Why You Should DETACH from the Man You Want

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[Zion-]

A clever person told me once, concerning relationships:
Two halfes does not make one whole - but two whole people will make one perfect whole.

[meetandinspire]

"Detachment while dating or in a relationship means that we remain independent... they are a great addition to our life but never a necessity. They don't own us and we do not own them."

"Detachment is never about not caring or shielding our heart... it's all about the full acceptance of whatever can happen."

[passionharris]

Being alone gets lonely, but it's the best decision I've ever made in my life. Thank you God 🙏🏾 Self love is way more important than feeling like you're "in love".

[feebsfilms]

Because I listened to you, took your break up course, and followed your advice that any guy that couldn't commit yet wanted to keep me around, I am now married to the man of my dreams. You were right, what felt devastating at the time and like my life was over, a couple of years later has proven to be the stepping stone that led me to the one that not only was what I wanted but he committed fully to me and works on our relationship every day.
We are moving in to the home of our dreams right now, working side by side to make life the best it can be. Detachment to outcome works! ❤

[wendydaniel]

"My alone feels so good. I'll have you only if you're sweeter than my solitude " ❤

[sueannemathews]

Great info. Dont chase men and don't over attach to anyone 😊

[BrandyWiseNL]

When attached you almost unconsciously make choices you would otherwise not make. That still fascinates me. 😊

[UrsaBella]

I will sure detach.... forever...I do not need to play games. We are either in or we are out. people need to stop listening to all these "relationship" experts. I do not put anyone on a pedestal. I just love.

[carolyn]

Did it Totaly lost myself, Then after 27yrs. He left anyway even tho everything was the way he wanted it. Don't Lose yourself in your Relationship, it takes a while to find yourself again.

[kristinej.]

It’s so true that a breakup might not necessarily be a bad thing bc it is like a stepping stone to achieving a better relationship with the right person!

[weutube]

I truly love being alone, I have found that I am my own best friend and enjoy my time without anyone. ❤

[pec]

I'm so comfortable being alone that being around people is sometimes more uncomfortable than it used to be.

[ievaomer]

Detachment is hardest thing to do for me. Because I am overcaring everything.

[soul-etude]

This is what I call self-dignity. If you are a healthy secure person you don"t fall for the "coolness" of the other person. You fall for their interest in you. Because cool people with beautiful eyes are millions out there, but the one who chooses to be with you, is just one. So, I understand that he is talking about unhealthy attachment here to the guys who don't invest in their relationship with you, but you do. It's just that people start using the term attachment as a general negative term and are persuaded that they have to avoid attachment at any cost even within a healthy dynamic of a relationship.

[hereandnow]

There is a God shaped hole inside of all of us that Only God can fill.Psalm 139 ❤

[momzilla]

Hi Brian, I suffered the ultimate break-up. My husband died 1.5 years ago.
The best thing I have done for myself is to fight the need to have a great guy in my life, so I could be the great girl my husband
fell in love with again. It's a struggle, but well worth it.
Thanks for all you do.

[Musicisthelanguageoflove]

I have watched this at exactly the right time to inspire me to stay strong and put things into perspective as reality.

[Jesuslover]

Bingo! My daughter is tryin to move forward from a guy she gave her heart to. Shes carrying his child now, hes ditched her. Breaks my heart. So important to have healthy attachments!❤

[Gray-lnls]

I remembered someone said, a healthy relationship combines of 2 healthy and complete individuals. ❤

[bettywinn]

Genius, info: detaching.
I abruptly ended our 8 1/2 months of dating. He was shocked & angry that I found out he was juggling me. (Think he had some narcissistic traits) He figured, I was infomed
later, that I would never leave him & he could keep me as an option. Not happening with me. Anyway, first time I have used my intuition and the smartest move I have ever made. Now, told he wants to come back & reconcile. But, I have bound- aries now and love myself so
much more. Single, attractive and available and I know my worth now. I am out there socializing with friends and
enjoying my life. Looking forward to meeting the "right" man for my life.
Your video just confirmed
the action I took was the correct one. Kudos, to you.