Stop People Pleasing and Start Doing What's Right For You - Jordan Peterson

Speaker: Jordan Peterson Thanks for watching!
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[taracat]

Anxiety diminished for me when I started to stand up for myself.

[mokhan]

“If you’re a friend to everybody, you’re an enemy to yourself.” - Mike Tyson

[conradgreener]

Kindness must be balanced with wisdom.

[YE]

Kind people are misused and mistreated. The hardest lesson one can achieve is being kind to one self enough to say no and have clear boundaries.

[annie]

He's like the Grandfather we all need.

[FlaminioGuerrero]

Probably the best advice I’ve ever related to.
People takes advantage of your good and kind nature, and think your kindness is a sign of weakness.

[amandalangston]

I used to be an agreeable person. Now I am a person with clear boundaries.

[lisajane]

Being pleasing & not saying no is just survival for many children though, it was for me. It takes time & courage to realise you have choices, as an adult & even as a child.

[Ali-nxgh]

It took me 45 years to stop people pleasing. I wasn't taught saying no to others is necessary to take care of myself.

[nathangromak]

when JP looks at you and says "if you don't stop doing that, something you do not like will happen to you with 100% certainty"
me: *Gulps loudly*

[froggieredcliffe]

This man is so helpful. i am this caring person and i have just learnt how to say NO. It took me 60 years and lots of tears. I did expect the best of others. Thank you Jordan.

[pedrocarmo]

I finally said no to my controlling parents yesterday, at age 37. I felt relaxed a couple of hours after that. My life is not going to be all sunshine after that, but I don't have a weight on my shoulders after twenty years.

[gu]

"Not more than necessary but certainly not less than necessary" he's so f*cking cool

[amjPeace]

Saying no to someone else is saying yes to yourself!

[JoyceOSullivan-eerm]

Jordan Peterson is a legend the world 🌎 needs to come out of the fog❤❤🍀

[nickylita]

You young people are so Lucky to have this man as a mentor! He literally saved my life! ❤

[wallyjansen]

Oh my, you are so right. People who can't say no are exploited and often don't even notice it till it's too late.

[eliminoh_p]

I’ve learned saying no gets easier the more you practice it. The first few times feel awful..but then you realize the world didn’t end, and it made you happy. You’ll definitely want to do it again.

[jennysmith-bkps]

I think this man is one if not the smartest man on earth. ❤

[dawnettaseering]

That’s my biggest issue. I try to avoid conflict at all costs because I hate conflict and want us all to get along but once I’ve had enough you will know it