How To Overcome Resentment In Your Relationship

Resentment is a huge issue in relationships and we all experience it because there are always things that happen that that we don't like. Most of the time when these things happen we want to blame someone else for them or we want to make someone else wrong. And usually that someone else is our partner.

We feel resentment because our partner is not the way we want them to be or the way we think they should be. Or their model of the world does not match your model of the world. So when we ask couples what is the biggest issue? Initially, the biggest block is resentment.

If we want to grow and experience more communication, connection, passion and love we need to learn how to identify this resentment and then learn how to forgive and let go. That is the only way forward.

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[kimberlybauder]

I understand forgiving and letting go of pain and not holding on to what they did, but when is enough enough if they repeat the mistakes.

[PeterNorthsLeftTesticle]

Perhaps instead of just saying the person holding resentment needs to move past it, just perhaps the person causing the resentment first needs to stop doing whatever it is that causes the resentment.

[sylvieislas]

Resentment can be what they have done to you

[GiveWithLove]

10:32 "You can not grow if you're not willing to let go" strongest words ever

[theprasanjitsahoo]

This was probably the best and most cohesive video I have seen on this topic. I started with trying to understand how to forgive, because growing up I didn't have that role model to show me how in a healthy manner. I knew how to be the brightest person in the room, but could never understand how handle various emotions nor truly FEEL forgiveness in the overall situation until a couple months ago either. This idea of resentment isn't limited to romantic relationship, but by many other relationships in an individual's life. Your explanation truly has an articulate and all-encompassing aspect to it. Thank you so much for your insights.

[remyd]

Wish I could of shown this video my ex 3 years ago! But if she never wanted to work on herself by herself you’re doomed from the start I suppose!

[IBACb]

Love how she used this video to enumerate all of his faults.. I expect he'll soon be making a video on "how to loose your ball and chain".

[cdoublebeats]

Thank God for this going through bitter resentment from my dear wife and I want to do all I can to help her and save our marriage.

[daveo]

This is it for me. I built resentment to the point of torching our relationship. Although too late now, it is finally freeing to understand this feeling 🙏

[kuroihana]

What if you forgive and the behaviors that hurt you don’t change?

[lasekundes]

I am currently at this stage now and I thinking breaking up but at the same time i feel like I want to do something.

[slowlybutsherley]

I appreciate you guys making this video. It was extremely helpful for me. I’ve been genuinely struggling with resentment with my partner recently and beating myself up over it. Self reflection and forgiveness has always been something I prided myself in but must’ve forgot along the way. Thank you guys.

[RayMak]

How long did you take to let go of your resentments? I’m trying really hard to change too but there are certain qualities good or bad that made us, us. I feel like I’m spiraling downwards like you mentioned about Adam during your resentful phase.

[RenatoVargas]

Thank you so much for this video. I needed to hear this for me and for my relationship with my wife.

[jaredraga]

3:10
Such a perfect summary of what resentment is!

[Caneford]

How do I work on resentment when my partner continues the behavior I’m upset about?

[marymcloughlin]

But how? How do you forgive and choose to let go? I feel like I can say that then one month later I feel hurt all over again when I think of the past.

[melissaallison]

Thank you for this post ❤
This video has help me identify how to let go of resentment in my relationship.

[stephaniecraftrealestate]

I hope this helps someone the way it did for me.

Jesus forgave those who wronged Him out of deep love and COMPASSION, even when He was unjustly treated.

❤ His forgiveness was rooted in His understanding of human weakness and His commitment to show mercy.

On the cross, Jesus famously prayed, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing" (Luke 23:34). This shows that even in the face of betrayal and suffering, Jesus chose to see the bigger picture—that people act out of ignorance, fear, or misguided intentions.

Jesus' example of forgiveness teaches that love and mercy are more powerful than anger or resentment.

He didn’t let the wrongs done to Him define His response, but instead, He chose forgiveness as a way to bring healing and reconciliation.

This act of forgiveness is central to His teachings and serves as an example of how we, too, can forgive, EVEN when it’s difficult.

[valerielow]

Such genuine share from you guys. Thank you