that it only brings us both down when I apologize for everything. I'm unnecessarily clingy and I would sacrifice anything and everything for them. This video really opened my eyes but I don't know what to do to be better, idk what to do to fix this.

[ishita_cu]

It's easy to have a good marriage when things are going well. But learning to work TOGETHER through the hard stuff without blaming each other is what we've found is key. We've also learned to express what we are looking for. The best way for that is "Lovify" couple game. In this game, we have to guess each others expectations. Been 7 Years & we still put efforts to understand each other better 💞

[buddy]

For everybody who has asked out their crush and been rejected, I feel you. But you still did an incredibly brave thing, and I'm proud of you. I promise things will work out.

Video is amazing Psych2Go! Topics Below:
1. Partners unintentionally hurting one another and avoiding an apology. 1:00
2. Being overly attached and dependent on your partner. 2:18
3. Poor communication, or lack of clear communication. 3:34
4. Micromanaging. 4:56

[isaiahvoss]

I've killed friendships or friendships were killed in the past that led me to have new friendships now due to letting certain friends go. No one said sorry except for me. A girl for my 20th birthday gave me a note that left me in tears because I've never got a note from a girl before and I felt important. I felt important to her even though I've only known her for two months. What matters is learning and forgiving those that hurt you. It's a long process but having closure helps.

[life-is-here]

The importance of sincerity and vulnerability in maintaining healthy relationships is major point here, and reminds us that it's okay to admit when we've made a mistake. It's a valuable message that can help us build stronger, more resilient connections with the people we care about.

[catramarrymepls]

Not apologizing and unclear communication. Not in a relationship but got a friend and these are the issues that are starting to make me lose interest in our friendship. I always got to be the one to lower down my pride when I didn’t even do anything bad, they just start to ignore me when they get mad. It’s okay to want to have an alone time, but they give me the silent treatment for literal days and I always have to be the one approaching them. And when they DO explain, the reasons are always so minimal and even unintentional.

[SuperJetskibear]

I love coming back to this channel for not only the entertainment but to educate myself on these things, thank you I hope this channel continues to help those who need it the most ❤

[gmemack]

I've learned so much from these videos...I split with my ex recently because I just felt we were sooo incompatible that, I felt I couldn't cope..it brought out some toxic behaviors that I now wish very much I had the tools mitigate at the time...I care for her very deeply, and truly want her to have the best in life.. ironically, I found it very hard for me to always be my best self...who admittedly has some issues...looking back we were just both very afflicted with our own traumas and..and never had the knowledge or techniques or prior healing within ourselves to be together...I still believe that it's best that we separated..space was necessary..but I just hate that it felt that it needed to be for good because looking back...I don't miss her as a lover. I miss her as a friend I miss her as family. I pray one day we both can heal and learn how to be happy...with ourselves and each other...to my Baby K. I'm deeply and truly sorry for all of my dysfunctional behaviors. From the previous lifetime..those to come, and beyond. You are forever loved.

[jasonhill]

Its been 8 months and im still recovering from my marriage break up. These videos have been unbelievably helpful in helping to understand what potentially went wrong. There was no cheating, no lying, no arguing, we just kind of drifted apart. I see a lot of me and a lot of her in some of these videos. Thankyou for making them ❤

[ashahobson]

What I love is that in some way, all these things can be applied to relationships in general and not just romantic ones.

[meowmeow.gaming]

I love that so many of these can also apply to platonic relation ships.

[kuroko_]

I sympathize with the second point. Not in a relationship, but as friends with the opposing sex. I have learned a little bit to control it. I still fear to get too attached though...

[justmaniacal]

I’ve gone through a few relationships and a thing I learned is to love you also need to learn how to love yourself! I apologised so much everyday for every little thing I did because I was scared my partner was always needing it. Yes it was probably an effect of certain childhood experiences but after the relationship ended and I took time to listen to myself I realised this. In the relationship I was in a dark place, I fell and emotionally depended on my partner. Not giving them enough room either.

Please, do not be afraid to work on yourself and see professionals! Of course opening yourself up and telling your partner these things is a great idea, communication is a strong tool for a healthy relationship, but make sure you give them room too! 💖

[lawrence-kun]

I really relate on the number 2, I get too attached to my partner that I don't know who I am anymore and slowly losing my own identity, I really need to change this, because its getting to hard sometimes once we get into misunderstandings

[MrSa]

I haven't been in a relationship for some years now I can just say that you've got everything covered.