How Does An Ex Come Back and Why?

In this video, Coach Lee walks you through your ex's journey back to you.

He discusses why and how an ex comes back to you after they broke up with you.

Videos Mentioned In This One:

[kimpoypanaligan]

i think the best way is to move on and do what makes you Happy, follow this guy's advice. but expect less.. don't assume that your ex will come back... the more you expect the more you will get hurt and you will never be move on... Just fix yourself first, move on and be happy.. and when you are fully healed... YOU WILL FIND THE ANSWER 😉 SMILE FOR NOW MY FRIEND EVERYTHING WILL BE JUST FINE..

[rajdeepkundu]

No contact
No stalking
No overthink
No dreamy sequence creation
No too much need to back them
No self blaming
No only see videos
Only work on yourself - Gain confidence you will have your own words, thus self respect will also increase and Now you are emotionally independent.😊

[kivofivepointoh]

Self love. Be the star of your movie. Not an extra in theirs. It will attract them to you naturally . ❤️

[Staystrongbrotherx]

Your ex, house, car, phone, job, salary, does not define you. It’s about you. Love yourself and know you’re a good person. Focus inwards, you have the whole world out there. Stay strong.

[trurottination]

Coach lee is 1000% right. Followed his videos for months. I went no contact for 4 months. She reached out and we met up. We talked and I kept things positive and we shared good memories from the start of our relationship. She apologized and said she wanted to continue talking and take things slow. A week later she came over on the weekend and we talked more and then slept together. I still held back and said I was open to working on things but I didn’t want her moving back in. She left and went back to her sisters. I didn’t reach back out until she texted me asking to meet up again. I told her if she wanted to talk then she could come over and that she will have to put in some effort to show me that I am who she wants. I’m taking it slowly. She is coming over this weekend to stay the night and go out on the lake together. I am going to stay strong and let her make the moves and show the effort before I feel comfortable about moving forward. We had a short discussion about why everything happened but both agreed to let things go and start fresh. I am letting her reach out everytime and still not throwing myself back in and won’t for a while. Take it slow!!!! Listen to coach

[ashlieelizabeth]

I absolutely love you Coach Lee. You have such a good heart for doing this. I found you the day after him and I split (about a month in a half ago) and been watching you ever since. I went into no contact immediately the day of---did NC before I knew what it was. Surprisingly, I didn't beg or plead when he broke up with me. I was upset but i gave him the break up. You have held my hand, wiped my tears, and gotten me through this entire process. I binge watch your videos and have done what you've instructed. He's reached out quite a few times and wants to work on our relationship. So far it's working! Just taking things slow. Thank you ❤

Note: To everyone who is in no contact, stay strong baby! *Sending virtual hugs*. Im rooting for all of you to have a success story. I know it is tough and your heart is broken right now. But you got this! We're all in this together. Just breathe. Give them time. Invest love and care into you. Cry it out as much as you need to, it's okay. Eat a good meal, get a good night's sleep. Binge watch some Netflix and just hang out. What is meant to be yours will always be yours. Rest your soul 🌙

[seanano-]

can we just all take a moment to appreciate that fresh new haircut?

[stevointhelou]

Rejection from a Narc is Gods true protection!

[Taran]

No contact works. Take this mans advice. I thought the relationship with my husband was hopeless. It took nearly six months of no contact but he’s actually back, pursuing ME. I even moved four hours away to show him I meant it when I said have a nice life. Now we’re spending every other weekend together.

[TubaSteve]

45 days later, my ex and I are now in constant communication and working our way back to each other. No contact works, Do the mature thing, give them space give them the break up that they asked for. It'll give you time to work on yourself and focus on what makes you happy without a relationship. Then you have all these great things you offer and you have the relationship on top of that.

[patchafl]

I was dumped a year ago he blocked all my contacts. I tried to contact him every where I could for about a month or two until I gave up and moved on focusing on myself. And last week I got a message from him saying he missed me sorry for everything and asked directly for a second chance. Now we are talking. I told him it's past I don't carry the past when things go wrong I forgive myself and move on only remember good things. Because we broke up with nonsense issues that actually was my fault too but he is a gentleman enough to say sorry and wanted to try again he said he forgot how nice it was to beloved by me and missed me terribly. So now we are getting back slowly. When you move on during no contacts make sureyou love yourself enough to move on and focus on yourself wherever they come back or not you make sure you are strong and love yourself.

[paulmiller]

My anxiety after listening to Coach Lee’s voice 📉

[Blue-Rain]

Don’t rush things when your ex try to communicate with you even with a simple text. Keep your cool and greet them in a casual way. Wait until you are positive that you two have a future together.

[jamesg]

He is so right on. I went for a year in misery. My ex left me a year ago. Out of the blue she called me and we went to dinner and talked for 5 hours. We made a date for 2 days later. Went to lunch and for a drive. We ended up spending the night together. Now we are getting together for the weekend at our desert house. Never thought it would happen. The no contact works. Thank you Lee...

[jamesmebane]

James
All my Ex's came back through the years ! I never took any back ! Most became a total wreck I guess by Karma ! Felt sorry for them ! Revenge is mine said the " Lord " !

[cwigg]

I’ve let her have what she thinks she wants, and I don’t contact her. However, she reaches out periodically. I respond, but don’t prolong. I’m leaving her alone, and letting her come to the realization that what we had was truly special. I’ll either be here for her when this happens, or I’ll have moved on. My self esteem is back, and I know my worth and what I brought to our relationship was not something you throw away. It’s either goodbye or see you again soon.

[franjuniorbonnells]

It's been over 6 months or so (lost count actually) since my ex last spoke to me and I still remember the time just after we broke up when I got hooked up to this type of videos. I was filled with anxiety and stress over such small things, like I was eager to hear back from her in order to feel complete. Slowly and eventually I understood that I was always complete and only needed myself in order to feel absolutely fine. This videos kept me going for a while but they also created kinda like a spark of hope for something that wasn't there anymore. To all of you listening, it's not bad to try, but please do not lose yourselves into something that needs to be left behind, you don't need anybody else! The best lover that you'll ever find is freedom and your own personal growth, people around you are just toppings that you can choose to have or not!

Keep it together folks! Peace ✌🏻

[MunawarHussain-jeiq]

When I run after what I think I want, my days are a furnace of stress and anxiety; when I sit in my own place of patience, what I need flows to me, and without pain. From this I understand that what I want also wants me, is looking for me and attracting me. There is a great wisdom here for anyone who can grasp it.

[ellabutad]

Its been two months since my ex broke up with me and yes, I feel you guys! I can't sleep also thinking how this things turned to something I can't understand. But because of Coach Lee's video, I felt relieved and found myself again with respect. We can do this, not now but soon ☺Hope everyone is safe and Im praying that all of us can learn to FALL IN LOVE with our self FIRST, again 💗 Godbless us all.
Remember: You are enough and worthy! Cheers 🥂

[nirvanalove]

Listening to the other coaches makes me very depressed. You give me hope, Coach Lee.