When Will My Ex Reach Out To Me?

People often ask when their ex will reach out to them. You might be wondering, "When will my ex reach out if I am using the No Contact Rule?" In this video, relationship expert, Coach Lee, explains what must take place within your ex before they will reach out to you after a breakup if you are in no contact with them. As Coach Lee explains, patience is key to reuniting with your ex since providing enough time away allows them to get to a place emotionally and mentally where they are ready and motivate to reach out to you. Be sure to watch this important video carefully.

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Trust the process it works my ex came back it was a difficult situation. You would think they wouldn’t come back but they do. 31 days of no contact for me she reached out. Trust what coach lee tells you. The work starts after no contact for sure. You need to be patience and do absolutely no contact. Go through the heartache it will make you strong work on yourself during the time she will notice. Your girl/or guy will not forget you and if they are in rebound relationship it will fail no matter what. They will be thinking of you it will not go away. Thank you coach lee I followed everything and re watched your new and older videos during the process. Like I said the work is after no contact. Be different and be more relaxed in your approach. They will notice don’t be needy I’m telling you. Good luck to those still on no contact 30 days or more it will work for you trust the process.

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To everyone who doubts NC just think about this

1. your partner is never 100% sure to break up ( if yes well your relationship isn’t worth saving anyway)

2. the same feelings you have after getting dumped and overcoming the shock will hit them as soon as their highlife phase is over
All these questions in YOUR head will hit him/her 2-4 weeks later

You both had your good and your bad times but the fact that you miss your partner proofs that there was something wonderful to BOTH of you so every time you think about your partner how beatiful this was how beautiful that was the exact same things will go through his/her head at somepoint

And don’t worry about getting forgotten this will never happen at all not in 1 month not in 4 months or in 20 years
Just stfu and let time do his job

[dingiswayomakukula]

My ex contacted me after 4 months, she sent a flirty text and I answered casually. I think she just wanted an 'ego stroke' because it's been another 4 months of no contact from her side. I have moved on and in love with someone else. Thanks to Coach Lee for his video's that helped me during my darkest days

[jambogb]

It's so nice to know I am NOT the only one going through this shitty time in my life 💖
❤BE STRONG EVERYONE!❤

[madlen]

We must not forget that no contact is about giving them space and your healing and finding out what you really want! What do u need? What did u do wrong? What did he or she do wrong? Dont focus on waiting for them coming back, focus on yourself and be honest about the real reason u want them back. And when they do reach out, have a real and honest conversation with them BEFORE even considering or talking about getting back together because if not, you will end up having the same issues. Take care ❤️

[lutaayam]

Coach’s looking good. Must be working on himself while he waits for his ex

[kathyyoest]

Coach Lee - It was like a miracle that I found your videos after my heart breaking end to an incredible relationship. Three weeks after the initial breakup, we met to give back each other's things and hugged and said we loved each other, but he was very clear that he did not want to get back together. I immediately went into No Contact - and after 2 1/2 extremely anxiety ridden & sad months - He contacted me! We talked about nothing - then the next day he asked me to dinner which I had to decline because I had previous plans. I got a couple of texts but nothing more so I once again went into No Contact. Two weeks later, he contacted me again tonight. We talked for an hour. The break up was due to some of my actions and now being aware of them I'm learning how to deal with my insecurities. Thank you for your informative videos. I'm a big believer in No Contact!

[johanvanderlinden]

The number one thing to focus on during no contact is getting stronger. When you focus on growing your own power during this time, each and every day without contact is a day you have gained in strength. This can only have one of two effects when and if your ex does reach out: (1) Your increased strength, power and confidence makes you more attractive to your ex, increasing your chance of getting them back, or (2) You will realize that you have become so strong, powerful and confident that you no longer want them back. That is a win-win my friends. Coach Lee is right!

[abbsolute]

Coach Lee is doing no contact bombardments once a week now. I love it

[kittisou]

No contact is the hardest thing I have ever do . But thanks coach Lee for all your videos. It helped me tremendously. I kept falling off the wagon, it’s been a year and I kept on contacting my ex and so finally I made up my mind and went on NC, it was so hard and at 21 days my ex text me and during this video I was so happy but it wasn’t about what I thought, it’s about the property he was helping to keep clean and wanted to know if I’ve sold it . Even though I told him I already, now I’m back in NC again, hopefully he reaches out again and this time maybe he wants to get back together. Good luck every one

[DaveSustain]

No contact may work or not, what's important is if they broke up it's their responsibility to make things right. Don't chase. Just stay put.

[arr]

Sometimes they don’t come back. Stay strong and move on.

[Dreamsareareality]

Awesome video. I agree with this. I have done this in the past with other guys. It worked. It even worked on an ex I did not want back. It takes patience and positivity. Work on yourself. It is not always easy. I am right there with you all. Sending you all love. ❤️

[MrShoman]

Guys move on, men or women. Don't wait for your ex to get back or contact you. Yes it hurts, but it's best to focus on today and tomorrow rather than yesterday

[wzortyc]

Thank you Coach Lee for inspiring me and keeping me strong. Day 20 of NC. Guess I am feeling better, not thinking of him too much. I think he will never contact me, or if he does, it will be many years after. My situation is different and because of that I just let my dumper go. Inner peace is utmost for me. And for those who are experiencing a painful hearbreak, put your head up high and pray hard that you go through this.

Update: 41st day of NC, still staying strong!

[monti]

My ex will never come back. She left me without any reason 10 months ago. No signs nothing. Just leaving me and our dog. Unfortunately I know that she never reach out again. It is crazy how you one moment can have a intimate relationship and a few days later are like total strangers. We were 2 years together and it still hurts. Every day.

[shawnpollock]

Me and my ex broke up even though we still loved each other. And I remember the last time coach Lee helped me out before I met her, and I was on top of the world. Now the cycle continues, and I hope she’s the one for me, and if not, I hope I heal and become happy again

[fridasmatrix]

thinking about all the things he told me about how unhealthy our relationship is and how much stress I brought to his life. (He blamed all the recent things on me and he was referring t two years ago when I was jobless during covid lockdown?) and I started to feel as stubborn as he is, perhaps he won’t regret the decision and perhaps he will never really figure out our real problems. It is such a pity because despite our recent issues in the past few months, this relationship was the best one. We thought we were right for each other and never thought that we would become like this one day.

[arkham]

I know my ex isn't going to reach out. 3 weeks after she ended things she got with a new man. It's been a month and a half now and I honestly don't want her back if she ever did try to. I gave her everything, I supported her emotionally and financially and she threw me away like nothing. I deserve someone alot better

[amityjd]

After a 4 year relationship it's been 7/8 months no contact no reach out. I've been seeing someone else. I still think of my ex and still love her in some way. I'm doing alot better then I was. Listen to coach Lee it does get better sooner or later.