How To Make People Respect You In Seconds

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Normally, earning respect takes years of demonstrating high character, but there are exceptions.
That's why in this video I will cover 6 psychological tricks that you can use to command respect almost instantly.
 

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0:16 - #1: Upgrade your thin slice.
1:22 - #2: Physically take up more space.
2:32 - #3: Get comfortable with platonic touch.
3:59 - #4: Don't allow yourself to be cut off.
6:07 - #5: Compliment your competition.
8:17 - #6: Openly share your shortcomings.

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[einfussganger]

I worked with a softspoken gentleman from the south who would get cut off in conversation and then raise his hand and say, "I'm dreadfully sorry for speaking while you were interrupting."

[Germso]

"People judge you based on how YOU perceive your shortcomings" very good point

[myelingd]

Hey, everyone who runs this channel, you have all helped me with my social anxiety which has been ruining my life for years, destroying my academics, social status, and basically everything around me. I've been having a language barrier for a long time, but you have helped me conquer this. You guys are the best channel ever.

[dmswan]

Being open about our imperfections may be good advice for the most part, but it is prudent to keep in mind that there are narcissistic people who are more than happy to zero in on the vulnerabilities of others and proceed to humiliate them. So it’s probably a good idea not to share too much with people that we don’t know well.

[qualityquotes]

“Treat everyone with politeness and kindness, not because they are nice, but because you are.”
― Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart

[AlexPlatinumAdvice]

Being talked over is a huge issue people have and I agree, just continue what you were saying at the same tone. Some people just get excited and don’t mean to talk over you so don’t take it personally.

[noraisacoff]

I love all of these except for #4. I have so much more respect for someone who mostly listens and can move flexibly through conversation than someone who just bulldozes through.

[seanwilliams]

Respect takes years to build: Picture of Will Smith

Respect takes moments to lose: picture of Will Smith

[mikahong]

Part of Jaden backing down immediately is probably the subconscious habit of giving way to the adults. He would be dragged for being disrespectful if he were to interject the way Will did, or even if he interjected politely.

[fcberk]

"You dont have to be Ryan Gosling or Emma Stone"


*Shows Brad Pitt*

[megharoni]

I've been watching these videos out of sheer curiosity and I am delighted how far I have come since my shy younger years. These are all things I have figured out on my own, over time, after many years of embarrassing myself. A lot of this comes naturally with getting older, I think. The old "embrace my flaws" trick has been huge for me, too.

[Versiongurl]

Definitely agree with the last one!!! Always said I see a person who is more vulnerable and honest than one who plays strong and put up a front being fake and phoney. To me it’s a sign of strength, not weakness and I respect them more.

[mrthirdparty]

"start dressing one lever nicer than the situation calls for"
me: *wears a suit to school*

[unknownfacts]

When you dance to your own rhythm, people may not understand you; they may even hate you. But mostly they’ll wish they had the courage to do the same.

[aarongarcia]

Instant respect is usually short lived as respect and trust are earned little by little

[xpansionteam]

I reckon this channel is the reason I feel a lot more joy lately. Much appreciated

[overload]

6 Psychological Tricks To Command Respect Instantly


1. Thin Slice (People's first impression of you): Clothes - wear something that fits.
2. Take up more space: hand gestures, taking up the entire seat. You are "not" afraid of being seen.
3. Get comfortable with platonic touching: hugs, hi-five, shoulder pats. Must be done appropriately - under 5 seconds, normal areas.
4. Don't stop talking - always finish your sentence. Don't let them talk over you.
5. Compliment your competition. Don't tear down others, you'll lose respect.
6. Openly share your shortcomings. People judge you on how you perceive your own shortcomings: "own the bad things" about yourself.


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[pmsr]

"In reality, people DO NOT judge you on your shortcommings, they judge you on how YOU perceive your shortcommings"
Gold.

[tonyadair]

“Expectation wasn't just about what people expected of you. It was about what you expected of yourself.” - Brandon Sanderson, _Words of Radiance_

[DavidBruce]

Often let people cut me off during a sentence and you explained that just perfect.
It is more about ''wanting to respect the person'' while literaly beeing disrespected.