Fearful avoidant or covert narcissist?

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[Ruthforme]

OMG!!! Coach you’re great!😃 My ex-husband was definitely a narcissist.
Thank you.❤

[samchezrocks]

THank you so much coach!!! even herself was in doubt she asked me several times... Am I a narcisistic person? I had to tell her... no, you are avoidant, and even told her... to help ppl like you it is pretty dangerous, I will do my best, but if you start destroying me... I´ll leave, cannot allow that to happen, by the we´ve been in the relationship for more than 3 years, and she already started to deactivate since we completed our second aniversary, since she started making weird comments such as "this relationship has already endured way long enoguh", at the time that she started blocking me the access to her parents (with whom I had a great great relationship) and she said that "she wanted to avoid confrontation between us"... !??!?!!! yes, she was gaslighting me... until I realized that it was only me pushing that relationship, she started to slow fade... I gave her what she wanted... 4 years directly to the trash can...

[claribelgarcia]

I feel my husband that left the house to his mom house was like the way he is ignoring me like l was nothing to him l gave him 8 years of my life smh 🤦‍♀️

[KVG]

I think Im fearful avoidant but trying to be more secure. I got discarded by an avoidant. Quantum dating is what I will be doing from now on.

[raymiles]

I’m not even sure what was extreme and what was not at this point. I just know I felt I wasn’t enough on most occasions after they did so much to pull me in (talks of marriage, moving in, etc.) Then made it seem like my fault for asking about when to move in or proposing (they said things like… I was just getting comfortable calling you my partner and you had to propose).

[TheColtonStreeter]

If they make you feel the same way does it even matter?

[Dana-kdh]

Coach Ryan.... Who are you???? Thanks! Wanna hear little bit about you background....and who you are today...

[milanmilanovic]

Dear Ryan,
I don't know if you have time to read our comments; but, I'd like to thank you for all that you do. I was in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant, and they definitely check all the boxes. However, now I wonder if there could be any overlaps between dismissive avoidants and covert narcissists? I have a feeling that sometimes there is much more to it than just a particular attachment style. In my case, the ex was demonstrating elements of avoidant personality disorder, covert narcissism and avoidant attachment style. Do you think this may be the case with some avoidants? I understand if you can't respond to individual questions, such as mine, but this is also a question for your audience. I am sure there are people like me who feel that yes, my ex was avoidant, but when you look back at some things they did and said, were we in a relationship with someone who hurts people and enjoy it. I remember my ex once telling me that their biggest fear was "that they might hurt someone", and I thought it was weird because people are afraid of getting hurt not hurting someone else. But then, if they go around breaking hearts and hurting people, maybe they should be afraid of being like that.
Once again, your channel is eye-opening. Thank you 🙏🏻

[promo]

these narcs have very bad memory, they dont even remember events from 2 weeks ago.
a geat way to test them out. they do remember dates and names, but events not