10 Behaviors That Keep You Single

Everybody has their fair share of dating disasters. Relationships are a very well-studied topic of psychology, but even after decades of research, there’s still so much we don’t know about love. A romantic relationship can be hard to navigate, and we’re often guilty of complicating things even more with our drama and overthinking. Are you looking for dating advice on how to get into a relationship? Do you think you might be hurting your chances at true love? Have you had a long list of failed relationships but can’t seem to figure out where it all went wrong? Here are 10 Behaviors That Keep You Single!

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Hey Psych2Goers, we've recently launched a few merch T-shirt designs to bring a piece of Psych2Go physically to you! Which of these do you like best? We might be giving out a few as well to those who may not be able to afford them. The intention of these designs is to remind you that each day, your mental health matters. 🙂

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"You Matter" Short-Sleeve Unisex T-Shirt

[avi]

The problem is, I'm not in love with anyone, but I'm in love with the idea of being in a relationship

[tajayatomlinson]

Why I am single
1. I don't leave my house, nor talk to anyone of the opposite sex.
Thank you for coming to my Ted talk

[peterpisspotty]

1. Cynical views on love
2. Unrealistic standards
3. You have too many dealbreakers
4. You have unresolved issues
5. You have low self esteem
6. Fear of happiness - push people away
7. Trust issues and jealousy
8. Fear of losing your independence
9. You want someone you can't have
10. You don't learn from your mistakes

[elgomas]

The "scared of happiness" part is so personal for me. I'm so scared whenever I make some progress with people I like because I think they are going to hate me once they see what I really am. I feel more comfortable when they are distant to me, that way, I won't feel the pain of them pushing away when we are close.

[carltasticdrew]

Reasons i'm single:
1. I rarely leave the house
2. Socially awkward
3. Stuttering
4. Fear of being manipulated/betrayed again

[sammartinez]

I’ve lived through more pandemics than relationships💖

[soijustlistenedto...]

Aside from the fact that I can never have my crush, it's the fear of losing independence for me. I've been single all my life and I've gotten so used to it. It's so empowering yet scary.

[bbgnice]

I'm a 33-year-old male and never had a date or anything. This pain of loneliness throughout time hurt so much I almost made the worst mistake anyone could do. Now, I've realized I believed the false beliefs that I was unworthy of love. Making it to where I wouldn't even give myself a chance. Now Im trying to work on myself and change those beliefs. Hopefully, things will change within time.

[ramencat]

Why I'm single:

-being cringe and awkward
-strict parents
-shy

[kronos]

Better to be alone than with someone and feel alone.

[glitzygirl]

It's okay to be single. Just don't be in a relationship just because you feel lonely.

[TjarpDex]

Thanks for confirming that I will truly be forever alone.

[Szaam]

"How's your love life?"

It doesn't exist.

[yasemink.]

1. You have cynical views about love
2. Unrealistic standarts
3. You've set too many dealbreakers ( expecting too much )
4. Unresolved past trauma
5. Low self esteem
6. You have a fear of happiness
7. Trust issues
8. You think you lose your independence when being in a relationship
9. You want someone you can't or shouldn't have
10. You don't learn from your mistakes

[taralexii]

For my entire 19 years of life, I’ve never even had a “crush”, I never even looked at someone in a romantic way until a few months ago. I’ve met someone who really cares about me and makes me laugh, it’s crazy because I’ve never thought id feel this way-there’s always several people out there for you, just let them come to you and try not push relationships.

[medicgaming]

My reasons-

-Overthinking
-Being deathly afraid of rejection
-What his friends might think of me, as I see them every day (suffice to say, I think this might be a reason for everyone with a crush)
-Being disorganized and awkward

Lots of etcetera afterwards. It really isn't an exhaustive list, unfortunately. I wish everyone the best in their endeavors of confession and whatnot.

[moa]

Reasons I’m single:
1. Low self-esteem
2. Overthinks
3. Negative mindset about myself

[drewdarrington]

This YouTube algorithm has a funny sense of humor.

[willchan]

24, never dated anyone, I think the more important thing than going out to find a date is to find your own crew, the people you feel super comfy with. Build your confidence and shine, opportunities will be attracted to you.