Part1-How kid/partner neglect/disrespect impacts physical, emotional, financial, etc. health factors

In this part 1 🎥 I have narrated my childhood & adult family/partnership neglect related instances, to discuss how neglect/lack of consideration of some family/partner -can remain a facade, when the lack of consideration/consistent abuse/trauma/lack of support/neglect is ongoing in a relationship.
Part 2👇

To understand some additional elements related to this topic please check out these reference videos, some real life, some fiction mimicking real life-

Many children who have faced constant neglect related to emotional, physical health lack of hygeine support related factors in their life, or if they have trauma from childhood and adulthood abuse, don't know how to maintain even basic home caretaking things.
I was such a child in my teens and early twenties; when living an independent life in US I was able to maintain a clean home environment when alone or when not preoccupied with work/study burdens; otherwise when ever I have fallen in an abuse/neglect/psychological manipulation trap by someone it's been extremely difficult for me to maintain simple cleaner home environments.
And in recent years where not simply cleanliness was important, but also hygeine maintainance where pollution parameters needed to be minimal, and I was simultaneously going through some organ damage/cancer/allargies or complex health challenges from real abuse/neglect/health harm enabling conditions; not only was i not able to maintain all the things that I can clearly maintain when living alone and stress free - things got worse because people realistically capable of understanding the cleanliness shifts/changes/caretaking needed for a person suffering from multiple levels of health challenges- were nearly absent.
Only when paying someone for major cleaning of a home that was unoccupied for a while, and partly when the cleaner/s or caretaker/s were ready to learn a different more health safe/supportive cleaning paradigm; was I able to get partially safe home environments/home stay environments when traveling and searching for less polluted places in India.
And because of major neglect/abuse in homes that I considered were my homes because the people were allegedly my family- very few people have the understanding capacity to caretake/support/adapt to simpler health safety/support related requests in my family life. And some being additionally socially or mentally challenged would deliberately add to harm than create health supportive conditions.
3 & 4 spouse examples are like some of my own life experiences where family/partners can be self sabotaging/deliberately disloyal/disrespectful/ willingly ready to ignore simple requests related to respect/boundaries, etc.
The reason why men/women should divorce such partners, or go no/low contact if such people are in your family/caretaker - is because no one has a guaranteed bed of roses & peak health life on 🌎 currently; & with such partners/family/caretakers- health harm/abuse/death is more likely than not.

Disloyal wife, leading to betrayal trauma of the husband; which led to neglect of non-biological children.

About basic respect & simple consideration that the wife requested; but it didn't get acknowledged by the husband, all for a joke.
And when the joke was played on him, it's not as if he really enjoyed the prank when it was played on him.
This kind of selective listening & disrespecting simple doable requests of a spouse (or family or someone we know socially) and hypocritical behaviours; where if the tables were turned the partner (or family or whoever is this level disrespectful)- won't be able to take what they dish out to another- is the reason why people divorce, separate or go no contact with such family.
Family who are seemingly very nice and jovial guys/girls- but in reality have the potential to be simply disregarding and inconsiderate (as presented in this video); or some who are disrespectful ( example 3) or even covertly abusive to trigger spouse (or family) to look like the villain in front of family/social circle/strangers.
This guy was easily upset when the tables were turned, because he had actually intended that his wife should have more of a meltdown than she had; his choice of army fatigue colors & anger both shows evidence that to many people outside of the marriage he likely paints his wife as a villain/nag; when the real problem is his lack of capacity to listen, & he paints all his passive aggressive/abusive behavior as a joke instead.