Detach From The Man You Want or You'll Always Be Chasing Him

Detach From The Man You Want or You'll Always Be Chasing Him
Dating Advice for Women

Are you tired of constantly chasing a man, feeling consumed by his every action, or wondering why he seems to slip further away the harder you try?
In this video, Ismael Gomez III, relationship coach and speaker, shares how to break free from unhealthy attachments and reclaim emotional freedom. By mastering detachment, you’ll stop chasing him and focus on yourself.

CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction
00:54 Understanding Attachment
02:33 Quick Dating Advice for Women
03:14 Perspective
05:05 Unfamiliar Feeling
07:13 Conclusion
07:42 Today's Comment

What You’ll Learn in This Video ---
01. Understanding Attachment
- Discover how excessive attachment can lead to unhealthy emotional dependence.
- Learn why tying your happiness and self-worth to someone else’s actions—like waiting for his texts or analyzing his social media—creates anxiety and insecurity.
- Understand how fears like rejection or loss drive attachment and how they cause you to cling to someone who may not reciprocate your energy.

02. Perspective
- Shift the way you view relationships: instead of seeing them as sources of validation, see them as opportunities for growth.
- Gain clarity on why every relationship—even those that don’t last—teaches valuable lessons.
- Learn how reframing negative experiences can turn heartbreak into a powerful turning point in your life.
- Discover why believing in "soulmates" or "the one" can be limiting and set you up for unnecessary suffering.

03. Unfamiliar Feeling
- Learn why detaching from someone you love feels strange or even wrong at first.
- Understand that detachment isn’t about losing emotions but about setting boundaries and regaining control over your life.
- Discover how detachment frees you from overthinking and chasing, allowing you to focus on your own passions, friendships, and goals.
- Find out how your shift in energy can make you more attractive, not just to others, but to your own sense of self-worth.

Insights From the Video:
1. Attachment vs. Love
Attachment is rooted in fear; love is rooted in trust and freedom.

2. Chasing Pushes Him Away
Overanalyzing his actions or seeking constant reassurance only creates emotional distance.

3. The Power of Perspective
Letting go doesn’t mean losing—it’s an opportunity for self-discovery and growth.

4. Mastering Detachment
Detachment allows you to refocus on your goals, passions, and inner peace.

Key Quotes From Ismael Gomez:
- When you tie your happiness to someone else, you hand over control of your emotions.
- Detachment isn’t about losing feelings; it’s about reclaiming your power.
- The only love you can trust is the love you give yourself.

This Detachment Video is Perfect For ---
- Women struggling to let go of an emotionally unavailable man.
- Those wanting to stop chasing and start attracting healthy love.
- Viewers seeking dating advice for women and relationship tips.
- Anyone aiming to master detachment and build emotional independence.

Attachment can often feel like love, but it’s not. It’s control, anxiety, and fear. Through this video, you’ll understand how to detach from the man you want, freeing yourself from toxic patterns and rediscovering your inner peace. Detachment doesn’t mean you stop caring—it means you reclaim your power and set healthier boundaries in your relationships.

This video is more than just relationship advice for women. It’s about empowering you to break free from attachment and live a life rooted in self-love, confidence, and independence. Detaching from the man you want doesn’t mean giving up on love—it means choosing yourself first.

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Ismael Gomez III
I'm a Cuban - American Relationship Coach, Author, and Speaker.

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[SaveTheMessenger]

Thanks to all of you that have subscribed to my channel.
It means a lot to me to see you want to learn about these topics.

[darlinah]

It is so tiring . Somehow I got the feeling that not many want to be loved and love. What is happening to the world …

[normapretorius-lkdf]

I rather stay detached I do belief there is no one out there for me and that is fine.😂

[azeoo]

Thank you Ismael✨ my favorite part of the video was perspective 4:26
-encourage to think of love like choosing a sports team. Oneself picks a team and overtime you grow to love it through the wins and losses but that doesn’t mean that you could have only love that one team. It just happens to be the one that you choose.
-No one is inherently special, only your mind makes them so

[PrayJesusisKing]

Love how you reference when we were young girls. That’s so true and makes me want to do better for me younger self, rather then be tough and push trough things I don’t deserve.

[sumankumari]

Actually, I starting doing these things from the past 4 months, I feel so relax 😅

[Shaghayegh-wryo]

It’s so fascinating how you’re always right

[CyndieAmala]

I should have detached sooner from my last ex when he pulled away. I ended up trying to grab on tighter and I scared him off basically. I had a hard time letting go after he broke up with me. I was feeling especially vulnerable and overwhelmed by trauma as it was when he dumped me. So it was too much to lose him too. Now years later I understand fully that it wasn't meant to be and I feel a sense of relief. But I wish I had this advice back then lol

[TheCakediva]

Im struggling bad today. Thanks for this. Its difficult because he is the man of my dreams and perfect for me in every way. He says im amazing and make him very happy. We are friends. We talk every day. I haven't heard from him recently and I'm not dealing with it well. He had done this before and everything was fine, he was just busy. So I dont know why im feeling like this. Sometimes he needs alone time. Im understanding but this man is different. I never want loose him😊.

[consomate]

I'm trying to detach 😢 Jesus idk why its so hard, 😢 anytime i ask the universe to allow me get the strength to walk away he comes back, I have never blocked anyone before, i try several times to block him but blocking ain't my thing and i don't want to give him that power of showing him that he won hurting me i just want to assume his existence, leave him like he can't believe because definitely he thinks i can't. He won't believe, I'll take time yes but definitely.

[catb]

This message came right on time today. I'm feeling this exact way, and I couldn't figure out what happened to me. Thank you for this perspective.

[jeanetteperez]

Thank you for this video! It was a great reminder today, I finally realized this lesson about a year ago🤦‍♀️. Your coaching really helps validate my thoughts and actions. And thank you for always referencing the million dollar quote..it always gets me! 😂

[LyndaToombs]

Thank you Mr Gomez I've been listening to you for about 2 weeks now and I guess I messed up in the years gone by because I took it to heart and it really hurts now I'm independent and I don't need a man to fulfill me I'm very happy as I am and when I meet someone it's great and I enjoy being with them but my world is not wrapped around them like it used to be when I was younger thank you for all that you say you're helping me to understand I don't know how you got so smart about women but I like it have a wonderful day and God bless

[yunkimarryme.]

I couldn't detach..Rather he did...And I stopped chasing him..but I do want him to come back...Feeling the love for me.

[virajrathnayake]

You are one of the great person i ever met. I was always d provider.. Finally left with pain.. Now is d time to change. Thankyo ismile.. Thankyou universe. ❤️🙏

[DivestedConfessions]

Women need to listen to you. Because you’re a man a lot of women really don’t know what the male point of view is and how detachment is necessary.

[VINLAH]

I'm adapting myself to get detached and it feels a little tough but it's giving me instant relief 😅

[Jasmina-Marseille]

Its snowing in your background, how cozy :)

[mariabanholzer]

Thank you, merci! Good to hear it right now!

[HonieRoxas]

Amazing topic! Very helpful!
Thank you so much Ismail!