My Ex Reached Out Then Disappeared

Have you ever had an ex contact you, and then disappear? Craig talks about when that happens and what could be going on. Often times during a breakup, your ex will reach out... then vanish. Learn what may be going on in this video!

[meganmarie]

They disappear because you reply to anything they throw at you, so you’re actually helping them to move on by showing them you are not going anywhere and they can just reach out to you whenever and you will always be there .

[hennesseyme]

That dude had every right to block her. I can't believe you said he over reacted.

[leonak]

Oftentimes, she is with someone else, and she reaches out when she is alone to mess with your head!

[lovelygirl]

She's obviously playing games with him. I hope he gets over her and finds a good woman.

[katef]

Some people want to play their partner or their ex like a puppet on their fingers. Should draw the line when enough is enough. Too much manipulation and mind games.

[jambexuk]

Blocking her was an excellent move. She sounds like a classic narcissist. Women like that are bad news.

[SuperVincegg]

Yes this happen to me were she contacted me flirted and wanted to see me then decides to cancel due to she isn't ready (she lives about 2 miles away though not in some other country lol) I was like wth, back to no contact. It's hard these days to find a woman to love you and not leave for any silly reason..smh...

[gertwallen]

She's using this guy as a backup plan, very mean and not worth dating

[annyespinal]

He called me saying he needed to see me in person to talk about us, week after called me again saying he misses me asked me out, I agreed but we never meet as he didn’t message again, I’m so proud of myself because it didn’t affect me at all, I got ready on the day of the date and took myself out ❤

[briteidea]

My last ex reached out after over a year.
She felt like I needed to know about her friend who was passing.
I waited 24 hours before responding. As I was on the road and it was late when I got the message.

Probably shouldn’t have responded. But I made a neutral condolences and sympathies response. She responded almost immediately with a thank you.
Been almost 2 months now.

[babydii]

No blocking her is teaching her to come correct and stop wasting his time 💯💯💯

[staceyswope]

I’d say make sure them “work for it” by them trying to meet your expressed needs and also by making an effort to spend quality time together- both in and out of the house!!

[jrc]

Coach, you say after these women disrespect you, dump you, or blow you off ect. to make them “work” hard to get you back when they come back around. Can you make a video and elaborate how you would make them “work” with specific pointers.. I want my ex back and when she reaches out I agree 100% I need to make her work for it.. but, I don’t want to mess it up and push them away for good.. thanks!

[wastingtime]

Great advice. Best way to look at it is are they worth the time? yeah its easier said than done but its a good start showing yourself this once selfless person has showed you who they really are and its obvious its only that way when it suits them. don't feel sad, don't feel envious of their newest partners just reflect because time is now on your terms, not theirs.

[kirkv]

My ex fiancé from four years ago reached out to me, very weird. Not really interested.

[Giovanni-]

He did the right thing, he gave her multiple chances, each time he showed interest back, she went cold. That's not on him, she obviously doesn't know what she wants and nc she still had access to him, she would keep contacting, as long as he responded.

[JCnordic]

I don't think it overreacting, because she's obviously not able to be consistent.

[nezratownsend]

Yes, please! Coach Craig please make a video on what to do if an ex finally reaches out, makes plans then disappears. This happened to me. I wasn't sure what to do but felt it was best to go no contact again. I know I will hear from him again in the future but I'm not sure how to respond when that happens? Thanks! BTW you and Margaret are awesome!

[meishakalashnikova]

Action Speaks Louder and People Tell You Who They Are videos could sum this up. Her pattern of behavior is a major red flag to me.

[Fuckefeller]

I had exact same situation with a male. very selfish, self-absorbed. this woman is no good. he should steer clear and far from her. her behaviour is bordering with emotional abuse. no way, do not go back!